I have a crush on my boyfriend's twin!!!

[ohsosad]

I met this guy a few months ago who looks almost identical to my boyfriend who I have been with for a few years.

(Everyone including them think they look the same as well so its not just me)

We have been talking a lot as friends but since I first saw him my heart would race and I'd get butterflies (LOL)

He also has the same personality as my boyfriend when we first met and he has told me that he has liked me since he first saw me.

I would never cheat on my boyfriend although I'm finding it really tempting because they are so alike except this new guy is more nicer to me than my boyfriend because we have obviously been together a while and the butterflies and heart racing has worn off..

It almost feels as if I have gone back in time to meet my boyfriend all over again, I'm not joking its so weird they can pass as twins! and the whole time I'm talking to him I just wanna jump him and I can't concentrate when I see him I instantly start thinking dirty things and he knows this so he keeps coming on to me and telling me to leave my bf.

I would never do that to my boyfriend so I have not been talking to this guy as much but I can't help but think of him all the time and I feel bad for my boyfriend but if I see a message or something from him I get so excited like when you start going out with a new person..

How do I forget about this guy?

Its hard too because when I look at my boyfriend obviously I think of him and I kinda start to miss him!

[Fox0507]

How about your stop talking to this guy! Duh! I mean if you really think about it you don't need to talk to this guy if this guy looks like and acts like your boyfriend. It be one thing if this guy was totally different from your boyfriend and you liked him however he is an exact copy of your boyfriend. And if you can't control yourself have the maturity to tell your boyfriend or break-up with him first.

[ohsosad]

his an exact copy of when I first met my bf.. you know when things are all nice and exciting.. and what do you mean break up with him first? I'm not going to do anything with this guy I already said that! And I have stopped talking to him unless I need to because of work things honestly its never personal stuff. I just can't get him off my mind

[Fox0507]

"and the whole time I'm talking to him I just wanna jump him and I can't concentrate when I see him I instantly start thinking dirty things and he knows this so he keeps coming on to me and telling me to leave my bf." That's your direct quote right? I am sure if your boyfriend find out about this he, especially knowing some other guy is coming up to you, encouraging your dirty thoughts and telling you to dumb your boyfriend. Personally, I think you want to do this to happen...

[ohsosad]

we work together and his kind of like my boss so yes I do have to speak to him sometimes I already said that. And yes I said I found him very tempting but I also said I would NEVER do that. I want to get rid of this feeling because I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend were feeling the same way about another girl and I definatley wouldn't like it if he cheated on me.

But also at the same time you kind of telling me off about it is helping and I think that's what I need. if that makes sense.

[Fox0507]

I think what you really need to think about is what if the tables were reversed. I mean what if your boyfriend found your twin and was saying and thinking the same thing that you are saying and thinking when it comes to this guy. I mean how would that make you feel to know that your boyfriend had thoughts and some feelings for someone that looks and acts just like you?

[foolycooly1001]

if you only get butterflies because he's new, you should realize that would wear off eventually, and you'd just be with an asshole who made you dump your boyfriend for no reason

[Rose321]

you should have a threesome.. I would.. might be good to get it out of your system too lol

[ohsosad]

lol I thought that too haha