Should you tell someone you used to have a crush on them?

[wkozak]

It makes me remember my childhood, i liked my classmate but i was too shy about it so i told a friend but he was trying to help me in an embarrassing way, he was shouting near her and saying that i love her, it was too embarrassing for me and i told him to stop and he really stopped but in the end i don't think that she noticed me at this time, but by time we became friends and i became normal with her but my feeling had gone.
In the same period i had a classmate which was a neighborhood and she was too kind and we was 7 years old and we used to holding hands when we walk together and all the class thought that we are a perfect couple, but for me she was a close friend for me, when we was 10 years old i had a problem with some girls at school and i didn't know what to do and she was with me and suddenly they asked her why she is doing this for me and she without thinking said that she loves me and it was the first time in my life that someone confesses her feelings to me, i remember i couldn't reply because i was surprised and i had no idea what to say but she told me that she doesn't need a reply from me, it was a special moment in my life

[Jjpayne]

Why not!, if they are single and you have interest in them. It could at least be playful fun conversation.
Now you need to be more careful if you currently have a partner or they do.

I'd just aim at that point to be as playful with it as you can. Laughing and pushing in the arm, I used to have a crush on you in highschool. And if you do it right, it could work. But it's more iffy... You just need to feel it out.

[SnowyOwl]

Been wondering the same lately 😅 There's this YouTube trend of peoe sending a survey to all their past crushes. Then reading the answers in the video.
Reminded me of my crushes so I went to check their Facebook's. And then I realized that 1 of my crushes unfriended me on FB. And I'm pretty sure we were still 'friends' last year...
So Im just like whatever. His loss. Would have been funny to send him the survey.
There's more interesting people near to your present reality than your psst reality.
People change. They could also have a relationship now.
I mean if you're really really curious, sure ask them.
But why not get to know better someone you talk to now? Maybe you have friends you could get to know better and you might find you really like them.
I think that's better if you wanna ne happy, don't worry too much about the past.

[Pistolpete90]

I did it once to this guy because of a facebook post he wrote where he spoke about his low self esteem and how he thought he was incredibly ugly :( he was talking about trying to improve his self esteem.

I sent him a message telling him that I used to have a crush on him and thought he was an incredibly decent, lovely person, and if he ever had such negative thoughts about himself again, this message would serve as a reminder that even if he thinks the entire world believes any of that shit, I certainly don't/ didn't.

He was really appreciative of it and it meant a lot to him:)

[Avicenna]

Sure-watch me do it:

@Brainsbeforebeauty: I used to have a crush on you!

[TacosRAwesome]

Sure always nice to remind people they were once hot and grew out of it.

[SilverRain92]

Depends on the reason. You shouldn't but you may tell if you want. My friend was angry when I told her that I used to like her 5 years ago 😂

[slatyb]

You might. No reason not to.

[MindYourEyes]

Nah for what? Not like I’m pursuing em xD so nope.

[Account]

It is none of their business.

[jiffybutter]

Depends on your end game.

[Snakeyes7]

If you used to have a crush on them then why would it matter how they respond?

[Anonymous]

Lol, go on Facebook and say "I had a crush on you before you got fat"

[bklynbadboy1]

I mean if you no longer have a crush on them then whats the point

[ItsTheNephilim]

Don't see any point in that.

[JosyJosy]

No I dont see what that would accomplish

[Niya2006]

I wouldn't unless they asked

[Riddler1412]

Not if you're friends now.

[Giggltr0nn]

Why? It's not gonna do any good for anyone surely?

[whatdoyouwantt]

I mean if you feel like it why not

[DC_Underground]

I used to have a crush on you

[Anonymous]

No, it makes them question themselves. "Why did she stop crushing on me?"

[Bidensucks2020]

do you want to? if so then ok

[Snowman666]

Yes it is nice to know

[Gedaria]

I find they probably know...

[The_unknown_memer]

No no I highly recommend to keep it to your self

[Ash525]

There's no point in that.

[CubaPirate]

Only if you're hot now and they're not anymore

[Dave31989]

on wednesdays, we wear pink

[jimmy2]

No let sleeping dogs lay

[DannyUk2017]

Why not? But you used to have or still have?

[rachel776]

if you do, they're going to want you now

[JoseyWales4]

I don’t see why not

[Cryptic-Game]

I doubt it is necessary to let them know.

[hellohruu]

Why not :D

[eagle1951]

i would today for sure

[sheikalana]

Is not necessary.

[bradc00]

Only if I’m attracted to them at that moment

[fierysoul]

I don't think so it's not healthy

[InferiorElegy]

Nope, definitely not.

[MannMitAntworten]

“Used to”? No...

[In_Trance]

Depends; is your crush single?

[Sergian]

I do, sometime it works but sometimes it doesn't

[JimboGB]

What would be the point?

[Anonymous]

Nah , absolutely no need to do that.

[Twalli]

Probably not

[bush123]

Rather not

[lazermazer]

Really? Why

[kyachahiye]

No, unless you want him/her now.

[ProLife]

What's the point?

[mrgspoter]

Why you want to rub it in

[SpaceGalaxy]

Yes, definitely

[answerseeker127]

Unless they ask, no

[Anonymous]

Only if you're willing to go down on them still

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Pointless.

[motownplayer2000]

Yes..

[MrTwix]

Not without a reason

[bsbsgs]

Ggashsggww

[Acidgamer]

Definitely