My male personal trainer spanked my butt today?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing him for a couple weeks now and he's been really flirty with me. Throwing out sexual innuendos and very touchy. So today I was doing leg lifts and he comes over and asks me what number I am on and I said something around 60 and he spanks my a** and says "yeah!" It kinda put me off guard... I didn't say anything because I was just confused as to why he spanked me. I mean he's married but all the while flirts with me, touches me and by I mean touch I do not mean adjusting me... and then spanks my a**? What is going on?

[xHoneyxBeex]

If bothers you, you should tell him you are uncomfortable with that level of physical contact and ask him to refrain from doing that. If he keeps doing it, find a new personal trainer.

There could be many reasons why he is doing it. He could be attracted to you and wants an excuse to touch you. Or maybe that's just his personality and he acts like that with all of his clients. Either way though, if it makes you uncomfortable then you should speak up and if he can't control his hands, find a new trainer who is more professional.

[gigi5678]

uh one why do you have a male personal trainer if his flirting is bothering you then get a new one if you don't you obviously don't mind... don't fuck him if he's married it won't turn out well but i mean if he wasn't and he's hot then yeah girl go for it lol but no married = bad news

[Straightedge_Atheist]

What the hell is a 13 year old child doing giving advice on such an ADULT matter?

[gigi5678]

@Straightedge_Atheist being right

[Straightedge_Atheist]

Right about what? You are not mentally mature enough to answer let alone understand.
You are a child.

[gigi5678]

@Straightedge_Atheist actually i'm a teenager and teenagers have this built in mode called sass and attitude something which i have plenty of, i also have experience and yes i am 13 you're 23, your brain isn't fully matured yet either. don't judge someone based on their age and since you didn't ask the question, i really don't care what you think about my opinion because it's just that. MY opinion. if you have a different one, as you seem to based off of your reaction to my age, congratulations. but think about this: if you saw my opinion and it said my age was say, 22, you'd accept it without a second thought. society's perceptions of teenagers or as you call us, "children", has brought us to this very moment where you, a middle aged man, is insulting me, a teenage girl, for having her own opinion and offering it without being ashamed. the only thing i'm ashamed of is the fact that our society has come to the point where they have to put down fucking teenagers to feel good so fuck you

[Straightedge_Atheist]

You have experience? lolol what a messed up trashy generation.
Lmao if I were a middle aged man I would be 50 do you even maths? You can call yourself whatever you like it doesn't change the fact that you are a child whose parents failed you.

[gigi5678]

@Straightedge_Atheist get yourself hard on a picture of your ex girlfriend, snap your dick in half with a chainsaw, and go. fuck. yourself. because you have literally just proved my point. you sir are arguing with a 13 YEAR OLD GIRL about a random comment on a random website. *slow clap* and thank you my generation is a trashy one but you know what? i fucking embrace it because i'm glad that it's a place where i can be myself and do whatever the hell i set my mind to and not be judged by snotty, low life assholes like you.

[Straightedge_Atheist]

Lmao so aggressive and full of anger.
And you're proud that your generation is full of lazy delinquents who have unplanned pregnancies? You are proud that you are the generation of fighting and mercilessly beating each other up and then posting it on social media with idiots yelling "world star world star"?

Good luck in life with that attitude.

[gigi5678]

@Straightedge_Atheist good luck finding a wife who likes it when you talk to teenagers like this, ooh i can't wait until you have a kid won't it be great when they storm out on you because you called them lazy delinquents? huh. interesting way to put it in perspective isn't it? oh and by the way, thanks for wishing me good luck, i'll be sure to look back on this and think "huh, remember that time a stranger called me a delinquent online when he doesn't know me or who i am just because i tried to be helpful? yeah i don't either lets move on with our lives." good luck to you to bud

[Straightedge_Atheist]

I said your generation not you specifically. Learn to read.

And I am done with this conversation you can block me if you want cause Im not responding anymore.

