Nothing I do is ever god enough for my wife

[Exploited_1986]

i work morning and when I come home between 5-6 I clean and cook dinner and every time I do something its wrong or not good enough. when we sleep be side each other she pushes me away. we haven't made love in a month. I don't know what I'm doing wrong here.

[Louise123]

YOu're not doing anything wrong. She is. She's being selfish and demanding. What are you doing working all day and then having to cook dinner? What is she doing all day? Why is she pusing you away? You won't know unless you ask her. She's p*ssed about something - maybe she has a real reason or not. But she owes it to you to tell you. Have dinner with her and when you are done... ask her.. " I feel you are angry about something and we need to talk about this. Your happiness means everything to me and I need you to tell me why I feel that everything I do lately is wrong." If she can't tell you... you have an even bigger problem. You two are very young to have married - huge responsibility - and she could be feeling restless, bored, disappointed... all which would have little to do with you. It could be about HER and she's taking it on you. She owes you an explanation. And please.. stop cooking dinner when you get home. You deserve to rest after a long day. I don't care if she makes you a sandwich.. That should NOT be your responsibility, Sweetie. Marriage is a partnership.. You're doing your part. What's she doing? Maybe she doesn't want to be married anymore - maybe she met another guy.. You won't know til you ask. Good luck, Sweetie.

[Exploited_1986]

Omg your epic I hope to get to know you more. thsnks for the tips and to your questions. She works. we talk all the time and she's not cheating on me.

[Louise123]

Glad to hear she's not cheating on you. ( I didn't think my guy was either..... Surprise!!!).. Anyway.. if she works..... and you work..... why don't you take turns making dinner or pop for a pizza - ? You deserve to relax. So does she. Food, however, is not your largest problem. I still say.. she needs to talk to you. She owes you that. If she doesn't? Bad sign. She's angry about something. Find out what. Good luck.

[Guitarkel]

U sound like a proper decent guy and she needs reminding of that sit down and talk see what's bothering her she might just be stressed about work or something bothering her and normally you take it out on the person who's going to be there for you the person who I care about the most x

[monigirl627]

Wow! Your so not doing anything wrong she doesn't appreciate you but this is a point where you need to sit down with her and communicate you feelings see where she is at or if she is or isn't happy with you. I hope she is being faithfull to you but trust me you need to talk to her...

[Exploited_1986]

Awws your sweet thank you I hope to have move adice from you

[Phoenix52]

I personally think you're doing too much for her. You're putting HER on the pedestal and giving her power by doing too many things on her behalf.

Stop the affection and start ignoring her for a bit. Go dine out with a couple friends, or go out and meet up with one of your woman friends or even meet new girls.

Stop kissing her butt and worry about your own.

[TC123]

Quit doing things for her and ask her what the hell her problem is - it could be something so stupid, so simple that you are overlooking it and when you find out you'll run outside and bang your head against the nearest telephone pole.

[Exploited_1986]

Cool thanks man

[rikooprate]

Sounds like you're doing nothing wrong, but there's two sides to every story and somewhere in the middle is the truth. You should try talking to her to see where her resentment lies. Does she work, or does she stay at home while you work?

[Exploited_1986]

She works and we do talk. and I like to surprise her and clean and she stoill nit picks

[rikooprate]

Be a man and tell her to shut the f*ck up then. lol

[Guitarkel]

Women just go through these stages. Trust me I'm a woman and dating another woman yes I'm a lesbian and I've gotta say some women are never happy just buy her flowers or something to cheer her up for a bit maybe she feels lonely. Does she work aswel?

[Exploited_1986]

She does. I do buy her flowers. and make her food run her buble baths.

[Guitarkel]

Have you done something wrong that shemight have found out about? You might just both need to sit down and talk about how you feel.

[quackingkafreen]

First step to every situation, talk to her about it.