Does my ex girlfriend still have feelings for me!?

[Anonymous]

So we were friends at first, but then she would always lay her head on me and I guess from that physical contact I started to like her back. So we went out for about 8 months, and the first several months were good (best time of our life), but then things become sour in our relationship. We would always fight about stupid things. We would be fine one day and then get in the fight the next. Eventually she broke up with me, but right after that she wanted us to just be friends. But at first, I would try and give her a break and not talk to her so I could heal but she would always get upset if I tried to take a break.

It have been about 9 to 10 months since the break up, and we still hang out and are" friends." But I still get the feelings that she still has feelings for me ( I do for her). She constantly touches me, bites me (playfully bites), touches my butt, feds me, and says good night sweet dreams to me. What I don't get is do you think she still has feelings for me? Should I talk to her about this? She really confuses me. The reasons she gave me when she broke up with me were that she had to focus on school (the whole time she was at school she talked to me online every night) and because she just didn't feel that spark anymore. I'm assuming cause of all the fights that we had. But please tell me what you think. She is currently on vacation, and we are not texting each other because we agree to give each other space.

[Jojo0218]

I think she still has feelings for you, it's really hard for girls to completely get over their ex. It might be harder for her because you guys still hang out and talk regularly. So she sees you and the things that you do will remind her about how it was when you were together and how she might miss it. Either that or she really just wants to hold on to you because you mean that much to her. Maybe she's waiting for he right time to tell you or waiting for more signals from you. I hate using the "drunk kiss" but if you guys do happen to kiss at a party of some sort then you guys will be forced to talk about it and you'll see how she feels about it. It's most probable that she'll say she still has feelings but wants to take things slow or something and I don't know how you feel about that.

[Asker]

She was the one that wanted to continue to be friends. And she does talk about stuff that we used to do, like old memories of ours. Also she still keeps some of the texts I sent her when we went out like "love you" and stuff like that. My only question is that I do still have feelings for her, but I don't know if things will work out. I have really thought about asking her about this, but I just never got around to do it...

[Jojo0218]

Why won't it work?

[Asker]

cause one of the reasons that she broke up with me was because she got in a lot of fights. She is a more family-oriented person, while I am more of a person that likes spending time with friends. I do enjoy spending time with my family, but not all the time. She constantly spends every second with her family and doesn't have time to hang out with me. And at the moment we are in a fight because I get upset that she never has time for me cause she is always with her family.

[Anonymous]

Yeah let her know