Whats the best response to a rejection?

[Anonymous]

If you ask someone out or ask if they are seeing someone, what is the best thing to say? Could you ask to keep you in mind for the future?

[pasiveuser]

The best response is related closely with personality off person who got rejected also with circumstances surrounding rejection. I don't usually think about it. meet my friend and night spent in strip joint is very therapeutically important. Unless you believe that everybody is already prepared to have the happiest day when you approach target, then you should try joints, buzz...

[qwert1234]

No. No future references. It's like telling her/him that they will break up and if they did, keep you updated.

Just wish them well and move on to the next fish.
But yeah, in the future - try to find out if she's in a relationship before actually making a move.

[Asker]

The girl I want to ask out, I've tried and I don't know

[Asker]

If she's in s relationship

[qwert1234]

Wait now it's confusing.

Did you already ask her out? If so, what did she say?

[Asker]

I haven't asked her out out. I want to but haven't figured out if she's seeing someone

[UsErUsEr4]

Lol it's not like you're applying for a job and asking the other person to keep you in consideration xp. You just plainly ask them, are you dating someone because im interested in you. It may be embarrassing or nerve wracking but still. I always go with sincerity. After that, they will obvsly keep you in their mind lol. Its not easy to forget confessions 😀

[randomflicka]

Just accept it. If it was because the 'someone' didn't like you it's bad to ask to keep you in mind. If it was because the 'someone' can't have a relationship right now then she will keep you in mind anyways (not garuanteed that she will 'pick' you tho).

[Gianna17]

You say "Okay" and move on, thats the best thing to say.

[Tessi]

Best response to a rejection is none at all, you had nothing to loose so you didn't loose anything.

Just be nice about it, don't take it to heart and if you can make a joke of it, if she laughs it'll break the tension of the moment, you can then insist and maybe get a yes the second time.

Just don't get all mad or wimpy about it, keep in mind that being rejected doesn't take away from your personal value in any way dude, it's a normal aspect of life

[ScaryCool]

It's best to say "That's fine haha" don't make it a big deal or be upset, you did your part had the courage to ask. Don't say the keep you in mind part. Most people won't forget who's asked them out, if she changes her mind, shed let you know.

[TGbiguy]

Just say "alright, no problem." There's really not much else you can do. Just handle the rejection with dignity and move on. A lot of people have trouble dealing with rejection so when you handle it well it makes you look good.

[TinaSP]

Dont ever beg to be a spare tire. Have self respect

[torwulf]

Agreed, there are plenty of fish in the sea. You don't need this specific one. Have self respect and move on.

[TinaSP]

What @torwulf said!!

[MusicMayhem]

If it's because they have a boyfriend already I jokingly ask if they want to upgrade to the latest and greatest model haha

Don't try see if she'll date you in the future. You'll look desperate. Plenty of girls out there to find.

[Giggletr0n]

"Ok. That's cool 🙂" and then move on with your life. Simple 😎

[torwulf]

Say, ok then. And pop over to the next hot girl and turn your last rejection (which she witnessed) into a joke to open her with.

[ladydoor]

me: *asks someone out*
them: *declines*
me: *literally dies*
the end :)

[thelokisniper]

to continue on with your life and find the next opportunity to meet someone.

[eusue]

Walk it off in stride. There's nothing like being rejected and acting like it didn't hurt, but on the inside you're slowly dying.

[realdrkin]

You'll have to accept it and move on. Don't make it any more awkward or bigger of a deal than it has to be.

[Tohhru]

Accept it with grace and tell them their partners lucky

[bongger]

Well I go with honesty and what I feel "at least I won't go to sleep and regret not telling you".

[jacquesvol]

Say nothing. Smile and move on.

[jay001]

No Problem, at least you were honest.

[Darknut123]

Ignore them and avoid.

[Partywithtom]

Very situation dependent.

[coalinga_escapee69]

Shoot up your school/workplace

[WhiplashTacos]

Fuck that’s extreme! XD

[leledolan]

Thats a good question.

[Paris13]

"That's too bad'xx

[Paris13]

"Call me if anything changes."xx

[Asker]

That's a good one. Thank you. I'm sure that since you're saying it, it's a good thing to say