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Have you crushed on a waiter or waitress before?

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  • GuidoThePizzaMaker
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    Yes, and i went to the restaurant wayyy too often!
    Her parents owned the business, she was wayyy to busy to ever find time for me
    I asked her out and she got all red lol! She declined </3 but she was really dope.

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  • MrKinktastic
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    How could you not? They’re holding delicious food!

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  • wingattebaby16
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    hell yes... and they are so oblivious just how Hot they are.. or worse, they have a girlfriend or boyfriend...

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  • StingRayxoxo
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    No, but I've had attractive waiters. I was never a "regular" anywhere enough to develop a crush.

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      Thanks for MHO

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  • Cynicaldreamer
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    InfluencerMaster Age: 40
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    364 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    Nope. I just go out to eat, not flirt, lol

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  • sarahburberryy
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    Xper 5 Age: 26 , mho 40%
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    I was in a situation like this before.
    When i was a freshman in highschool, i went to this restaurant with one of my friend's , we grabed lunch there then we didn't have enough money to have drinks ( help me im poor hahaa) . So when the waiter came and he was like : u guys need drinks , water , anything? me with a nervous laugh : no we're fine. He was very charming so he immediatly came back with soda and water , he said it's on me ;) i was so shhhyyyyy lol awkward ASF
    then he asked for my number. I gave him my friend's number tho cuz was taken at that time so yeah..

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  • chxrry
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    Xper 5 Age: 24 , mho 40%
    +1 y

    One time when I was in Spain, I had a little crush on this cute boy who worked at a restaurant we always went to. He was the owners son, and maybe 2 years older than me or something. Everytime I didn't join my parents to eat, he always asked them where I was. I kind of felt like we had some kind of chemistry, but I guess I'll never know.

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  • hellionthesagereborn
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    Guru Age: 41 , mho 47%
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    I don't know if I would say crushed on, but I did have one I checked out regularly (not really one to flirt with some one at work (seems a bit suspect i. e. they have to be nice and your probably making their job more difficult just by distracting them))(she was gorgeous and seemed nice (but again, when your a waitress you have to be because that's how you get tips).

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  • Daisy007
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    Xper 7 Age: 26 , mho 41%
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    No! But I've had a waiter do that to me on my best friends birthday celebration, to be fair we knew each other in middle school but hadn't seen each other since I left & I'm in university now it was very obvious & he kept smiling at me a bit to much my friend just stared at me like really?

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  • MrOracle
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    Sure. A buddy of mine married his waitress, actually, and I was there the day he first met her. Our lunch bill was $14 (this was about 1992) and he paid it and told me to leave the tip. I left $5, and then he put a $10 bill on top of my $5 and we left and watched her reaction through the window. He went back alone a few days later and asked her out, and 2 years later, I was in the wedding party.

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  • NoxWriter22
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    Xper 4 Age: 34 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    Crushed? Nah. Flirted? Hell yeah. Flirting with waitresses is fun. There is this temporary confidence boost I get when I talk to pretty waitresses. I don't expect anything to happen between me and my waitress. I'm just enjoying the customer service a little more than everyone else.

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  • IlyaTheImpaler
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    No but my friend did. I had to accompany him to our university's Starbucks and watch him embarrass himself several times a week last semester. He actually got a part time job there this semester so I no longer have to study at Starbucks when I don't need to.

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  • dragoblack
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    Guru Age: 34
    +1 y

    I wouldn't say crush, but i did find her very attractive. Most people working dont want customers hitting on them but you can say "i find you very attractive, would it be ok if we could chat when you get off work?". Doing that way doesn't get them in trouble with their boss and it is a lot less cringy

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  • Anonymous
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    Yes. When I was on vacation in Greece. She had beautiful black hair, blue eyes, and a smile that would make you fall for her instantly and her cute laugh made my heart drop.
    I asked her out after I'd been to her restauraunt a few times, and she said yes. I took her to a bar I liked there, and she loved it, too. After three dates, I had to leave for home. I only know her first name, and I can't seem to find her again. Her name was Sirena. She was the one that got away.

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  • BlackRoseFairy
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    Explorer Age: 37 , mho 42%
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    Not me, a girl from the group we used to hang out with in high school did and as a result she always insisted on us going to the place he worked. It was annoying to say the least...

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  • Iwant2kno
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    Guru Age: 35 , mho 52%
    +1 y

    Nope! But if did get a lot of attention when I was a waitress so I do think this happens a lot, maybe more than people would think.

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  • MittenstheGlove
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    Xper 7 Age: 31 , mho 56%
    +1 y

    Yes. Gave her my number too. In retrospect I’m glad she never called.

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  • Mini-Mina
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    Xper 6 Age: 30 , mho 58%
    +1 y

    No. But my mother never fails to say “oh he is cute, don’t you think he’s cute?”. Don’t be a single Pringle and go out to eat with your mom.

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  • Alyssa_K
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    Xper 6 Age: 35
    +1 y

    2 different waiter at 2 different places had a crushed on me before a few years back, one gave me his number on the back of a receipt and one asked me for my number.

