How long does it take for guys to cool off?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were in a fight. How long does it take before he can forgive me and move past it?

[Anonymous]

Ok. Here's the deal. If he loves you & care for you very much..it won't take long.

If it's normal love...it depends on the fight & his personality. Maybe he takes more time to make you feel guilty & run after him.

What works the best is : Leave him alone,..don't push him to take less time...he will end up taking less time.

Everytime I have a fight with my bf..If I tried to get him out of the cave he gets mean while this time I kept silent and disappeared...he came running. Good luck! :)

[Cupcakecutie0]

Thats something you have to ask him, but keep in mind you have to be prepared for him saying "never, in a couple months, a year from now" This is a personal question.

Ive been mad a girl for a whole year. An she said sorry many times.

[Asker]

He said we were taking an indefinite break. We've been together for 2 years...

[Cupcakecutie0]

Oo...

Thats not good, you should do the same and find another guy. Until/if he comes back.

[Asker]

I don't want to find another guy and I don't think he'd come back...

[Cupcakecutie0]

Then you shall be single the rest of your life. Now prove me wrong please :D

[Asker]

Sorry! I meant if I found another guy, I don't think he'd come back... We are in a long distance relationship, but we see each other on the weekends and we go to the same church... I'm so confused...

[Cupcakecutie0]

Ask yourself why you want someone who doesn't want you back?

You need to move on, feel all that pain an eat that ice cream. It will make you a more happy and better person.

[Asker]

He does want me and he tells me that, but he feels like we fight too much. We fight just like anyone else. I don't think it's abnormal...

[Cupcakecutie0]

Sounds like he is just trying to be nice. You may not believe me but I'm telling you the truth.

Ive said that stuff before, if he really liked you then he would wanna be with you an look past the fighting. He would put more effort into it.

[Asker]

Okay, so we've talked some and he says that he wants it to work, but he doesn't think it can... We're taking a break right now, so I guess we'll see how it goes... :S Thanks for the advice!