When guys say "you're lame" or "you're such a loser", are they flirting?

[Anonymous]

explain please : )

Lame, flirting Loser, not

Loser, flirting Lame, not

If they say either, yes, they're trying to flirt

[lv4lv]

You're missing an option in the poll: "He really thinks I'm lame/ a loser."

[Asker]

Except for we're friends... so how does that work?

[lv4lv]

Well you forgot to add that in the question. - Most likely they're just teasing. I mean two guys can be friends can call each other losers/lame and be 100% cool with each other.

[Asker]

Good point thanks :)

[blah52]

That all depends, are you lame or a loser?

[Asker]

Not really hah, I'm talking about in a joke tone like messing around

[papasmurf]

Valid point

[Asker]

Haha explain papasmurf

[papasmurf]

Let me enlighten you QA: This boy Jermayne is calling you Cynthia a loser. In most societies this is a slappable offense, but here in America (and don't ask me why) it is a sign of flirting. Blah is from one of those 'other' societies and to him being lame and a loser is punishable by death. But no need to worry the founding fathers specifically wrote in the deceleration that it is not a crime to be lame or a loser. In closing I say best of luck to you and Jeremy Cynthia, and god bless the USA.

[polishprancer]

Lmfao

[ryanontario]

no if they say this I doubt they like you much at all

[Asker]

What if your friends..?

[Tylernolastname]

um no it pretty much means ur lame and he thinks ur a looser

[Asker]

Uhh except for we're friends... so how does that work?

[Anonymous]

Yes theyre flirting. If your friends with them and your even a little bit attractive then obviously haha. I do it ALL the time.

[Asker]

Okay thanks, from that, how can you tell if they're interested or just being flirty?

[Opinion Owner]

Uhhhhh...haha you can't fully tell bbuuut if you get a good vibe or a nice gaze or some touching mixed in with being called that then they MIGHT like you. Best way to know is to talk to them about your/their feelings, gets that monkey off your shoulder. Ya feel me? lol

[Asker]

Orrrr it can make things really awkward haha

[Opinion Owner]

Worth the risk imo haha

[Asker]

But there should be a way to make it a little more clear before embarrassing myself..

[Opinion Owner]

Then just use google lol. https://www.wikihow.com/Show-a-Guy-That-You-Like-Him