Does a girl's attractiveness affect how early you respond to her text?

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rjroy3 · Accepted Answer

No. But our relationship/connection does.

I'm not consciously ignoring a girls texts and waiting to respond. I'm doing shit and get to it when I can in what I consider a timely manner. Sometimes that's 30 min Sometimes that's 5 hours. If she catches me while I have my texts open and I get a message I will respond back right that second if I don't have to be somewhere right that second.

A girl being hot doesn't change that. My schedule and where we are with eachother dictates it. I don't do those text games.. it's Like who is this girl to me right now?

Is she a hot girl I find interested and looking to make plans? Then yea I'll definitely get back to her today at some point. Is she just a fun girl I met that has more friends vibe. Unless she's sending some banger texts that have me rolling in laughter she is more or less on the back burner of my priorities.

I don't want to text a bunch of people all day long like I used to back in highschool. Too much other shit I want/need to do. So texting is already on the back burner for me.

If I see my texts in general. There are texts ill read and don't respond because the message doesn't require a response. There are texts I'll read and decide to answer that later when I have time to give it the attention it needs.

There are texts that ill get back to right that second because it takes no time at all nor much thought. And there are texts in the middle. Like maybe it's not a wall of text, but it's something I have to think about.

I'll think about it and get back to them.

MannMitAntworten · Accepted Answer

Not remotely. I respond as time allows equally to anyone who messages me. Texting isn’t a pissing match to see who can out wait who in my world. I’m a friggin’ adult. More often than not I can squeeze in at least a response noting I cannot talk right now versus just keeping them hanging. There are however the occasional individuals who like to suck up a LOT of my time flooding me in text… those individuals I am guilty of taking an extra moment to respond to. Particularly after I already said I cannot talk right now. I have not had a problem with girlfriends doing this. Just people in general I have barely gotten to know and seem to require large amounts of attention. …and some of them have been awfully damn attractive …. So again, looks plays zero into the equation.

Anonymous · Answer

It does in relation to me. It's one of the things that always amuses me about women. We all know when someone is in our league or not. But women struggle with this more than guys. I don't know if it's because some guys hit on anything that moves. But it always makes me laugh when I meet a woman. She's clearly interested. And she texts me like there's something between us. I'm like girl you need to go warm up in the bullpen. I'll call if I need you. I'm sorry you just don't warrant a starters spot. You want that you need to aim a little lower.

Battooot · Answer

No it's more like how much i really like her. I may not be attracted to a girl but if i really like her and respect her, if i was free when she texts il probly respond right away.

But even if im soooo inlove with the most beautiful girl, if im busy im busy. I have work, studies, life.. etc. only thing that would happen is me counting the minutes to get free so i can talk to her or video with her asap.

J2ohhhhh · Answer

No. If she replies within minutes I reply as soon as I can. If she replies later and she says that she was busy I reply as soon as I can. If she replies longer than 10 minutes without apology or excuse I'll reply when I'm in the mood which can take minutes or years.

Browneye57 · Answer

No. Irrelevant. You simply cannot forge a relationship with any guy by texting. They just don't respond well to that mode of communication. Use it to arrange your next meet up IRL. In order to get to know someone you need to spend quality adult time together, face to face. Text your girlfriends.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

No, my priorities dictate when i text. Its a waste of time anyways. If she is really interested in talking she will call me. I only text to set up meetings or send photos and media. Save some time and expectations and talk over the phone

Kenzy009 · Answer

Yes
naturally I will respond faster, beacuse I prioritize interaction with an attactive girl. However due to these ridicolous games you have to play to get women I might choose to respond later to make her think im high value by barely having time for her

ZackBan · Answer

It's less about the attractiveness and more about how much I'm intersting and how much time I have.

But if I do have time and the person is someone I feel like talking to I'll talk as soon as I can attractive or not

Jfranco12 · Answer

No, I respond to everyone fairly early. It’s just how I text, when I see it I usually respond within a couple of mins maybe a little longer if I am busy. Has nothing to do with attractiveness or not.

Brianbrake · Answer

At first it is like that. If it is someone I am getting to know, I will respond to the prettiest first, then the one that I find most interesting will be my priority.

Sebass620 · Answer

The thing that most affects my response time it's the quality of the conversation, if it's funny or interesting...

AgentRED · Answer

No. If she makes the simple effort to carry a conversation then perhaps but 9 times out of ten she doesn’t reply on social media at all.

hahahmm · Answer

No. It can affect how long/big his member gets. And no I'm not joking.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

No. I am terrible when it comes to texting on the phone. I never look at them.

insignificant_person · Answer

It can affect. But if I would be busy, I will not have time to respond neither average girl or super hot girl.

BareNecessary · Answer

Not really anymore. I'll think on it a bit more. I dont play any texting games. Juat text when I can and done. Fuck em if they get offended or impatient because of everyone's bullshit standards.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I would think that it would be simply obvious in that I would be more attracted more and more to the point of a physical relationship and much more beyond physicality.

jamesgoldman · Answer

No, I'm busy you might get a back and forth conversation you might wait 2 days to get a response

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Doesn't matter to me. I don't play those silly games about texting. If I'm available to text I will text right back.

Minamikun · Answer

No I always respond a girl earlier depending of how close we actually are

K-I-S-S · Answer

Ask that question again, in a month. But then have a hot chick for a profile pic.

Allisone · Answer

It used to. Definitely. But now it's more like depends on how much she's willing to put into the texting. If she doesn't out much into it, then why bother?

Anonymous · Answer

Her attractiveness affects EVERY part of my interaction with her

Luckycharms12 · Answer

It can for some I guess. But now days people are always busy working

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

No, but her age does. I’d be surprised if a woman between 30 and 35 gets a text at all.

Nick473 · Answer

Not at all. Its more about the relationship and the current dynamics

Honeyandpeanutbutter · Answer

No, I delay replying to everyone as a I don't really know what say.

FirestarterSid · Answer

Yes. If I am not attracted to you I won’t talk to you.

Anonymous · Answer

yes, if i am not attracted to her than why bother with her

slatyb · Answer

I don’t text. Either we’re dating or we’re not.

dillbill561 · Answer

Yeah. Attractive girls don’t text me

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