Do I seem like a whore? What am I doing to give off that vibe? Why are guys calling me this?

Anonymous
-VIRGIN. BUT, I've dated a LOT of guys...

I've been called a whore a lot recently by quite a bit of guys including my recent ex. My recent Ex & I ended badly with me walking away cause, he has insane controlling,jealousy,insecurity issues..i've been called a whore before by a guy, it was never a serious comment, usually a joke. once or twice I've been seriously called a whore by a guy in the past. But, every since my former boyfriend came in the picture more & more guys have been calling me a whore.

The first time we broke up, things were cool,we went to being "friends" of course we still liked each other, flirted constantly. He would always make perverted jokes, I'd play along. One day he got up to go to the teacher, his friends in front of me turned around &, asked me how far he and I have gone..if we'd get back together..i told him it was none of his business & that I didn't know. then he asked me if I deep throat-ed him...i said hell no. a why would you ask that? he came back,his friend turned around. he started to flirt like usual..i tried to ignore him but he took my mp3 play & put it "down" his pants..so I got it back..annoyed. he laughed,then his friend turned around ...my ex grabbed my mp3 play again & when I went to reach for it , tried to put my hand on his d***. I was p*ssed, he laughed and his friend called him dirty..and started joking around asking if I was a freak and he bet I was etc. I texted him later, asked him if he spread any rumors bout me because in the next class two guys kept making bj gestures at me...he never replied to my question. months later he and I dated again... I love to party. I'm a party girl. I have a lot of guys for friends..i love to do crazy stuff. I just get along with guys better. And I won't deny that I love to flirt. but, in a relationship I'm completely loyal. we fought a lot in our relationships cause my friends(guys),he'd even get p*ssed when I talk to one of my gay friends for hours on the phone. what made me decide to walk away was one night one of my friends came over & was just hanging out I told him about it he flipped out on me calling me a whore. saying that he was flirting(when he wasn't) said he knew I f***ing liked it because I'm a whore that plays with people emotions. after the fight I asked him if he still wanted me, or liked me..he couldn't make up his mind so I left. The guys that have been calling me a whore say these are the reasons IN THEIR point of view why I'm a whore.

1. "No way can a girl with so many guys as friends can be as loyal as she puts off to be, there has to be something going on. A REASON she has so many"

2.may I say one of the dumbest reasons I've heard -"You have big boobs"

3."you go to too many parties and, you say you're a virgin? no you have to be a whore."

4."you've dated a LOT of guys"

5."You're a flirt"

6."cause, you just are"

From what I told you do I REALLY 'seem' like a whore?

do you think he has anything to do with my current prob ?

what should I do
Do I seem like a whore? What am I doing to give off that vibe? Why are guys calling me this?
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