[Asker]

HEY NOW. I didn't post this question to have two people rip each other a new one. To anyone's curiosity I am 21 and my trainer is 50 but looks 38... lol and yes I have a male trainer because all my female trainers in the past didn't push me hard enough so I switched it up. And to Gigi I have had my fair share of older men which includes married ones. I will not explain my reasons for it but that's how my life has panned out. But for one thing sleeping with this trainer is not on my to do list. Even though he is super hot I can't bring myself to do it. But to the both of you lets play nice.

[Straightedge_Atheist]

Why can't you exercise by yourself? And why can't you go for guys your own age and who aren't married?

And the fact that this man is making sexual advances whilst being married shows that he is not a good man has a poor moral character. "omagerd he's hot" is not a justification to sleep with someone when that person is married. Do you ever think of his wife? Would you like to be in her shoes?

[gigi5678]

asker: i didn't mean to insult you in any way shape or form i was simply trying to defend myself against someone who was insulting my character and motivations. i sincerely apologize if any of my words caused you harm. obviously i have not had as much life experience as you so therefore i have not been exposed to certain events but i am very respectful of your activities and choices in life, as they are your own opinions. there is no need to defend yourself to me i'm genuinely not judging you. again, i'm sorry if i ruined your night by you having to read through this. have a good rest of your night.

[Asker]

@Straightedge_Atheist having a trainer has its benefits. At least my body will always look healthy and tight. So that answers your question. And to the married guy thing like I said above. I DO NOT NEED TO EXPLAIN MYSELF. SO YOUR WELCOME.

[Asker]

Lol you didn't ruin my night at all. Just was reading through the comments and this conversation caught my eye.

[Asker]

@Straightedge_Atheist did I say I was going to sleep with him? I stated I was not. So quit twisting my words. Thanks.

[gigi5678]

ok good. have a good night :)

[Straightedge_Atheist]

@gigi5678
lol at "insulting my character and motivations" hilarious. So simply pointing out that you are a child and for that reason you have no place to answer this question is "insulting you"? lmao.

People trying to be victims lololol.

[OrangeBoy]

@Straightedge_Atheist She was polite with you, and gave a complete good answer, compared to the rest. What's your point with this? You sound a 50 yo guy. A 13 yo person can even talk about deeper things than this one.

[gigi5678]

@OrangeBoy thanks

[Straightedge_Atheist]

@OrangeBoy
Just because they can doesn't mean they should. Where do you draw the line huh? You sick man. Did you talk about sex and give sexual advice when you were 13 years old? I for one didn't.

there's too many male feminists white knights on this website. Hilarious.

[OrangeBoy]

@Straightedge_Atheist You are a joke. Hasta.
@gigi5678 never stop giving your opinion about watever you wish.

[Straightedge_Atheist]

@OrangeBoy
Sick man.

[gigi5678]

@Straightedge_Atheist shut up he's a good person unlike you

[Straightedge_Atheist]

lmao having an opinion you don't like makes a person bad?
You have a very skewed sense of morality.
by the way you're defending a 30 something year old man who thinks it's ok for a 13 year old child to say sexual things regardless of the context.

[gigi5678]

@Straightedge_Atheist whatever i'm done with you
@orangeboy thanks for the help dude, i appreciate it

[Straightedge_Atheist]

If Im allegedly a troll why don't you just block me? You clearly love the attention you're getting which is the definition of a troll.

Just block me ffs Im tired of responding to you.

[Anonymous]

He's probably attracted to you and thinks he can get away with this with no harm to his relationship.

[Galvin]

I don't know do you flirt back? you only give his actions but not yours. but it seems how you put it is that he only flirts etc anyways that's unprofessional and probably having fun with you because he's the trainer and you need him for workouts

[Anonymous]

Because he's the only personal trainer where you live... right

[Pizzalover101]

Tell him its inappropriate an souds like he likes to see who can be his mistress on the side

[Anonymous]

maybe he's unhappy

it's unprofessional of course, but, ya never know unless you ask

[ubilockon]

edit this question with what you did.

[Asker]

Haha oh trust me I plan on it

[jacquesvol]

He wants to have sex

[rufurrealz]

he's married? he wants to fuck, what do u think?

[lord_chilled]

He wants to fuck you in the butt

[fahadc]

he wants to fuck you. thats whats up

[tylerd41]

he's married do not play his game