Sexual tension?

[Anonymous]

There’s so much sexual tension between me and a guy friend for over a year and we just can’t seem to get past it. Any suggestions

there’s this fear of losing the friendship I believe

[MrCommodore]

If you're already losing your friendship because of it, then I suggest you just go for it and see what happens.

[Asker]

That’s the thing. We aren’t losing it. We came close to sex once he stopped and said he didn’t want it to ruin our friendship. Now he can’t stop talking about how we should have 🤦‍♀️

[MrCommodore]

He is probably regretting not proceeding and having sex 😅. What about you? What do you want?

[Anonymous]

This is why I don't think men and women can be casual friends outside of work/school because more times than not it leads to sexual tension. My opinion is the friendship will likely have issues regardless if you bang or not, choose wisely

[Anonymous]

If you just say let's fuck but not let it affect our friendship then you will get it out of your system and be done with it.

[kylee2437]

It’s not a real friendship, that’s why. It’s a friendship based off of attraction

[KathrynTaylor]

Knock boots (have sex). Release the tension and see if there’s anything there.

[boggboss]

Have a actual adult conversation about the situation instead of playing games with eachother

[RavVid]

I think you need to give us more info on the situation

[JPresidente]

It will only go away when one of you gets out of the life of the other one.

[LimitedBenefits101]

"Men and women can be friends" YAWN.

[Asker]

Right! After this I will never call a man my friend again. It started off that way but began to shift. We’ve been friends for almost 3yrs now and he can’t go a day without some sort of contact.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Good , you are finally starting to understand

[spartan55]

A year? I would have gone to sleep by now.

[Asker]

The kicker is we began being friends almost 3yrs ago. June is when the attraction was somewhat acknowledged and he can’t go a day without contacting me. It’s a mess

[spartan55]

Talk about a slow burn...🙄

[panamared1]

It is possible, just always keep friendship first