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Love is like a band-aid that makes you not feel the pain when the partner you love that loves you back hit you playful even if it can hurt physically.
When a women hit a guy she likes, it is like being hit by a pillow or feather.
When a guy hit a girl he likes, it is just like a little harmless push.
When a girl hit another girl she doesn't like, it is like leons fighting or cobras fighting or two crazy cats, and thunders between them, it is worse than when guys are fighting. Women are scary, but pretends to be weak. And also girls words hurts more than being stabbed in the chest.
When guys that hate each other fight it is like 2 strong elefants or 2 alpha wolf fighting untill death.
Playful hitting wrestling is fine by my books. That's what a girl grows up with if she has no sisters 😄😄
I agree with you though. The punching the slapping kicking their boyfriends disgust me. And I know I'm probably going to get hate for this, but he deserves to defend himself and hit her back.
I'm not condoning violence against women, but if you keep poking and poking a bear, you're gonna be sorry you did
I'm okay with playful hitting as long as there is no pain inflicted. Which means it's barely even counted as hitting. Anything slapping or stronger I'm not okay with. Just because you are feeling strong emotions doesn't mean you get to physically hurt the other person.
Men will often allow this because they know that they can take it. They also know that if they defend themselves, they can go to prison. It doesn't matter what she does first, even if he catches her hand and stops her from hitting him, he can go to prison for that. It's happened before.
I agree with you that wrestling can be fun. Grinding and holding can be super hot. Hmmmm... I absolutely started typing that hitting, playful or not, has no business in a serious relationship; but as I'm thinking through... who am I to say what turns anyone on. If someone doesn't respect you, don't let that shit happen; but we all have our own experiences/kinks from growing up and discovering sex. If you finds that turns you on, and your partner does it in a wholly respectful and satisfying way... Meh. Who am I to judge?
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I loved to lift my boyfriend, he didn't really mind too much at first, until he once said that I hurt him by not holding him carefully. I felt so guilty, after he said that. His body all of a sudden seemed so sensitive and fragile, because I didn't even notice or thought that I could hurt him by that at all. I couldn't imagine purposefully hurting him!! The girls who use their boyfriend as a push over have lost any sense of self-control.
bit of spanking and playful physical contact as long as it's wanted, sure... but not big on the whole idea of what i've seen some kinksters out there do where they get kicked and trampled on even punched...
tbh that isn't for me tbf, but hey if those people like it have at it
Absolutely play wrestling is fun, even if it is competitive is even better, with wresting holds, make the other gove up, and guys tend to go a little easier, which is part of the fun. I love it when it’s competitive, especially if the girl hates to loose. Definitely no punching, or kicking.
For. As long as it doesn't really hurt the person and they find it playful and fun as well. Of course should be in some moderation.. not like my girl keeps punching me every 2 minutes.
Guys "playfully" hitting the girl? Na, never a fan of that. It just seems bad.
I love being wrestled by a strong woman, preferably slim and petite but really knows her stuff, always had to pay for this though, I love being slapped in the face then spat on,,,
When I was 11/12 I got beaten up by a gang of girls in my sister's year, two school years above me, I'm sure it warped me lol,,,
But even at the time I thought it wasn't so bad,,,
I’ve play hit my ex before and he did the same to me. Barely hurt or anything. Like a slap on the shoulder or smacking each other’s butts. Not wrestling tho because I’d get destroyed even though it’s playing l. There’s a thin line between playing and abuse, and a lot of people either doing the abusing and getting abused like to use the excuse “oh I’m/they’re just playing”
I never tend to hit my girlfriend in any way except for lighthearted "slap" on the back of the head. Nothing with force but more of a playful "you really thought that, what's wrong with you?" Of course we would both laugh because of it. Spanking is the other playful hitting that we both do as a "catch me if you can" type thing where one of us spanks the other and runs away acting crazy, etc. Yeah, we are a couple of oddballs.
there's a very fine line. A playful slap on the arm is about as far as I'd go and even that is a bit concerning... and when I say slap I mean more of a tap. Not even enough to cause a sting. You should never hit anyone for any reason
The wife is against anything that's physical when it's playful , and just like you wrote (some spanking) none painful is alright. I wouldn't mind some pain in the bedroom (real pain yes) but other wise! Not so much.
For it up to a certain point. Like if my guy was doing something to playfully annoy me, I've lightly shoved or pushed or hit him a little, but not like full of punching and shit and he's also spanked me when i was bent over or just standing somewhere
Playful wrestling or spanking in the bedroom seems cool.
Slapping or hitting in anger... get the hell out of my life, I'm calling the cops now.
I think there’s a fine line! If it’s communicated that they like it or that it’s only playful then fair enough.
Otherwise it’s a no! Depends on the situation as well I think.
Playing fighting no because sometimes it might get out of hand, one of them might take it to far, or it might turn real not realizing it until it is to late. The only thing I might agree to is playful wrestling but than to u have to be careful with that.
It depends how painful it is and how often. It could be fun but too much I agree would be too much... Agreements on frequency and strength would have to be discussed :)
As long as we're pulling our punches or limiting our shoves, playful "roughness" can be amusing & endearing.
I love to wrestle, flip me, pin me, put me on holds, but soon as I taste blood my temper gets bad if I feel it was on purpose. My ex hit me once, busted my lip and I slammed his ass.
hitting? i dont think so, but wrestling sounds like fun because strikes can easily hurt someone... wresling is much better, less chance of inflicted pain... and could quite easily ESCALATE romantically
Against. I've seen too many couples hitting each other while throwing "jokes" and when someone points it out they disguise it as "we're being playful"... yeah right.
They took it because they couldn't go anything else! Play fighting never ends well, with anything when it's good it's great, but when it's bad it's only going to go down hill
Anything is fair game as long as they both consent beforehand.
I once had a lover that loved me being rough. The first time I'd never done anything besides spanking. And she taught me how to turn her on by being violent. She loved the bruises
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