The guy may not even use Snapchat much, or it may not be his go-to thing he thinks of when 'courting'. Girls trend towards Snapchat a lot more than your average guy. He probably won't ask for your Snapchat because even if you try to plant the idea he probably won't register the thought. You have to say it straight probably, or drop it because it's not necessary for him to do Snapchat in the first place?
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+1 yFirst, are you just wanting to hook up kinda really like him, or seriously really like him? There's a difference
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Difference in how to approach this, that is lol
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Well, you can't MAKE him like you! Try flirting with him, if he responds positively, than ask him out! Why does Snapchat have to be involved? Just give it to him he says he'll go out with you to set up a time and place.
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yTalk about something you saw on snap that reminded you of him. "I was like he needs to see this lol you should add him" and then go on your Snapchat while showing him and act as if you accidentally tapped where we can see your name, that might light a bulb in his head.
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I never ask for it, the men always ask me for my Snapchat.
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Just stating that never had the need to ask for it. Can’t relate. Also it’s quite sad that you can’t ask a fucking simple question “what’s your snap”, thinking that would make you annoyed. Quite sad, doll face. 😂
Asking for a Snapchat won’t make you annoying, your personality does.
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+1 yact like you're bruce lee and be like "HEY YOU! i want YOUUUU *point at him with your index finger* to ask MEEE *point at yourself with your thumb* for MY snapchat! *brush your nose with your thumb while your head is tilted back*
LMAO he might think you know JKD and just give you his everything out of fear00 ReplyJust fuckin ask him, if he likes you he will add you, even if he dosent like you he'd still add you, there's is no possible way asking him could end awkwardly,
Jesus, girls don't realise if they ask guys for things 99.99% of the time they will say yes00 ReplyI cannot STAND it when the only form of communication a girl wants to offer a guy is through social media. Very vain and impersonal. Aren't we adults here? Exchange numbers like normal people for God's sake!
40 ReplyAlright number 1 option is ask him
2. Ask a friend that has it
3. If you really don’t want to ask him, hug him and act like you’re never gonna see him again
You’re a girl just ask for his phone and add yourself or ask for his snap. What’s he gonna do, say no00 Reply
+1 yNext time you get a chance to talk to him, tell him you're thinking about taking up a new hobby, like "Snapchat Stalking" and ask him for his snapchat. Tell him that if he thinks you are annoying or stalking him, not worry and remember that it's just a new hobby! ;)
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yJust fucking ask him. For fuck say why is it with some of you women you expect us men to do all the work. You asking doesn't make you look any more annoying then if he were to ask you. So either you think you are better than him or just to much of a wimp to go after what you want.
20 ReplyAnnoying? What's annoying about asking for Snapchat? Stop overthinking shit and just do it.
giphy.com/.../personal-shia-labeouf-just-saying-GcSqyYa2aF8dy00 ReplyId you like him, give him your phone number, suggest that y'all go out together sometime.
That way, you've clearly shown your interest and given goin the means to act on it if the feeling is mutual while still letting him be the one to ask you out if he's the kind of guy who likes taking the lead. You're still letting him "be a man" so to speak.00 Reply
+1 yIf you ask him it will probably surprise him in a pleasant manner. I think he will probably like that! Cuz it makes you stand out; most girls always wait for the guy but it shows you are genuinely interested if you step up first.
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+1 yDoes he have your number? If he does then he knows your Snapchat.
You could just say that you don't know how to use Snapchat and he should explain it to you. Then when you go home you send him a message if you somehow figured out he's Snapchat.
The message should point out that you finally know how to use the app and that you wanted to add a friend (him) to see how it works.
All ninja like.
Or simply just ask!10 ReplyHave a doubt? Ask first.
The person in front of you might be oblivious to any hints, so that might be a losing game you're playing, be upfront if all else fails.00 Replyjust give him like hints. I don't know how well you know him? do you know any of his friends? Maybe just mention Snapchat if he likes it or not.. good luck
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+1 yJust ask!! There was a hot guy I liked. I asked, I got, I snapped, I ended up in his bed. Not all in one day but true story! ASK HIM!
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+1 yJust bring it up casual. You can ask for it. Just don't be a selfie queen and annoy him with it. That's the difference
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+1 yClose mouth won't get fed. What's wrong with you asking him for his snap? Are you an annoying person? Remember Yolo! All he can say is yes or no. Good luck!!!
00 ReplyWhy would any guy want to be manipulated by you to achieve your desires. Ask him or give it to him or move on. Dont play games.
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+1 yTell him that you think your phone has a problem cause u don’t receive snap anymore and ask him if he could try to send you someting
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Hahaha i’m a bad liar sorry
+1 ywhy is he gonna think that you are annoying? if you know him and you have being friends with him for some time then just ask him. hang out with him and take selfies ask him for he's snapchat.
00 ReplyJust say something like, "oh hey What's ur snapchat, so we can text sometime'... or u can just pray he asks you first... He won't think that ur annoying, what's annoying about asking someone's snapchat?
