For me: Actual interest. This is best expressed by quick responses to messages, asking questions, holding a conversation, and not giving only one-sentence/one-word answers. Reaching out i. e. not waiting for me to contact her first before every conversation is also welcome and reassuring. I personally hate feeling that the only reason someone is talking to me is because I'm chasing them. That's an outright deal breaker because it suggests that she can't make time for a relationship, or she is weighing other "options" besides me.
In summary; display a level of interest/investment to match my own.
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If we doesn't meet up IRL on a regular basis it doesn't matter how good you are at texting. it will die and end faster than you realize.
If we meet regular basis it's because it gives something. most likely due to emotional interest. if it doesn't develop to a relationship like close friends there I don't have more feelings or to that special one it will also end.
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If I am interested in a lady, I call her. Texting is for children who are too shy to have real relationships.
Energy. The only way I can keep texting you back is if your giving off that energy that I give you. Show some interest in me , if not I won't text back and if you don't text me back on your own and wait for me to text you then I consider the convio over and ill see you when I see you.
For me, I hate the constant one or two word answers. It's a conversation, she should add something to her responses.
Also, I hate the idea of 'I texted last, I can't text again'... the waiting on a response before she types again. The exchange of ideas should just happen, not be 'whose turn is it'If she's committed to talking about various topics, interested in many things, can react quickly and extensively to ideas and implications. If I can't feel the passion, it's rather boring.
When she's keeping up texting me back and putting in neutral effort. She's being persistent back to me. She's going in the direction of actually taking me seriously.
It's more fun when we're being silly and she's laughing at my jokes :)Where if our attraction completely faded from eachother, we could still hit it off & have things to talk about.
It would be fun of I would get the sense that it was leading somewhere like a date.
She just needs to put effort onto it. Sometimes girls just let the guy do everything, and it can get extremely annoying. Just show a bit of effort, carry the conversation, topic doesn't matter. Show that you care and don't take multiple hours / days to reply. Don't reply instantly every single time aswell, you'll seem needy. Sometimes reply instantly, other times take a few minutes. But never a long time, unless you're sleeping or doing something.
She has to be entertaining and fun to talk to. Even if we talk about nothing at all; the dialogue needs to playful and colorful.
Nothing like that can happen. Not to the extent that I would want to keep texting a woman. No.
If she would be pretty, smart and her messages would be intelligent. And if she would be naughty or try to put a smile on my face by their messages then it would be also better.
Hotter is +1
More of a virgin +1
Flirting ability +1
Thats it. Nothing else really matter at the end of the day. Thats what keeps me coming back to a text game.If I want to text her then I would just call her. Texting is for children.
Simple.. flow of conversation.. and not too much no no no to minor things from both sides
Natural flow of conversation, topics, humor, etc.
If she's texting back
When I can feel the chemistry with her.
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