Why did my work crush leave the job and never contact me since?

[Anonymous]

It has been like 9 months or more since i last saw and heard from him and that was at work. At the time he had transfered to a new deoartment so i barely was seeing him at work anyway. So in essence the split was like a slow fade until i just realized i would never see him at work again because it seemed like he had left. We have mutual work buddies. One of them mentiones him a a few months ago so it seems like my crush kept in contact with his bros but not me at all. I guess I really meant nothing to him.

[Googlemyahoo]

What’d you hook up with him?

[Asker]

I don't forniate.

[Asker]

Fornicate.

[Googlemyahoo]

So you liked him. Did he express that to you?

[Asker]

He invited me to get drinks multiple times. I didn't realize that may be a date invitation so I always denied it because I dont drink alcohol. I don't know i feel so stupid and messed things up.

But now i keep thinking about him... 9+ months since i last saw him... And I don't know why. I just keep wondering what happened in his head, why he left me. A while ago i brushed it off. Now it keeps knocking at the door of my mind.

[Googlemyahoo]

You muslim? Was he muslim? Maybe cultural barriers scared him

[Asker]

No...

[Googlemyahoo]

Yep you messed up. Asked you out multiple times and you declined. He went and found someone else.

[Asker]

Hmm... You know what its probably for the best because i have been in love with another man for even longer than i had been talking to him. I dont know if a man would wantto really be with a woman whos helplessly in love with another guy.

[Asker]

Although since i probably can't or won't be with the one i love, i would be willing to settle for another man.