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+1 yYou will absolutely not be seen as annoying for asking for his snapchat, unless he found you annoying before that already
10 ReplyJust ask him for it, it's not as annoying as you think
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yCarve your snapchat username onto a potato and roll it to him
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+1 yAbsolute waste of time trying to get a guy asking you for a snapchat with "hints." Add him/ask him yourself.
00 Reply Umm... First, do you know if he even has a snapchat? Lots of people don't use every social media on the face of the planet. Second, if think you are annoying him, then it might be best to give him some space. Some things best occur naturally...
00 ReplyNot all guys think that way, plus if you really like him you should be straight forward with him.
30 ReplyJust ask him, I asked a guy I liked for his Snapchat and I got it, I've even ended up with his number but we r staying only friends lol
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+1 yWhy are a lot of women still thinking the guy has to make the first move. If you like him then just ask him for his snapchat.
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The reason is because in the time it takes to try and get him to have him ask you for yours you could already have asked for his. Better yet ask for his phone number to call him
If he thinks your annoying then he isn't the right guy just ask him for it and if he says no then just say ok
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+1 ySnapchat is beyond annoying. Consider having him ask you for a DATE instead - you'll get a LOT more out of it.
And yes, you're annoying. Don't be annoying. :)00 Reply
+1 yAsk him if he likes boobs then say you will see boobs of you had my snapchat then he will ask you for it
30 ReplyAsk for it. He might be glad that he didn't have to
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+1 yJust ask him what kind of social media he uses and what he likes best. Then this will lead to talking about snap chat at some point. Then you can gush about it and off you go
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+1 yJust fucking ask him it's what Snapchat is for its not like ur asking for his credit card or SSI number or if he like to get hammered by a strap on lol
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI will never understand why women STILL feel like it has to be the guy who makes the move. Do you think it's any easier for us? Do you think we are any less insecure about it? I don't get it.
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+1 ynever try to get people to ask you something. ask them or fuck it.
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+1 yThere's nothing wrong with askinf for his Snapchat. You're overthinking it.
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Asking*
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I was going to say the same thing
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Hell, your version probably wouldn't have had the type-o.
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True but id probably just say send it
Be like oh I saw this thing on Snapchat and hell be like what's you r snap
Or put your snap in your Insta info00 Reply- 554 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
+1 yBecause playing him into asking you isn't annoying?
Just ask.01 Reply What would work on me won't work on all, but it would work on at least some. Go right up to him and say "I want you to ask me for my snapchat, because I really like you."
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+1 yJust give him yours. If he's interested he will. If not, you don't have to waste your time.
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+1 yMaybe work into the conversation that you have it or so then he's like, oh you have snapchat?👀
00 ReplyDon’t ask him in a weird way. Just say hey can I have your snapchat, or if u don’t know him that well, just say hey I think you’re really cool, can I have your snapchat. There’s nothing annoying about asking for a snapchat.
00 ReplySay "hey you should snapchat me" then he's gonna ask for your snap name
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+1 ywrite a song about snapchatting is good, put "yeahhh u want it" into the lyri s, sing it to him. if this doesn't work out the potatoe idea is good 😁
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+1 yThis is how, ask him yourself. Don’t try using some round about way to do it and don’t give me that “but the guy has to make the first move” crap
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+1 yWhy not just talk to him face to face?
Asking for his SC is the same as saying you wanna talk to him, but not in person.
That's retarded00 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 ySay something like related to Snapchat like “have u seen Kylie’s story or something and maybe he will think he dose t have urs and asks for it.
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Opinion Owner+1 yWell I said that because obviously she stated she doesn’t want to be straightforward.
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Yeah😐 I mean, an immature guy it is probably good to use that. A more mature/stable mindset person would probably be mildly annoyed and look past it for once or twice, but if you act roundabout like that repeatedly you might be getting dumped even if your a 10 in looks. That's definitely a valid possible way to approach it though.
Open the app in front of him and take a cute selfie with him
00 ReplyBw direct and just ask him if he's on there. I don't think it would be annoying to him as you think
00 ReplyAll you have to do is ask him what does he think about snapchat.
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+1 yJust ask him... any reason why you wouldn’t want his number instead? Why talk through social media
10 ReplyStop talking and thinking about it your wasting time. Better yet, try drag him along on a water park trip with a sexy bikini. No way that could fail.
20 ReplyWell are u a hoe or a prune? If neither great then! Find out if he likes u 1st before getting that far?
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+1 yJust go for it and ask we love women that can speak up
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No we don't women have a voice so use it even if it's asking a guy out are something
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yDon't. If he wanted to talk to you on SnapChat he would ask for it the first. And if he wants but doesn't dare to ask for it then leave that coward alone
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+1 yJust text him like “Hey wanna chat on snap?” Something like that. It’s not a big deal I don’t think.
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+1 yYou don't. Either he will because he's interested or he won't because he's not.
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+1 yIf you have mutual firends and he has quick add on, you can find him there
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+1 yASK HIM, if is yes means he's cool with it. A no means you can move on and not waste your time 😊
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+1 yJust give him yours. It ain't that big of a thing. If he wants to. Then he"'ll add you. If not. Then you know
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