How can I turn the tables & get him to chase me?

[trubeauty100]

My ex has been texting me telling me he misses me but hasn't been acting like it. I told him before I would never chase after someone I didn't feel was into me but I recently found myself kind of chasing after him. I want him to be the one who chases me and I'm afraid I'm turning him off. I just caught myself doing it the last couple days. My question is, if chasing him has hurt my odds of winning him can I reverse the damage and get him to come after me? How?

[PeteSapper]

Stop chasing immediately. Everyone has a built in desperation detector and too much chasing can be a huge turn off, even when a guy is into a girl. If he's not responding to what you've been doing so far, the logical answer is to change your approach. The truth is, there's a high probability that he's also not responding because his attention is elsewhere. Guys are much more likely to chase you when they think you're in demand - so start talking to other guys just to let him know you've got options. Chances are, he'll change his tune once you stop chasing and start receiving.

[dpg89]

Just stop chasing him, he probably feels like he has you in the palm of his hands & he'll play with you. Or maybe you're giving him the idea that you're needy or desperate to get him back. It can turn him off. Once you stop chasing him, if he truly likes you, he'll come after you. Plus he'll probably miss you would want to know why the sudden change. If he doesn't come after, then he really wasn't that interested to begin with...good luck! hope this helps =)