I want my boyfriend to talk to me more?

[Anonymous]

we have been together for two years. I don't like to complain if I ask for one thing I feel like I'm complaining. all I want is my boyfriend to text me more. it would make my day if he would just say good morning beautiful or just good morning and text me like two more times or something. I don't know. I know he's busy at work but he's not that busy were he can't talk to me all day. he texts me like twice a day and calls me at night at 1030 we talk for 10 minutes maybe 15 then he says he's tired or just says goodnight. all I want is for him to talk to me more. I wish I could see him everyday.. I absolutely love him with my whole heart so much and I tell him that and write notes to him that tell him how much I love him. he's never writes me a note.. I wish he would just show how much he loves me like I do for him. when were together we have so much fun like the best time together and he buys me stuff like clothes and other stuff. but what makes me mad is that he made a schedule to hang out with me like his friend gets Fridays and I gets Saturday he's freaking 18 and I only get to see him once a week, I don't think he even tries hard enough to see me. also like last Friday he went to the street races by himself? he didn't even ask if I wanted to go and he knows I've never been to one and I want to go. I told him that made me mad because when you have a girlfriend you don't go to that kind of stuff without taking the other like I wouldn't go to a club by myself if he didn't get to go that's just messed up because he knows guys would be hitting on me. and I don't like it that me and my dude friend can talk on the phone for hours about random sh*t and laugh about it and me and my boyfriend can't even talk for longer than 15 minutes. but I also want to just make him happy and I'm really trying hard not to fight with him anymore its no fun and I just want to talk to him like me and my dude friend do... so what do you think?

[Masiah]

hey...i really think that you should give him some space now. I m not saying that you are not giving him enough space but don't go after him. Just let him realise by himself that he should talk to u. Just try to talk to him a little more less. Like try to involve with other things. Even sometimes just don't reply for his messages on right time. Just reply for the messages like 30 min or 1 hr late and if he asks for it then tell him that ur cell was somewhere else. or may be that you didn't realize that you have got any new messages. Just avoid a little bit of him. I think sometime later he will come back to u. and when he would ask you anything like why are you not talking to him lately. Then you can tell him the whole story and what you think about that. I guess after that he would understand ur position. Sometimes it's good to have some gaps. It makes relationship stronger.

take care

[Asker]

Thankyou for your advice it helped alot

[azzhole725]

Some guys just don't open up. He's not with you so he can express his opinions and talk to you like a therapist. He's with you because he is attracted to you and ultimately to allay his sexual needs. He's an independent guy. He does things without you. You should do the same. So what if other guys hit on you? As long as you don't do anything with the guy, it's okay. I know you want more romance; that's what most women want. However, he's not that type of a guy. You can keep on bitching at him and drive him away even further, or you can just enjoy the ride. Besides, being away from each other is a good thing. He won't get tired of you, and you won't get tired of him. When you do get a chance to spend time with him, isn't it more rewarding? You appreciate him more. If you want to spend more time with him and go to these events, ask if you can go with him.

[Asker]

Thankyou that helped alot