It was my last day at work and didn't say bye to my crush, help!!

[coolcar]

It was my last day at work today and. After a year in a half of crushing on my male friend and somewhat sensed he felt the same since he was super sweet and always helpful. My last day I said bye everyone they gave me hugs and took me for lunch but my crush was no where to be found I was so sad I waited around to see if I could see him but I didn't get a chance to say bye and I was planning to give him my number my last day any advice? Is all lost?

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Update! Hey guys thanks for the advice! I got his number from a coworker and then I text my crush telling him I didn't get a chance to say bye! " And he text me back and suggested we go out sometime whenever I wanted! Aww! Then he friendrequested me on Facebook!

[SenselessNoise]

Get his email or phone number from someone at work (surely you made some friends that are staying friends after you quit). Tell him you missed him on your last day, and that you were hoping to see him.

Leave it at that. If he responds back, it'll either be with an offer to meet up somewhere (drinks, coffee, movie, etc.) or (if he's super shy or not interested) a weird excuse or no response at all.

[SenselessNoise]

Glad to hear it all worked out. :)

[SunSeeker]

What about when you go pick up your check? Or maybe you could stop by and visit it is a place like a restaurant or something? All is not lost, if there's a will there is a way, always remember that :)

[coolcar]

I worked as a reporter at a small city channel he was my camera person.. A week ago after an assignment I found him on Facebook and messaged "thanks" for helping me out with a piece but he didn't respond I noticed he had not logged in for a while I noticed he barely logged in yesterday night ... What should I do?

[SunSeeker]

You sent him a message and he logged in and never responded? If that's the case, I don't know :(

But hopefully your message wasn't just a plain "thanks," and hopefully in it you suggested you two should keep in touch.

[coolcar]

A. Week ago I sent him a "thank you" for a particular project. (Not about me leaving etc) it was just a thank you I wondered why he didn't respond to the thank you for project note..so I realized he didn't logg in till last night. Now it was my last day but considering my plain thank you wasn't answered I feel odd about contacting him to say goodbye? When I said goodbye to another coworker he mentioned to someone else that my crush was gonna be very sad..any advice?

[SunSeeker]

Ah man that's tough. Personally, I wouldn't responded to a "Thank You" because that doesn't leave me anything to say except "You're Welcome," which is just weird for me to send a note with nothing but that. If you have a friend who knows him that still works there, I'd tell that friend to relay a message for me that sorry I couldn't say goodbye and hopefully someday we see each other again. If he doesn't act on that, then his loss.

[coolcar]

Before I left I hugged everyone and in front of four of my coworkers I told them to tell my crush I said "goodbye" and that I didn't get a chance to tell him.. And my coworker said they would tell him..my plan was to give him my number and hug but I didn't see him at work. So do you think I should get his number to tell him? Or leave it to my coworker to tell him I said bye?

[SunSeeker]

If you basically told four coworkers he was your crush, then I think its about time he started putting his share of the work involved.

[coolcar]

No I didn't tell them he was my crush. I told them to tell him goodbye for me because I didn't get a chance to see him and that's when another coworker said that my coworker(who I have a crush on) was gonna be very sad...did he know something?

[SunSeeker]

If he said it like that then yeah most likely. Like I said, get a coworker to relay a message.

[coolcar]

Thank you so much for the advice. I'm so bummed I didn't get to see him let's hope those coworkers tell him I said bye : (

[SunSeeker]

No problem, I'm sure It'll all work out :)