Partly because everyone flirts, to some degree everyone finds it pleasurable and fun to do. It's a natural part of human interaction.
The other aspect I would put it on is a faction of modern culture that REVOLVES around cheating. For some people it's become sport to have a girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife and to challenge themselves to have an affair... Or as many as they can till it all falls apart. It's possibly a form of an addiction disorder. They're addicted to the spicy beginning of a relationship when they find out that a long term relationship doesn't feature that past the first few months.
u 1. Most married men do not flirt.
2. If he was REALLY happy with his marriage, he WOULDN'T flirt, would he? So, he must not be all that damned happy.
3. Some people of both sexes simply do not respect their vows and they flirt and cheat as if it is a recreational sport. Don't overgeneralize; most people are better than that!
He wants to see if he can still attract women while married. It's best you don't give them attention, their mostly trouble. I would never do that. And I cannot stand married men and men dating who do that to me. It's very disrespectful. It's not that it's a part of him. What it is is that he wants an excuse to continue to do bad behavior. If his wife is there I'm pretty sure, unless she goes that way too , that she would not be happy and he's going to get an earful by the time he gets home.
Flirting is fun, it's an ego boost and it's energising. It gives a similar feeling as a girls night with nail polish and movies can give actually, as it's social and makes you feel good about yourself.
It's harmless if done right, but dangerous if he doesn't know how to signal that he has no further intentions. Don't let a guy like that hurt you, it's not his intention to.
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I'm married and I flirt just cuz its fun😊
Depends on the situation, for some of us that's just the way we talk to women, kind and sweet (old fashioned? Maybe you would call it), it has nothing to do with wanting sex just being polite. Then there's the guys that will hit on anything with legs even if they are with someone to try and get as much sex as possible. I was raised to treat women with respect and treat them as well as I possibly can, I'm not flirting or hitting on a girl it's just how I was brought up. Now if I was calling her sexy or saying she has a nice ass, but if I tell a girl I met and decide to strike up a conversation with she's pretty I'm just complimenting her and trying to be as nice as I can, If I was happily married I wouldn't intentionally flirt, sometimes it just sounds like we are when we are just trying to be nice.
Because we are NOT MONOGAMOUS CREATURES!
We are Polyamorous creatures by default.
But we've been slut shamed and sex shamed because of Christianized indoctrination since birth. Before the white man came with his horse shit bible, virtually *ALL* Native American Tribes were polyamorous with wife swapping everywhere. The white, pilgrim, Christian INVADERS were appalled by this type of behavior (among other things) and they literally boiled MILLIONS of Natives in hot water cauldrons, taunting and laughing at the Natives as CHILDREN OF SATAN. This world has been cursed with these Abrahamic Death Cult beliefs (even if you're not a believer, you're still heavily influenced) and sexual repression is one of the main negative issues we've had to face as a result. Monogamy is the biggest fucckin scam ever introduced to humanity (aside from these Sky-Daddy / Sky-Wizard religions).
Not just men flirt. Women flirt just as much. Some partners like it when their loved one flirts as they trust each other and it gives them pleasure seeing their partner is attractive to others but in the end (s) he is loyal to his/her partner. Others just like it. I see nothing bad in flirting unless it turns into making out and sex. Personally I do not flirt if I am in a relationship as I am bad it and don't really enjoy it so much.
Flirting is FUN!! It's nice when you can get a young lady to laugh, and blush, and giggle!! For some guys, it makes them feel good, that some OTHER woman smiles, and blushes, and not just their wife, who is 'supposed' to love him and find him funny and attractive!
As long as he isn't touching you, or doing/saying anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe he just needs a little 'smile' for himself, that another lady likes him, even though he would never do anything.
probably mostly because it passes the time and makes tedious moments slightly more pleasant. I doubt many _happily_ married men actively seek girls to flirt with, but if they find themselves in a situation where they can tease a girl up knowing they're not going to give her anything at all, that actually sounds kind of fun.
Because you are only kidding yourself about him being happily married, he's not. But he's too scared to say anything because he doesn't want you to take half his shit.
here's an honest opinion. You can be the happiest married man or woman, but feeling the opposite sex flirting with u feels good, and for some it brings their confidence up knowing they still have " IT" its natural. as long as it doesn't go more then a harmless flirt
It depends. If he is doing a little mild flirting, that is one thing. But if he is doing serious flirting, that's another whole matter. There can be some fun banter and mild flirting with a girl, just for fun. But anything beyond that is out of bounds for a married person. And yes, if he/she is doing serious flirting, then they may mean it. So be careful just how much you allow to take place with a married person.
Ego boost is the big one. Men are a lot like women. They like knowing that they still have the stuff. It's their way of feeling sexy.
Women have clothese and makeup stuff to help with that. Men have charming and charisma.
Because it makes your wife more attracted to you and jealous of you if it is demonstrated that are still a viable and desired example of a man.
Something about how people's brains are wired--that's the only reason I'd do it.
For him, I don't know. He gets pleasure out of it or he wouldn't do it. It probably validates him and strokes his ego--it's always flattering to get attention.
Because it's fun. I flirt with men or old people some times, doesn't mean anything, it just makes people laugh... Come to think about it I don't think I have ever flirted unironically, even when I'm interested in someone I don't take the flirting seriously.
People naturally flirt its in their dna.
Flirting isn't always a bad thing.
Its bad when they do the touchy feely thing or say id have sex with ya. Thats carried away.
What's the actual difference between a man and a married man, though? You have to remember that marriage is a story people tell to guide their behavior. But stories are not as strong as bodies (well, they often are more cruel) and our bodies want what they want.
It really depends on your opinion of flirting? I am happily married to my childhood sweetheart and would never sway. Do I talk to girls? yes I do do I say things that would make them feel better or try make their day a bit nicer? yes I do it's about what you perceive as flirting and how secure you are as a married person
It could be that they don't notice they are flirting or the person assuming they are flirting is seeing something that isn't there.
Why do women shop for new shoes when they already have a nice pair
We flirt because its exciting and we love it that we can be found attractive. If we are married then it helps get the motor all fired up for when we get home and the wife benefits from the excitement. It's a win all round.
Probably wondering if he still had it and to test it.
To boost their ego? Perhaps to get something they’re not getting at home.
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