Can sexual tension be awkward?

[Anonymous]

Can sexual tension that's been going on a while create awkwardness between 2 people?

[NaultD]

Awareness make things awkward everything else is irrelevant. At Some point you just need to say fuck it and embrass the weirdness and roll with it. Both of you are mirroring each other and scaring the other person off when you feel "awkward" so just don't be afraid of it.

[Asker]

It's easier said than done!

[NaultD]

Nothing worth pursing should be easy.

[Asker]

It's a lot more complicated - we are both in relationships so it's not very clean cut.

[Plowboy]

You two need to fuck and get it over with if you like one another then go for ot, even if you both lost your other partner you still have one another.

[Asker]

But that might not work out either. It could be a purely primal thing (but it feels like more), hard to know with all this lust clouding things. All I know is that I want him more than anything else

[Plowboy]

Obviously the partners you both currently have not pleased you sexually so it is normal to want something different

[Plowboy]

You wouldn't be wanting sex from another person if you were attracted to the ones you are with

[Asker]

I don't know if it's emotional as well as sexual, but I would be certain it's mostly sexual

[Whatthefluff]

Of course

[Motocrossmam]

Ever been on a first date? Case closed. Yeah its awkward lol

[Asker]

Lol! I don't know why I never realised before that it was awkward - uncomfortable silences awkward?

[Motocrossmam]

Plow boy stright up nailed it you two need to get it on. That'll go away right quick

[Asker]

But surely I can't just get it on with every guy I ever feel this with in the future. Although this is he first time I've ever felt this before

[Asker]

To this extreme anyway

[Motocrossmam]

I say if you have feelings for him be honest about it to him. Go out together and see what happend

[Asker]

My main fear is that he doesn't feel this and it's all in my head

[Motocrossmam]

Only one way to find out right?

[Asker]

Yea I know... just wish my telepathy worked

[valiant4ever]

yeahhhhh

[Asker]

Any ideas on how to make it less awkward?

[Dantheman101]

Absolutely

[Asker]

Any ideas on how to make it less awkward?

[Dantheman101]

Get it on

[Asker]

Haha! Is that the only solution?

[Dantheman101]

Clearly you both like each other

[Asker]

Yea...

[Dantheman101]

So what’s stopping youv

[Asker]

It's complicated - we're both in relationships

[Dantheman101]

Oh so how far have you gone just flirting

[Asker]

We flirted a bit, lots of eye contact, and then a mutual friend suggested we might want to reign it in a bit... and it's been awkward since then

[Dantheman101]

Do u think of him sexually way

[Asker]

Yep 🙈 it's very hard as the feelings I have towards him are pretty strong (this has been going on a while), and it's made me look at my current relationship

[Dantheman101]

you need to find out how serious he is then he might just want to get in your knickers one off nothing more

[Asker]

I have given that a lot of thought. And I think if he was sexually motivated, he'd have made a move by now and probably wouldn't be so awkward about it - but I could be wrong. This has been going on quite a while now

[Dantheman101]

what would you have done if he had made a move

[Asker]

I wouldn't have been able to say no... not that I'm proud of that but I wouldn't

[Dantheman101]

At least your honest are you the same age

[Asker]

Yea we are

[Dantheman101]

You should go for a drink discuss what you both want

[Asker]

We've kind of been avoiding the issue so I think organising a drink will be difficult

[Dantheman101]

Avoiding gets you no where

[Asker]

We both work for the same organisation too so adds a bit of complexity to it!!

[Asker]

I'm not sure how to address it.

[Dantheman101]

Clear the air chat or get it on

[Asker]

I tried for a clear the air chat a few months ago and he politely declined... yet last time I seen him, he was locking eyes with me constantly

[Dantheman101]

He wants you bad

[Asker]

But he hasn't made a move - makes me question whether I'm imagining it

[Dantheman101]

I doubt it

[Dantheman101]

Bet you work in a nice environment

[Asker]

It's real nice. He is in a different office to me so we don't even have to see each their every day... yet this still won't go away!!

[Dantheman101]

Bless him so I bet you go work looking quite hot and sexy then

[Asker]

We aren't in the same office so no need to

[Dantheman101]

Bound to see you walking about

[Asker]

We don't work in the same office!!!

[Dantheman101]

Sorry

[Asker]

I said that 3 times lol!

[Dantheman101]

I thought you meant as in not same room but same block my bad

[Asker]

Haha! No not even the same city

[LastNightmare]

a lot babe

[rahul651]

Yes sometimes