I'm super embarrassed! My girl is so fat!

[Anonymous]

Ive been dating a girl in England for a year, and have just brought her home to Canada. Problem is, she is super heavy, and I have avoided showing her to my friends! I even have a "back up " girl I've been using and showing her off to my buddies. And the "friends" she has met, have only been random people I've paid a 5er off the streets to pretend they know me. I know this is wrong, but it feels right. Any tips

[EldaMaria]

There is a lot of prejudice with weight and a lot of social pressure for men who like to date heavy women. So I can understand why you've gone through such efforts to avoid this conflict. The real issue starts with how important she is to you. How do you really feel about this girl? Do you really care about her? Is she someone special to you? If she is important? If yes, then at some point you are going to have to face down your friends. If they are your friends and you let them know straight up your not going to tolerate any crap from them they will respect you and hold their tongues. However if you are not sure how you feel about her and your not sure if this relationship is going anywhere then I guess it doesn't really matter so long as she doesn't find out and she isn't hurt by it. If you like heavy women, you will eventually have to stand up and defend your woman. No woman wants a man who won't stand up for her.

[Dorina]

What you are doing is very very wrong. You are lying to all the people around you and the girls you are daying. It's not fair to anybody that you do this.

You should tell her the truth about your friends and about what you feel about her weight. You must not like this girl enough to see past her physical appreances. You should either tell everybody the truth about the girl you've been seeing and apologize to her as well, or stop seeing her. You can't do this forever you know.

Good luck with what you've gotten yourself into.

[iamsocool7]

If you seriously love her you shouldn't play games like that. People you love stick around a hell of a lot longer than most friends trust me. Besides, if they are your true friends I'm pretty sure they won't beat you up about your personal dating choices. If they do they're d***s and you need better friends.

[peter98]

messed up bro. why date her then if she embarrassed u?

tell your freinds the truth, its your choice. reap what you sow

[Anonymous]

Reason number 5,951 why I would make Canada an ocean if I was President.

[Asker]

Reason number 5951 doesn't make sense. I think 5952 ...turning that sh*t hole america into something better

[Opinion Owner]

Ya, I'd have a boat hunt for your killer whale girlfriend. Better tell her to stay away from the sonar.

[kayles]

if your embarressed of her then why are you actually with her!

get a grip and sort it out, if you don't love her or even like her then why are you playing her like you are?

[the_cheshire_cat]

you pathetic arse. Sure you're not 10? I can't believe I read this... are you SERIOUSLY canadian? I'm embarassed for you. Any 'tips' I'd give you would be from the sidewalk in front of a bus.

[Anonymous]

If you are embarrassed of her, you should not be dating her. What you are doing is a douche bag move, not going to lie, you are going to end up hurting her sooner or later. End it with her now, what you are doing is disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Heavy hotties have feelings too kid.