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He could do that just through connecting with her if he’s not that into her. Women often see compliments as fake anyway.
Gold mine being...
Yeah. Can I ask why you say that? It’s just good to get a guys perspective.
Everyone wants to be wanted, so they feel as long as they say those things they can get a girl. Just an observation from what I've seen.I believe actions are the only real truth. If someone likes you, they have to prove it beyond just words.
I agree on the actions part.
So what’s the best way to respond to it in the beginning? Just play along but hold back on sex?
That depends on what YOU want out of it. If you feel as if he just wants sex and you don't want it, then don't sleep with him. Sex is important in any relationship, though.
I’m not looking for anything casual.
I feel like it’s going to be hard to gage what he wants tbh.
There’s not really any overthinking involved, it’s a simple enough question. Presuming people are mind readers and all think like you is the first mistake.
Still women keep doing that
it does, it really does go back around if you're talking to me irl xDDD but then what happens is that the guy stops flirting as much. Is it because they already won me over and they dont wanna put more effort or they actually get scared at how well it worked? id like to know hahah.Cuz i'd really like the complimenting/flirting to be mutual and ongoing...So i wonder why being responsive doesn't give the best results
If I stopped flirting it's bc I think we are on good terms. Maybe not exactly friends but I like you and you like me as a person. At that point I'd just want to talk and see where a conversation with you would go. That's how I really judge women. How great of a conversation can we have if we both bounce ideas off of eachother. I think it takes 2 people to steer a conversation and it can be an amazing ride. Then comes activities. If we literally work well with each other and have fun doing it then that's also great... compliment, converse, cooperate... get a 10/10 in those 3 categories and I'm in love. by the way I did just think of this idea as I typed it out
ouuu ok (: then i must be doing well because last time i hung out with this guy he didn't wanna go into his apartment. he said "im really enjoying our conversation". so we took a detour to extend our time together that day.So next stop, activities. well I think you've answered my recent question (ill check it out after this), but I can't really see him for the time being. So I'll need some patience before any activities can happen. Thanks for sharing by the way! you gave me sort of a road map (:
Truth is not all women are the same. Unless all men are terrible.
no not all women are the same you are right BUT MOST OF YOU ARE THE SAME there is such a small amount of good women it's a needle in a hay stackand the reason I know this is cause ofFLAT EARTHAND COVIDthe mask tells me everything about you girls and lets me know who are the good ones
It works to what end exactly? You mean casual sex?
Somehow I think the intentions are generally different, which is the whole point of the question.
Not necessarily.You’ve asked a question.Now you want to give “ Your” answer.Now, the point is, that you don’t get to tell me what I think , or ever will...
How is it overthinking? It’s a pretty simple question.