Where do you draw the line between flirting and seduction?

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JackSmy · Accepted Answer

I very openly flirt with a lot of the married women that I work with, because they are CONSTANTLY BITCHING about their husbands, and how they don't notice anything, or care, or on and on!!
I flirt, just to make them smile! I like when they know I am looking, but they also know me, and know I would NEVER, EVER do anything with them, because they are married!!
But they LOVE the attention, and they love the little things I say, even though I could get into HUGE TROUBLE with HR for "inappropriate" things!!
I flirt, and tease them, and make them smile, but I would never kiss, or do anything more than just a friendly hug, if she initiated that!

Teyfet · Accepted Answer

Flirting is a game, teasing & playful. Most relationships have healthy doses of flirting, especially in the early stages as the couple gets to know one another (& hopefully later as well). Flirting can by used to gain more information about each participant's personality.

Seduction is about manipulation by person (s), typically of someone younger, more inexperienced, & /or reluctant. Seduction frequently has sinister connotations because of the power imbalance in the relationship, and the singularly sexual motivations of the controlling party.

modelUN242 · Accepted Answer

They're the same? I can't tell the difference that much. But I think flirting is more relaxed than seduction. Seduction is more intense. If someone wants to seduce someone, they would wear revealing clothing and there's more touching. Flirting can be through words and body language. And if the person doesn't reciprocate I guess they move on, whereas seduction is going for your prey kind of thing.

PaynefulPleasures · Accepted Answer

Just a thought ✌️

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Hmm hard one.

okay I can flirt with friends, I can flirt with a girl I’m interested in and simply keep it as flirting.
Now seduction, I honestly don’t know when I simply change from flirt mode to Hunter prey mode.

I think with seduction you have processed all the signals received from the other person and your brain now ups a gear to develop and attack plan - Seduction plan.
other than that fuck knows

HiveBee · Answer

Maybe same thing just different level?

I dont know. I dont feel like I've ever "seduced" anyone. Even with girls who I hooked up with randomly. Like, it always felt like she wanted me back and i didn't have to do some special seduction techniques to turn a no into a yes.

HawkPerception · Answer

Flirting is just innocent fun like smiling, small discreet touch in areas that are not sexual, lots of eye contact, etc. Whereas seduction is literally enticing someone using sexual appeal. It can still include eye contact, but in a more sexual manner. obviously the touch would be in places that turn you on.

TheorionMage · Answer

'Flirting' is "I find you attractive"
'Seduction' is "Action speaks LOUDER than empty words!"
The 'bullshit' STOPS , where / when the clothing drops~

Where do you draw the line between flirting and seduction?

(ADULTS are responsible for EACH THEIR OWN 'fertility' )

Xitomyth · Answer

I'm a natural flirt, so I do it without realizing I'm doing it... But in terms of seduction, I do believe that it refers to temptation in a bad way. Basically if someone is seducing you, they are actively trying to entice you to do something stupid, if not wrong in some way, and or have sex with them. Flirting is fun and witty and usually natural, seduction is not...

serious · Answer

I don't think lines can be drawn here because flirting is done with the intention of eventually seducing the person so the final objective is same.

Hence unless it is flirting of stand alone type or flirting for fun or harmless flirting type any other type of flirting will eventually proceed towards seduction.

Therefore I am sure lines cannot be drawn here.

Jjpayne · Answer

It's a good question! 🤔 Maybe when it's used to make a person do something they would not normally do, that's seduction

COMMODOREII · Answer

Seduction is defined as the action of seducing someone.

Flirting is defined as behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions.

Two very different things. I state this because there are far too many people out there who thinks flirting is an act of adultery or cheating. They are wrong. If they can not know the difference then they shouldn't be dating.

Maninderdeepsharma · Answer

Accha to me feet seduction is my cup of tea. My weakness is feet. If I see beautiful nailpainted toe and in heels. I am into pain I love if a girl steps on my body in heels. Lol. Just wana experience this once. Doesn't it's painful or not. This makes me hard. I don't know it's weird or wht!

DizzyDesii · Answer

Flirting doesn't involve touching. Seduction usually does. Plus if i seduce someone, im likely trying to have sex

WarningWarning · Answer

I don’t think there is a difference l. Unless you are naturally a flirtatious type of woman. And seducing is just the after effect

rjroy3 · Answer

Escalation and baseline intent. There's flirting for fun and then there's flirting to have sex. All seduction is flirting but not all flirting is seduction.

loveslongnails · Answer

Funny question. Others flirt with you, but no one can seduce you unless you allow it. You're the one who can flirt back and leave it at that, or accept what you perceive as an invitation to go further.

putthefootdown · Answer

Suggestive looks, clearly constant sexualised jokes directed at rather than spoken generally, and finally, other 'obvious' tell-tale signs of; 'that' and 'more' and yeah... 😐

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Flirting is a form of seduction, but any form of touch is off limits.. that’s where I draw the line if it’s just friendly

ohshee · Answer

Hopefully I don't have to draw the line hopefully I can Circle it and put a time to meet next to it

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Well, I sometimes flirt with people, but I don't ever try to seduce anyone. I think it's unethical, because I have an unfair advantage. Because I'm just too damn sexy.

Anonymous · Answer

When I shove my tongue down their throat is not flirting anymore

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

There is no line, flirting is seduction, they are synonyms.

Dontaaa · Answer

With whatever a person's intentions are when they're flirting.

Unbeatable · Answer

Seduction to a modern day bitch means giving you the opportunity to imagine yourself with her... its almost the same as flirting. Bitches are basic

genericname85 · Answer

seduction contains explicit sexual intend vs flirting, where sexual intend is implicit at most.

Tanisha69 · Answer

Taking off your shoe and rubbing your foot against his leg is serious flirting lol

elizamichale1 · Answer

Dressing provocatively is one of my things before all the touching n flirting

pokerbot · Answer

Seduction has serious intent, flirting frequently doesn't.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

When there are proposals to spend time together and body contact like holding hands etc.

EmotionOfFear · Answer

Draw the line? One can lead into the other, I won't necessarily have any problems with that...

Vinnygraphix · Answer

I don’t know because I’ve never been in that position

Shellyworld · Answer

Flirting is done by words or by behaviour but seduction is like touching to arouse etc. you know..

Nazgol · Answer

When it's more sexual & revealing that's when it becomes seduction and "sexting"

kkirk4442 · Answer

I suppose when the flirting takes a more serious tone.

msbrightness · Answer

What do you do when your bitch smells of a foreign smell?

robocop666 · Answer

when your in their house its seduction. get the action going now

Poppykate · Answer

When it becomes physical. 🤔

WowwGirl · Answer

Vulgar comments is one

princeofromance · Answer

There is no line to be drawn. Flirting leads to seduction.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

That pic

sammy1999 · Answer

touching is seducing flirtings just talk

Twalli · Answer

If you ske romance it's seduction.

Massageman · Answer

About half-way up the shin, apparently - - - - -

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s no line to draw I’m a single guy

Alpha4U · Answer

There is no line for me.

Gezginmalkoçoğlu · Answer

If you can do both; it will taste like nothing😋

msc545 · Answer

At the door to the bedroom.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

When she starts unzipping my pants

simplesarah · Answer

I don't know 😜

Anonymous · Answer

When I blow him

Anonymous · Answer

When you whip out your dick?

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

When she asks me to hold her hand

Waldoe · Answer

WHY? why draw a line?

GaryFaulkin · Answer

At the zipper

DaMack999 · Answer

You don't draw the line you flow with the flow.

Anonymous · Answer

Sex!

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