.There is this guy who has been doing construction work for his dads company (we are both 18) who seemed to like me. So, I asked him to come to a chocolate tasting event that I was running. He showed up, and even took notes on the chocolate. and then he asked me to sit with he and his brother in law for dinner. After, he gave me his number. I texted him mine. The following night, he texted me "when can I take you out" so I suggested a few weekdays and he asked if I was free that weekend. I told him no, because I was going away, but i'd be back monday. I called him on sunday night (3 days after texting ) to let him know I was returning, and left a message.
It has been 5 days since he asked me out and no reply! what happened?
It has been 5 days since he asked me out and no reply! what happened?
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OK, so almost 6 days later he texted me to tell me that he was by my house and how I am doing.
i said I'm good, and asked if he still wanted to go out, and he texted me back "Yeah, whenever we're both free ;) " this was while he was working.
i said I'm good, and asked if he still wanted to go out, and he texted me back "Yeah, whenever we're both free ;) " this was while he was working.
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and then I texted him back "good, when are you free?" and it has been a long time since then, likke 6 hours. he's probably still working but I hope he's not playin with me.
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OK, so now it is the next morning after yesterdays texting, and he is working by my house again. he obviously had the initiative to ask me out last week, but is he shy now or something . If you reflect upon the last 2 updates, I feel like he is .
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making small talk and is apparently shy.he asked me "hows it going" and how are things? in two texts of one convo. and then I had to be the one to say "you still want to go out." and his reply "thats good. yeah, whenever we're both free" lacks.
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a sense of urgency. what should I do?
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I guess you are going have to take charge of this if you want to make it happen. If you wait on him, it's not going to happen.
You should ask yourself if this is behavior you can tolerate and accept over a long period of time.
Something may have happened to him. You said he works construction. Not to add panic, but accidents do happen.
Good luck!
You think that could be the only thing? I certainly hope that that's not the case, plus I think I would have heard if there was some disaster... Do you think he could have changed his mind or found some hotter girl and forgot about me? Or do some guys just have no clue and take this long to respond?
I greatly appreciate your help!
Ah, after reading your updates.
Not so much some guys, just some people are flaky airheads. I'm sure he's a nice guy, but just be aware that he's flaky going in, and you won't feel disappointed later.
maybe there's something wrong with his phone.just wait a little while and see what happens
I just can't help but assume he lost interest. :( I appreciate you optimism though!