Putting hand on a girls leg, why would you guys do this to a girl?

[Anonymous]

Can you guys shed some light on this situation. Why would you guys put your hand a girls leg every time she sits next to you. Does this mean you like her, and are trying to make a move on her?

[evil_dentist]

I don't know if it means he's hitting on you per se. Haha, I once knew this French exchange student and when we went out for drinks one time he placed on hand on my knee and the other on the small of my back.

I was sorta like, "Oh okay then," but all we did was dance and nothing came out of it. To be honest, it was kinda seductive, so maybe he was coming on to me (but it could also be a cultural thing?).

[Anonymous]

i would be careful because that is crossing the line being sexual...and usually guys who do that just want sex and play girls...

so unless you wanna end up in that situation stay away from this creep be smart and don't end up getting played

u want a nice gentleman guy who protects you and holds your hand when walking, not some creeper who wants to feel up your legs...major red flag!

[Anonymous]

Yeah he is making a big move but in a creepy way. I wouldn't let any guys touch my legs period because it is one of the method that guy use to turn girl on.

[ladsin]

tryin to make a move... or animalistic version shows he owns you... in a sense showing his superiority

[Asker]

kinda sexist when you put it that way, that he "owns me" lol

[ladsin]

it really is honestly inb that sense not saying that's why hr does that's just one option... with a girl I really like I'm always touching her just because I wanna get as close as I can with her, and its funny seeing how she reacts when I "explore"

[Asker]

I guess guys are just programmed that way to act superior in every way possible lol

[ladsin]

well like I said that's the anamalistic side to it... even dogs do that lol I don't know if youve noticed but a dog putting its paw on you is one of their signs of dominance =P

[Herewego]

Means they wanna f*** in a creepy ass way...let a guy win you over with his humor instead.

[Asker]

what if he already did?

[Herewego]

idk seems kind of weird that they do that when your not dating, just sayin. is it really everytime?

[Asker]

i mean we are at that stage were we are kinda more then friends

[Dragonblood21]

I wouldn't unless I was dating the person. It seems like it would just be awkward any other way. But it sounds like they are trying to make a move, yes.

[Anonymous]

There's this friend of mine and I am attracted to him. I was talking to him the other day and he dropped his phone on the floor so as he bent down he put his hand on my leg, I sensed that he did it for a reason but I'm not totally sure?

[HughGRection]

He stuck his hand on your leg and you're not dating him? Hmm...Did you enjoy it?

[Asker]

i don't know if we are dating, I don't know what we are, haven't put a name on it

[prettymuscle]

oh so every guy you sit with does that to you

[Asker]

no just this guy I kinda like

[prettymuscle]

ehh do you guys even go out and did you already have sex with him and if so I guess you guys are just friends with benifits

[Asker]

no I did not have sex with him, and I don't plan on it. but we did go out 8 times in the past month

[prettymuscle]

lol I guess if your letting him put his hands between your legs and your not doing anything about it, you must be liking it :)

[Asker]

lol when did I say he was putting his hand between my legs. I think you mis-read the question, because I said he put his hand on my leg meaning near my knee

[prettymuscle]

lol well you know what I mean, if its on your knee then you must be likley it

[Shaun]

That's a move.