How do you build sexual tension? Or flirt?

[Xavier16]

For example if your at a bar, or a party etc.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

my style is on the milder side. whatever sexual vibe i carry if i do is manifested in my body language, tone of voice, things like that. im not going up to girls pushing pick-up lines. its like there is maybe some threshold where the sexual tension is so absent that it is guaranteed friend-zone. i like to just go one notch above that. just one notch beyond absent. the sexual threat is up my sleeve. i try to make her feel safe. get her laughing. goof around. easy going. minimal sexual tension but just enough to make it clear that its there very subtly. im here for fun and laughs first. i can make out with her and grab her ass on the date. that said if she touches me then i touch back. i am escalating if she does anything to elevate the sexual tension. but i won't escalate until she escalates. at the default level i keep it as low as possible. thats just what works for me. im not that badass that can look a girl up and down, feed her a pick up line, and get her to throw herself at me

[TooDrunk4Sex]

thats just my way and u can find your way. but maybe this is a good way to try for a start for the type of guy who would ask this question. u be relaxed and unashamed that you want her, but u dont broadcast it. u go for her laughs and smiles

[TooDrunk4Sex]

also it helps 2 be aware of your own image. like the guys who are the smoothest and can do it mostly with eye contact and body language are usually pretty tall guys with a commanding presence. i dont have that unfortunately. i got the whole kind of, whoopeee! lets have fun! thing. so i gotta talk to her more and goof around more. im gonna look like a total geek if i tried to exchange glances with a girl across the party and walk up to her all serious-like as though im some movie star. thats just not happening with my image and the type of social presence i command. so it is better 4 me to sit down next to her and just ask her how it is going and try to get some laughs but always with some subtle reminder that i am looking to charm her and work towards that date. the sexual tension is there but i keep it to the minimum unless she's playing back at me. but probably ur best sort of angle is gonna depend on u and how u come across 2 people. u try to be aware of it and find an approach that complements it

[Xavier16]

Thanks my guy ill definitely keep this in mind to try

[Mark987]

For a guy that is really hard... but if anything you go beside her order a drink and just ask her a question? and then go from there

[Mark987]

one thing I know works is touching the back of her neck... and go through her hair

[Xavier16]

Ouuuu thats one imma keep in mind thank you very much sir for your knowledge

[Mark987]

that's what we are here for..
I didn't realize how big of a changer it was lol ENJOY

[Xavier16]

Most helpful opinion🙌🏽

[Secret6620]

I don't flirt... I have bad agoraphobia and I don't leave my home unless I can bring my psychiatric service animal. For a guy, I suppose you can try icebreakers and jokes to make her laugh... Usually women are anxious when being approached by a stranger who is a male. So focus on gauging how comfortable she is. If the vibe is good. Ask her things about herself. Nothing too invasive or intrusive. Just surface questions and small talk. Don't touch her at any point unless you've been invited into her personal space. And above all. Be yourself. It's the sexiest thing a guy can do. Be confident in himself and what he has to offer the world. Thanks for the invite. I wish I could be more helpful.

[Xavier16]

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[Secret6620]

Thank you!

[Secret6620]

YAY 🙋 Thanks for most helpful girl 🎀! You're sooooooo freaking AWESOME

[Xavier16]

❤😌i told you it was the MHO❗

[Anonymous]

I know teasing goes a long way may that be little gestures or some hot steamy compliments/flirts, girls love that! Look into her eyes if your with her in person with that intrigued/exciting look, maybe even playing a little game to spice things up.

[JoyGirl]

Teasing.

[Xavier16]

Short and simple lol

[JoyGirl]

Yessir
Works like a charm.