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  • Alice2398
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    Guru Age: 28
    +1 y

    Yes, down at my favourite pub there's a really cute, funny bartender but unfortunately the pub recently closed down 😭

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  • Raiden93
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    Xper 4 Age: 34
    +1 y

    Once or twice. Mostly because she could make me laugh , good conversation and had beautiful eyes. Hazel Green. Just for that I tipped her extra.

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  • oreodair
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    Yoda Age: 26
    +1 y

    I mean I’m sure I’ve had cute waiters before but I don’t develop emotional feelings for them😂

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  • OtakuNeko666
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    Xper 7 Age: 24 , mho 43%
    +1 y

    yes but it wasn't really a crush. I thought he was cute.

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  • Megatrizzle
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    Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 34%
    +1 y

    Kinda but she rejected me :(. Haven't seen her in years.

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  • Secret6620
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    Master Age: 28 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    No I don't think I have. I usually get waitresses 🙃

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  • fortunately
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    Xper 2 Age: 28
    +1 y

    I don't know if I actually flirted.. I guess I did a little bit, but I once went home with a bartender

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  • Dude_1820
    Dude_1820 Follow
    Explorer Age: 28
    +1 y

    When I went to California there was a waitress I had who was very attractive and I seriously considered it just for the fun of it despite the fact that I live on the opposite side of the country

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  • SexyAshh
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    Guru Age: 31
    +1 y

    Working at twin peaks, i never have. But have had plenty hit on me.

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  • imgudluv
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Yes, he had these pretty blue eyes and he had a body similar to the guy in the picture but I was underage and there was no way I would get his number.

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  • fueledbythc
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    Yoda Age: 33
    +1 y

    no. i actually get annoyed at flirtatious waitresses because i know they want a good tip. if one of them decides to touch me i give less of a tip.

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  • ChiTown33
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    Master Age: 50
    +1 y
    879 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    Nope, ever seen the movie "waiting"? Just because they serve you doesn't mean they like you... is the tag line of the movie. Lol

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  • nithya11
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    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Sure, definitely. But it was merely anything as I never met him after.

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  • hotdog666
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    Xper 5 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Yes I used to have a crush on waitress in a Indian restaurant before. She’s smokin hot and sucks she is married!! SHIT HAHAHAHA

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  • ultimega
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    Guru Age: 36
    +1 y

    Yes. Part of me wanted to give him my number but I didn't do it.

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  • Wowgirl30q
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    Guru Age: 37
    +1 y

    Baby shoot higher at least the manager but waiters are good flips

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    • Wowgirl30q
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      +1 y

      Flip them and replace them

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    I did, i was at red lobster and she had the fattest booty. I came back and got her number. We texted but never made it past that

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  • Eleni91
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    Xper 6 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Yes and gave her extra tip my sister giving waiter that looks good a pretty generous tip.

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  • DJKnows
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Yes. Ironically that is how I got into my first ever relationship.

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  • No_Archons
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
    +1 y

    I waited for years and was hit on a lot... usually by older drunk. women XD

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  • StellarDrift
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    Xper 5 Age: 40
    +1 y

    Yep. Her name Alexa and it was at a karaoke bar in K-Town. She was gorgeous.

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  • MarketData
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    Yoda Age: 42
    +1 y

    haha yes. What can I tell you? Cute waitresses are cute.

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  • Nahid1707
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    Guru Age: 27
    +1 y
    307 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    No, I don’t think a waitress ever flirted with me by the way.

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  • Riverlol
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    Xper 4 Age: 26
    +1 y

    Yes lol left her my # on a napkin before I left and I never got a text or call lol so now its awkward to go back

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Oh, a starbucks barista, yes. He was so hot like whenever i see his face i have to hold my breath

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  • BloJo
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    Xper 6 Age: 43
    +1 y

    When I was a teenager and the Attractive woman brought me whatever I asked for? Yes!

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Nope would rather not be accused of sexual harassment

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      It’s the truth it’s why I don’t approach women

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  • PrincessGrail
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    +1 y

    For like 10 mins lol

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  • Logorithim
    Logorithim Follow
    InfluencerMaster Age: 54
    +1 y

    Nope

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Every cute waiter i see, yeah.

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  • jessicarosen
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    Yoda Age: 41
    +1 y

    Sure but it didn't mean anything.

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  • pizzalovershouse
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    Master Age: 37
    +1 y
    335 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    no but had 1 do that with me

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  • ham1512
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    Xper 5 Age: 61
    +1 y

    Yes I have but only the once

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  • Jerre
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    Master Age: 55
    +1 y

    Yes, a waitress several times.

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  • GWhite_22
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Nope, flirt maybe but never crush on.

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  • Razal
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    Guru Age: 49
    +1 y

    Not that I can recall

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  • jolynn_smith
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    Xper 2 Age: 27
    +1 y

    ALL. THE. TIME

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  • TheHillsRAlive
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    Explorer Age: 50
    +1 y

    No... not seriously

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  • Landshrk0068
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    +1 y

    Nope, I haven't

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  • Dri11
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    Xper 4 Age: 26
    +1 y

    Yep absolutely

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  • crazy8000
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    Yoda Age: 48
    +1 y

    Nope

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  • ex-gager
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    Xper 6 Age: 24
    +1 y

    Yaa me..

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  • bhavy24
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    No i haven't

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  • Secretgardenblood
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    I haven't

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  • LuWe22
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    Nope

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