Because you're 48 and nobody actually pays that attention to you. You could've bought some, especially cool to have a 20-25 y. o. lover who's paying his way to college lol. Try some fresh meat!
Because they want to see if their still attractive or still have game to even though there married and because u like him and r attracted to him he got your attention
well two reasons good guys that talk are hard to find. The other maybe he is just being nice , nothen wrong with that if his wife knows that your talking , i mean adults can talk without having to make something of it. So set up those kinda rules and start to talk to him again , maybe he has a single friend etc etc. The Texas Gent
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sorry he really isn't worth your time say he gets rid of wife then you marry him. What if he cheats on you with another woman. Its the fantasy with him your liking and the sexual talk and intamacy you shared with him. Hopefully you can find a guy who wants only you.
Sometimes I imagine it's done so they can see if 'they've still got it', & there isn't any real intent for infidelity. Realistically thoughx that's probably not the real reason most men do it.
I'm black but it's true. in the black community they can't get along with one another for two minutes. they gossip in the church and preach about others personal lives but sinning in the background
Maybe his relationship with his wife wasn't working out, and he was kinda lonely and he looked for company with you. Or maybe he's just the guy who likes to flirt. You should talk to him and see what comes out of it.
You have feelings for the man. You involved a rational thought about how and what you’re expecting from your future. You decided to stop. Rationally. And you failed to consult your emotional self. And now you’re upset because you’re missing him. There is a dissonance between what you feel and what you think. Men are simpler with conclusions. Either go with your emotions and let your ratio help you to get what you want, or let your ratio lead and shut up the emotions. Don’t use both.
I agree and she knew it was bad from the start. the minute he did it she should've stopped it the fact she flirted back then final used her brain and realized he's a married now she wants to complain. he's never leaving his
@lilmissumshine Right. I think that emotions and rational thinking is not separated strongly in womens brains (the corpus calossum is too permeable for that). Because of the task to understand babies before they are verbal. They call it "empathizing". So it often happens that girls think their feelings are ratio and their ratio is feelings. It has different amplitudes individually. So all women are the same in this aspect and completely different in severity. In her case the emotional part was the more dominant one in phase 1. And the ratio the stronger one in phase 2. Too bad. After a rational conclusion has been drawn, ratio disappears and emotions remain. In this case rational thinking must continue until emotions are buried.
I suppose they want to see if they've still got it, enjoy the challenge and excitement, maybe are missing something in their relationship i. e. attention since having a baby etc
He think you are an easy target. He see the thing you want, but he going to play with your emotions.
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Flirting is good for your health. It's not a necessity that you need to be in love with that person to flirt. Enjoy while it lasts, but keep him at a distance physically, coz first of all, you're in a church and secondly, it's wrong to break a house.
Because you developed feelings or an attachment for him
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Haven’t you heard, when a guy wears a wedding ring going out, he gets hit on way more than without one, girls say it’s because there is a comfort zone but I don’t know... it’s true regardless
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Because you're 48 and nobody actually pays that attention to you. You could've bought some, especially cool to have a 20-25 y. o. lover who's paying his way to college lol. Try some fresh meat!
Because they want to see if their still attractive or still have game to even though there married and because u like him and r attracted to him he got your attention
well two reasons good guys that talk are hard to find. The other maybe he is just being nice , nothen wrong with that if his wife knows that your talking , i mean adults can talk without having to make something of it. So set up those kinda rules and start to talk to him again , maybe he has a single friend etc etc. The Texas Gent
sorry he really isn't worth your time say he gets rid of wife then you marry him. What if he cheats on you with another woman.
Its the fantasy with him your liking and the sexual talk and intamacy you shared with him.
Hopefully you can find a guy who wants only you.
For the same reason some married women flirt with men. To get laid I guess
some men have no morals... no problem solving skills, and are entitled. but not all marred men do that
For the show, you know men they want to show their friends that they are not dope but very good at getting a new dish.
Women do that too. People enjoy flirting. Personally I see nothing wrong with it, as long as there is no actual intent other than the flirting itself.
Sometimes it's just done as a little harmless flirting. That's when it's just a little flirting, with no attempt to follow up.
Sometimes I imagine it's done so they can see if 'they've still got it', & there isn't any real intent for infidelity. Realistically thoughx that's probably not the real reason most men do it.
This kinda proves George Carlin's theory that claims people go to church to flirt and compare clothing.
In black churches they do that. i go to a white, Latino, and Asian church now and have zero problems
@lilmissumshine Racism over churches. Talk about the love of Jesus
I'm black but it's true. in the black community they can't get along with one another for two minutes. they gossip in the church and preach about others personal lives but sinning in the background
So you tell him to cut it out but you keep calling and texting him?
Maybe his relationship with his wife wasn't working out, and he was kinda lonely and he looked for company with you.
Or maybe he's just the guy who likes to flirt.
You should talk to him and see what comes out of it.
Because you have confused rational thinking with emotions. A standard problem that women have.
Please explain
You have feelings for the man. You involved a rational thought about how and what you’re expecting from your future. You decided to stop. Rationally. And you failed to consult your emotional self. And now you’re upset because you’re missing him. There is a dissonance between what you feel and what you think. Men are simpler with conclusions. Either go with your emotions and let your ratio help you to get what you want, or let your ratio lead and shut up the emotions. Don’t use both.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏.
I agree and she knew it was bad from the start. the minute he did it she should've stopped it the fact she flirted back then final used her brain and realized he's a married now she wants to complain. he's never leaving his
Wife for her. reality hit I suppose
@lilmissumshine Right. I think that emotions and rational thinking is not separated strongly in womens brains (the corpus calossum is too permeable for that). Because of the task to understand babies before they are verbal. They call it "empathizing".
So it often happens that girls think their feelings are ratio and their ratio is feelings. It has different amplitudes individually. So all women are the same in this aspect and completely different in severity.
In her case the emotional part was the more dominant one in phase 1. And the ratio the stronger one in phase 2. Too bad. After a rational conclusion has been drawn, ratio disappears and emotions remain. In this case rational thinking must continue until emotions are buried.
I suppose they want to see if they've still got it, enjoy the challenge and excitement, maybe are missing something in their relationship i. e. attention since having a baby etc
Unhappy married men will flirt, plus the wedding ring attracts women like flies to honey
He think you are an easy target. He see the thing you want, but he going to play with your emotions.
Flirting is good for your health. It's not a necessity that you need to be in love with that person to flirt. Enjoy while it lasts, but keep him at a distance physically, coz first of all, you're in a church and secondly, it's wrong to break a house.
Because you developed feelings or an attachment for him
Haven’t you heard, when a guy wears a wedding ring going out, he gets hit on way more than without one, girls say it’s because there is a comfort zone but I don’t know... it’s true regardless