Is it true that I can turn the tables and have him wanting me instead of the other way around?

[only4him]

okay my live in boyfriend broke up with me because he wanted to be single wasn't happy etc. is it true that I can turn the tables and have him wanting me instead of the other way around? . today we have been chatting on yahoo maybe a little flirting, he thinks he will be able to sleep with me probably when he wants because I've always done everything for him and just so nice to him and never appreciated it. well I'm thinking if tonight he tries to come into my bedroom room or something , how would be the right way to tell him in a way to make him feel like he got rejected etc . should I just say, no we shouldn't do anything , I'm actually okay with the breakup "and not look sad" . how would that make you feel guys would that make him start to miss me once he see's that I'm okay with being apart and moving on, we've broken up before and of course ended p sleeping together and eventually got back together but he just ends up feeling like he isn't happy maybe because I'm just too nice to him and do everything for him , I don't know sometimes men seem so complicated

[Anonymous]

You can have him back but your gonna have to start making some changes. First thing don't be so clingy on him, do your own thing, be independent. Go out without Telling him but make sure he notices, use fb for your advantage. When he sees how good your doing without him he starts to get even more interested in you. Second get abjure makeover, hair, cloth, makeup. Look as hot a you'll ever be and try to avoid being the one who calls or texts or starts a conversation. Let him chase you, an if you can ignore a few calls even better he'll go nuts wondering what your up to, you can call him the next day and tell him you were out but not with who. Lol. Then the last step, make sure that after a little of doing these changes you get a chance to meet him for dinner or w.e. Look really hot, and then maybe take him to your house, now here's the fun part try to be as sexy as you can and learn as much about his fantasies as you can, look up tips online and when he's there show him all you learned, he's gonna be like wow! Why did I break up with her? Lol when your done, don't cuddle nd don't be super sweet, that's gonna slap him on the face and want you back real bad. Good luck girly :)

[Anonymous]

Men are complicated...you're kind of in a sticky situation now. You need a good game plan to win him back before he meets a new woman. You probably need to give him some space, no chatting with him and change your look a little. For a step by step plan check out what this girl hs to say ==> link

[Ether1627]

Well...if he's only keeping you around to sleep with you when he wants to...its probably a good idea to move on.

[Tamerlan]

Your relationship will not work out. Find someone new.

[1nferno]

You need to move on. Yeah ignoring him will make him want you, but you don't need to be in a problematic situation. Find someone that deserves your feelings.