Difference between playing hard to get and not interested?

[Anonymous]

Difference between playing hard to get and not interested? how can you tell the difference

[PDS131]

You can't tell for sure. Every girl is different, and probably a little different every day. She may not even be playing hard to get or not interested. She could be unsure or inexperienced dealing with guys. I'd suggest making sure she knows how you feel, just so you know personally that you did all that you could. Then just keep trying to stay in contact with her and hopefully you'll get good news. Don't pressure her everyday though, and definitely don't do anything that will get you a restraining order. You're just going to have to ride this out until she gives you a firm answer.

[DanteThomas]

if she actually wants to have a conversation with you and share things with you

[kaseykahneno1]

If she blows you off or ignores you all the time, its not interested. If its been going on for a long time, you could try to ask. But I wouldn't right away.

[Asker]

well it feels like with this girl, its like cold and hot