What are signs you give off when you don't like someone?

[alicat2358]

What are signs you give off when you don't like someone?

[jgokgotit]

I think "signs" are a weakness and a waste of time. Women give "signs" instead of being direct and yet wonder why a guy doesn't get the hint. Maybe it is because we don't have time to study a woman's every intricate thought when there are more important matters. If I like someone, I tell them. If I don't, I STILL TELL THEM. The worst thing you can do is expect someone to understand you without saying what you mean and meaning what you say. If you do not have the courage to tell a date you don't like him/her then you have no business dating. Sorry for my rant, but this is probably my biggest pet peeve when it comes to dating. Signs are useless. Ladies, stop "giving signs" and start being direct. There is a difference between "direct" and "rude. Direct is something like "I do not think we will work because of____" because it gets the message across AND gives them feedback on how they can improve. Rude is "I hate your guts. Never talk to me again". be rude if being direct fails, but do not resort to it first. However, rude is even better than giving signs.

[SuperManiac]

If I can't move away, I sometimes do the opposite. I might move very close to them and sit next to them and start eating their food or something and offering them to try everything I'm trying while being extremely forward in the conversations. I find that a successful strategy sometimes where they move away and don't want to talk to me after, or every now and then they actually start becoming surprisingly friendly to me to the point where I no longer dislike them.

[SuperManiac]

Sometimes do slightly obnoxious things like I'll tell them I have a secret and ask them to lend me their ear, then they lean over to me and I burp right into their ear.

[SuperManiac]

Actually one of my friends started out this way. I really didn't like him because he had this very sarcastic humor that no one found funny but him and seemed rather hostile. He was actually annoying everybody. So I did that thing where I moved close to him and started becoming like super forward and friendly and somewhat obnoxious and he stopped being that way with me after and started inviting me to his house. He still tends to annoy everyone else though.

[SuperManiac]

But I do it that way sometimes. It's like if I find someone I really dislike sitting alone in a movie theater, I'll pick the choose right next to them even though the entire theater is empty. I do it that way for people I can't avoid entirely. :-D

[SuperManiac]

I'll pick [and] choose [a seat] right next to them even though the entire theater is empty. I do it that way for people I can't avoid entirely.

[alicat2358]

Very interesting, that’s a cool way to deal with people you don’t like! I do the opposite, I don’t talk to them and sit far away from them 😂

[SuperManiac]

It's kind of a bizarre thing I do. I don't know why I do it. :-D I think I just kind of enjoy annoying people if I dislike them a bit. I usually don't hate people though. If I have a negative feeling, it's not that strong. I just might find them annoying or something but I forgive them for it. But I might be a little bit petty and seek to annoy them back in my own way. :-D :-D :-D

[alicat2358]

I think that's awesome! It's a lot better than being mean to them and you sometimes end up making a friend. I should try this haha

[SuperManiac]

You can have a lot of fun with it. I think maybe that's what prompted me to try these things in the first place. It's like I dislike this person so I'm not exactly that concerned about what they think of me. So I might as well have some fun, scoot up close to them, and goof around a bit and see what happens. If I just annoy them to the point where they don't want to talk to me, that's a win. :-D If, in the rare event, they actually enjoy it and start becoming more friendly and less mean towards me, that's also a win. :-D

[alicat2358]

Yeah, i get what you're saying. That sounds fun. Thanks for giving me this idea! I'm gonna try it at work 😂

[Moonchild714]

Don't talk to them. If tgey keep persisting I say I not interested in you, don't like you, get lost, you're an idiot...

[jonesjessica812]

What if she doesn't talk to you for the longest time and finally said something to you

[Moonchild714]

@jonesjessica812, if he or she doesn't bother me for a long time then says something to me, it would depend on how things were... If they were stalkerish or harassing I would just ignore them, NEVER Re-open that door; if they were ok or a little annoying I would be polite snd say hi or answer back whatever was said.

[Moonchild714]

@alicat2358, thank you for the MHO.

[R_Cakes91]

Tell them to fuck off if they are sending me inappropriate dick pics. Ignore them if I just don’t like them.

[Adam1978]

I ignore them and give them minimum replies and can become annoyed if they push it to much. I reject any social offers from you. I am pushing you away.

[Gabri94]

From my experience, I find way more respectful to others telling them the truth: that I dont find them attractive or that our thing would work or any other reason.
Or at least, thats what I would like to be treated because it could give me reasons to become a better person.

[Gabri94]

Sorry, there's a typo: our thing wouldn't work.

Is there a way to edit own comments?

[MajesticTwelve]

I'm super subtle about it. I say "I don't fucking like you, now fuck off"
Usually they pick up what I put down.

[islandbeauty]

Not talking
Keeping yourself distracted
Walking out when I see them
Having conversations with other people but not that person

[AndreasM96]

Well, the "nice" way is trying to not get very social with them and try avoid them gently, and if they insist, well, make things clear.

[AcidT0y]

I'm not concerned with what they think of me so I tend to say some fucked up shit. Sometimes I just start throwing out hints that I might be a cannibal xD
Nothing obvious but just enough that they'd be like wait what?

[LowSelfSteem]

I would just straight up tell them I dont like them.

[Daniel3035]

Usually I try to avoid their advances so hopefully they don't go there. If they continue I leave them open about it usually say well ill let you know... etc. Worst case is saying no to a date.

[Hazelstar]

I don't text them or call them... Keep a distance... Make a balance between friendly and way too friendly. I'll get to the point of conversation and end it quick and tell them they are good friend.

[Anonymous]

It depends what they are doing. If I know they are interested in me, I might avoid them or certain situations, conversations etc. Same things you would do if it was reversed.

[Yessir12]

Usually don’t make eye contact. Stop talking to them or give one word answers. Most people quickly understand.

[UnderHisEye]

I shoot them in the face and burry them deep deep in the woods.

[Justbeyouandbehappy_]

I don't talk to them much I don't say many words to them

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't make eye contact.

[Cruizer]

I don't really talk to them much. I'm not as helpful. I try to stay away from them..

[fulloflife]

i try to stay or walk away
ignore them
be rude
dodge their attempts

[NoToriousROB]

I just stay away from them or remove myself from where they are.

[Evil_Chuck]

I don't give off any signs. I just stay away from them.

[bklynbadboy1]

If I dont like you then you'll know cause I won't fuck with you I dont fake it

[Anonymous]

They're just not interested, they don't want to know you, and they're closed off

A lot of people will see this from shy people, so, watch out. Shy people are just people you have to be patient with