Are you more into innocent flirting or dirty flirting?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Personally I'm more of a gentleman's flirter, I flirt like a gentleman but I've noticed that women that like dirty flirting (they exist) aren't attracted to gentleman's flirt game, so I'm asking to see if it's true.

So follow up question, whichever one you are, are you attracted to the other flirt type?

[NathanDavis]

whether is perceived as "innocent" or "dirty"

I do focus on one thing... if they are being genuinely playful and into it, then I might play along and I will "match their level" of playfulness and vibes, and therefore the way they're doing it or the way they started it...

and then, it is pretty much like a dance... sometimes you have them lead, sometimes you're both in sync, and other times you might lead and switch it up a bit, however... this is pretty much an art, lol... and it requires experience, the more experience the better

especially to recognize when their flirting with you is part of their silly, or playful nature so they do this with you because it was fun and it was fun to do in the moment, in the context... or because they actually have more of an interest and their flirting is just the first step to go for a bit more <<< this is one very important thing to know and differentiate

personally, I can be a "gentleman" too... but that's not the only thing I am or I can be, lol...

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's actually a very good trait, I can read vibes too and match it, it's hella beneficial which I'm assuming not everyone can, I get that you like to change things around but I stubbornly refuse to let the gentleman mindset go, even tho I've had many situations where it was tempting to do so, but then I always remember not to change for nobody.

[NathanDavis]

yes, I understand that...

but my point is not that I do change myself for others, no...

I am just "versatile" by nature.. or, there's a more broad set of aspects to my personality and character... sometimes you can do or go both ways genuinely

for example... I am not a violent person at all, and I am not impulsive at all either... I don't like to confront nor fight, I always avoid physical fighting but I am also a trained and prepared, person... in combat, so...

as much as some dudes have given me shit here and there, I don't care... I don't react to it, I am not dragged into BS fighting, but if I see someone messing with the ones I like in my life, that's not going to be pretty nor nice... and I do put a stop to it immediately, lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep I understand that, I wasn't saying you change for people I was just saying in general lol

But yea I understand what you mean haha

[NathanDavis]

good thing is.. you will always find someone that matches your style... and will be very much into it

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep good thing people are different lol

[Anonymous]

I really do not enjoy flirting. So it's probably the first one.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Fair enough

[IslaTheWitch]

None... the other person, situation, place, mood - all of it sets the stage. We can probe in many directions before we find the path which suits us both. Flirting is a process of learning and aligning.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You make a good point Isla 🤔

[mandyfire98]

I like just the regular fun flirting. The subtle flirting.

[ChicoFromThe305]

So innocent?

[mandyfire98]

Ish. Playful, subtle.

Now I am perfectly fine with the less Subtle dirty flirting later on like during the talking stage while dating.

My current boyfriend that's how it went. We would flirt in the gym just normal playful flirting and then he asked for my number. So while texting a lot back and forth it naturally progresses to being more sexual and dirty.

[ChicoFromThe305]

After forming a connection it's only normal for it to go a step further, yours counts as innocent, playful is innocent flirting, the question was meant in the moment where y'all don't know each other well lol

[mandyfire98]

Oh then yeah the dirty, sexy flirting right when I meet someone would probably turn me off lol.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like a good kindest to me lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Mindset* not kindest 😐

[mandyfire98]

I have the kindest mindset

[ChicoFromThe305]

Stop playin with me Mandy 😂

[mandyfire98]

Is that flirting maybe? 🤔

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah it's not, you are in a relationship, unlike most i respect people's relationships, I wouldn't want someone tempting my girlfriend so I don't do it to anyone else's women.

[mandyfire98]

I'm fucking with you lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

I figured 😂

[tiff_tiff]

Innocent flirty is fun and exciting... it makes me smile and laugh.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think that's a good choice tiff 🙂💯

[TiaNour]

I don't know why but the people who flirt in a funny way gets me lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Does that fall in the innocent or dirty category Tia cause if I'm not mistaken, funny can fall in both lol

[TiaNour]

Oh yeah ig that’s true 😅 I’ll put it in the innocent category

[ChicoFromThe305]

That sweating sus Tia but fair enough lol

[7Phoenix7]

Give me an example of Dirty flirting

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm sure you've seen plenty of it here

[7Phoenix7]

If you mean sexually explicit then... I like both. But just getting to know someone I prefer the other

[ChicoFromThe305]

Other? I'm assuming the innocent? Well I meant it in the getting to know someone stage so nice choice lol

[7Phoenix7]

Lol yea the innocent. And ok perfect, hehe

[ChicoFromThe305]

🤣🤣

[Lisia]

I enjoy innocent flirting more..

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then here, these are long overdue Lisa 💐😌

[Lisia]

Aww so sweet thanks

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol.

[CrimsonAngel09]

I can't flirt to save my life.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lmao and learning is off the table I assume 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

What is gentleman flirting?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

In person, flirting goes over my head. So, I can't tell when a guy's flirting with me. Other people have pointed out. I guess they were flirting like a gentleman 🤷🏻‍♀️

[ChicoFromThe305]

Proper respectful compliments, and smooth, clean but flirtatious behavior and speech

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Can u give me an example?

[ChicoFromThe305]

You must be the lost and found, the way I'm found lost in your eyes.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

It's sounds cliché

[ChicoFromThe305]

It does but you wanted an example and I gave it to you, it wasn't an actual flirt with me seeking for success 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Ok what is one that is successful

[ChicoFromThe305]

That just comes naturally, do I look like a computer to you 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Ok, what is one from the past that has worked?

[ChicoFromThe305]

We have been talking for a while already but when things were getting serious I told her that when she gave me her heart I put it in a bullet proof container that's guarded better than fort Knox, assuring to her that I'll never break her heart and I'll protect it.

Later on she broke mine but I kept my promise, hers is still whole.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Aww that's so sweet 🥲🤧

Sorry that happened to you Chico💔 🤗

[ChicoFromThe305]

Thank you but I'm not, someday I'll see the results and I know it was just a step in the right direction 🤗

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yes, very true. Very mature of you. 😊

[ChicoFromThe305]

Thank you 🙂

[Worst]

Both... depends on the person

[cherriibly]

Innocent 🥹

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's good 😌💯

[cherriibly]

Yepp 😌😌✨

[elizamichale1]

Amix of both