Ignoring my crush. Is what I'm doing good or bad?

[beija]

recently I been ignoring my crush to see if he would look for me more..he has been.. but when do I know when to stop..

[it2ly]

My crush is ignoring me and avoiding me but also staring at me so I'm now going to play the cards back to him by ignoring and avoiding him I even asked my friends to not bring him up for an entire week

I did this to check to see how he would react
if he cares seems concerned, worried then il stop
if he tries to find out il tone it down
if he gets madder il tone it down more
if he doesn't care il ditch him for someone else

so you can do it too

[creamcheese]

Playing hard to get always worked in my advantage. Especially with my boyfriend of 2 years! Men seek a challenge which is why it is so rare that a relationship with a woman who gives in easily, EVER lasts.

[WeaponZero]

I think most guys will agree that the woman who doesn't play games and is straightforward is a lot easier to respect.

[Phoenix52]

There comes a time when a guy will give up and move on to someone who's more RECEPTIVE to him.

You really think I want to get with a girl who's been ignoring me for a month straight? I'd be more inclined to remove her number.

Yes, guys like a challenge. But if the challenge becomes too harsh, we'll go look for an easier challenge. Life is a tough challenge already and we don't need no bullsh*t games.

[WeaponZero]

If it does work, not usually for very long. Many women play these games to try to make their crush work harder to get them, but usually at this point the only thing they're after is sex/casual flings rather than something serious. It becomes a lot harder to take the woman seriously and respect her when she tries these things.

Me personally I would have already moved on if I was in his shoes.

[kevlar]

Here's the dilly. It's good to play hard to get, some of the time. But if you don't show him some definitive signs e.g. tell him you like him, he's just going to never know. Especially if he's shy ignoring your crush is not good. Tension will build in both parties because of the confusion and it's never a good outcome.

[crr87]

Something I have now decided to do is to only pursue someone as much as they pursue me so if were ignoring me I would just do the same to you so if I'm not getting some kind of sign of interest from the other person I'm going try not to give them any to try not to pursue or push too much

[Leeggg]

Playing any game in general is a massive turn off to any guy. If he's too stupid to realize what you're doing go for it. A lot of girls seem to think guys like to have a challenge in getting a girl. To put it bluntly, the only guys who'll chase someone like that is a guy who just wants a shag if you're a good looking girl, or the socially awkward guys who are just desperate for any sort of female interaction.

[bchon2334]

It depends if he likes chasing girls or not. Some guys love it and some guys are just to lazy or are not into it. If a girl constantly did that to me I would like it at first but there's always a certain line to cross. Don't continue doing it or he will either get pissed or just move on feeling hopeless

[Karthathan]

Just go for broke, ignoring may work in the short run, but eventually he will believe you just don't like him. Mos guys respond well to an invitation to hang out, or go to dinner. You will be able to tell I he is interested right away.

[firefighter53]

what would you think if someone completely ignored you?

[beija]

Im not completely ignoring him..i do talk to him but not as much as I would of or would like to..im giving him a little space so he doesn't think I'm depreate or anything. and to see if he would look for me if he really did care.

[firefighter53]

I hate that stuff I'm a more straight forward person I just say what I think.

[AndyWes]

Depends on the guy. Some might be interested at being ignored, or he might not care and go find another girl.

[generouslover]

dont over do it or he will hop on another chick who is easyier then you. he will like the chase game but you gotta give him hints here and there so he knows your feelin him 2

[Anonymous]

I've learned in recent situations that it isn't always good to play hard to get. I would stop right away what you are doing because you don't want the guy to think you aren't interested. :)

[blufrenzy93]

You should stop now.

It's not fun to play games.

[snackeyg]

That's retarded. Don't do that.