19 year old virgin crushing on 40 year old man?

[Anonymous]

Please don't judge. I'm a 19 year old girl with very little experience (never given any "favours" either) and I have a crush on this 40 year old man I met at a previous job. A month in at my new place I'm finding that he's still on my mind.. I've been told countless times I'm mature for my age, and many guys mistake me for someone much older.

He's always smiled at me, complimented my hair, and asked me lots of questions about myself. Now don't know what to do because I constantly think about us being intimate together and it feels like I'm gonna explode of sexual frustration. We lost contact, and I don't have his number but I obviously know where to find him if I need to lol... What should I do?

[carlsgold]

This is a great question, remember all older men or teenage boys and young men at one time and overtime can have become very experienced at sex and how to please a woman. Guys today all they care about is playing video games texting other guys and other stupid things, they don't know how to treat a girl like a woman. Older men have been taught since the day they were young teenage boys to go after girls, when girls get themselves all dolled up and pretty and flirt with guys to get their attention. Older men never forget this they were taught well. If a younger woman cannot find what she needs from a young man of her age there's nothing wrong with going after an older gentleman will give her what she needs

[Asker]

You don't think your answer is biased because you would fit under "older men?"

[slatyb]

If he's single and you really want to, ask him out. From your description of his behavior, he will be thrilled. You will have to ask him if you want something to happen. Nice 40 year-old guys are very reluctant to hit on 20-year-old women because they don't want to be Roy Moore.

[Asker]

Who's Roy Moore? What did he do?

[slatyb]

Roy Moore is the defeated Alabama senate candidate. Multiple women accused him of hitting on them when he was in his 30's and they were still in high school.

[slatyb]

Next question -- why is he single? And what do you imagine will come of this relationship? It's not impossible, I know a woman who married a guy 27 years older and they had a great marriage until his health failed.

[Asker]

As far as I know, I'm not too sure. I know he's never been married and WAS dating, and that he doesn't have any children. Is that typical of men in their 40s? I did figure that most would have settled down by now?

[slatyb]

It's not typical but that doesn't mean you won't be great together. Ask him out if you want, just don't rush into anything. Good luck.

[jennifer_bloom]

My 17 year old best friend liked a 40 year old man when we were in high school. At the time it seemed normal cause we had no idea how immature we both really were. You will grow out of this.

[katjakazuhira]

No there's nothing wrong with it. Go for it, see what happens. Age isn't everything.

[BipBipLeddus]

Hol' up... Is that Bob Odenkirk?

[TripleAce]

New a girl yor exact age that decided to date him
4 years later and she is ruined!
She will never be the same because of it

Dating that much older will change you forever. And usually in a bad way

[baby181036]

All girls are mature than a guy of the same age, but not a guy who is double her age. Secondly , in this scenerio, he should run after you but not you. Thirdly what is the opinion of your parents or you want to elope with the guy？I think you must be studying&if so, it would be best to concentrate on your studies

[AndyD96]

If you want to be nice and friendly, you do exactly what he did.

Maybe ask him out for a drink or something. If it's solely because you like older men, I volunteer being 2 years older.

[mjmotta109]

You need to meet new people
You can be his daughter I mean it's not healthy.
Make sports and socialise. There is a whole world for you
It it is too bad, you can go on vacation to. Colombia by example.

[SophieCharlotte]

I just think that you're first should be with someone you love so even if that means that it is a 40 year old guy

[Daddywolfe]

Well if your desire running high in anticipation explore the possibilities and widen your horizons enjoy your sexuality

[WalterRadio]

That has happened to me.

We solved her virginity problem.

[lovelyhoneybones]

Bruuuuuuuuh, I literally crush on any dude that looks in my direction.

[Goochbreaker]

If you get married you will be an early widow. I'd try to stick within a decade of eachother

[Adream]

If he's what you want go for it why stop yourself from what can be something amazing

[Revolver_]

age only determines who is going to most likely die first, so it really doesn't matter if you love him as you're both going to end up in the same place anyway

[MohammedAZ]

Go to him
Don't let the age difference split u from each other

[Anonymous]

nothing thats fucked up maybe he has a wife and kids or he was just being friendly thats so stupid to want to be with someone twice your age

[John__]

This is beyond creepy

[Anonymous]

Masturbate and meet new men.

[Anonymous]

Well did you end up dating him

[Anonymous]

Like conversations

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Eww...

[Bigdaddyslim01]

Lol what a low cunt

[Cutedork841]

Just ask him out!

[mactallica]

Well it's legal

[MAC42]

Go for it

[countryboy7769]

Age shouldn't matter