Do you prefer light flirting, heavy flirting, or no flirting?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

Light flirting is kind of like going around and around and around the one of those revolving doors every time you pass by the person you say huh. And to be honest I run from heavy flirting because if they ever get ahold of you you're through I've had that happen to me before I woke up I didn't know where I was. I feel like I was in Twilight Zone all I wanted was water and the ambulance. In a cigarette LOL

Lliam · Accepted Answer

No flirting = no interest.
Heavy flirting is like a cat in heat.
But ladylike flirting is charming. It sends just the right message.

I like that first photo, by the way. Yeah, the guy is pulling out all the stops on his Pepe le Pew routine. But I love that girl's outfit and her body language.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Flirting? What's that?

Look, I'll be honest, if a guy talks to me and it's not related to work, video games, or they need something from me, I consider that a good day. With that being said, sometimes "less is more." Simple flirting is more effective than trying too hard. Heavy flirting comes on like he's trying too hard to impress me.

Do you prefer light flirting, heavy flirting, or no flirting?

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

I say all of the above and also none.. depends. It’s nice to flirt with the person you are with. Having been with a person you should already know how much and when, but it does feel good, as it shows continued interest. Not just “Are we having sexy time tonight?” *yawn*

JClone55 · Answer

Light flirting. No need to overdo it. But strangely enough there are married women at work that flirt with me quite regularly. I don't quite get that and I don't really respond because. . . well. . . they're married. In fact most of the time it's married women that flirt with me. I don't know why married people flirt to begin with. I scratch my head because I don't understand that. But maybe it isn't meant to be understood, like particle physics or something.

Cherry234 · Answer

I prefer light flirting. But if I'm really into a guy then I like heavy flirting. It makes me feel special

sage2021 · Answer

I really enjoy playful flirting with my fiance. I cannot speak for him, but I believe he enjoys it just as much.

Shamiah02 · Answer

Depends who it with. If we ain't together light We together heavy

Red_Arrow · Answer

I don't flirt with women I do not know in general. But if they are very sexy and pleasant to interact with, I can be drawn into flirting. Are you horny this morning? :-)

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Either no flirting or light flirting depending on who’s doing it

YollyM · Answer

I prefer for a guy to state his business (e. g "I like you, I'd like to take you out") point blank, I don't have time to be reading between the lines.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Just "light" if any. Some people get creeped out with anything more than light.

AndrewMG · Answer

I mean I'd go for light flirting... ask this question to some of the people that I've lightly flirted with and there's every chance they might prefer no flirting though lol

eminde · Answer

Heavy flirting can be effective sometimes but light flirting works like a charm every time🤷‍♂️

Blackcupcake · Answer

depends on the scenario...
if we're just chilling, light flirting could fun.
if we're having a serious conversation then no flirting thank you.
if we're being extra playful or want to tease then heavy flirting it is.

Avicenna · Answer

Light flirting from someone who isn't my girlfriend Heavy flirting from my girlfriend

loveslongnails · Answer

I suppose that depends on who's doing the flirting.

molonski2 · Answer

On the examples given I'm certainly going to say A..
B sounds incredibly confronting and difficult if its that much.
Flirtation is great , a lot of fun , doesn't do any harm , so I could stand a world of C.

Thatoneguy5526 · Answer

Honestly, I want light flirting and then to just cut to the chase and tell me what it is THEY want so it doesn't become a game.

cryscrys1 · Answer

I don’t measure the level of flirting  But I know when I truly find a guy handsome my voice because like a kitty and that’s my flirting right there … meow meow

aquamarine321 · Answer

I prefer no flirting, flirting with me isn’t something I enjoy, especially when I don’t know you , I get it a lot from girls

moonpie89 · Answer

Light first then heavy when we start getting more comfortable with each other

Neosporin · Answer

I prefer heavy flirting because I might be too dense to recognize light flirting

BlondeRoast · Answer

Light flirting to start but then heavy flirting once we get comfortable with each other

RebeccaSJ · Answer

Light is fun and more dignified. It's gentle but persistent. It's more gentlemanly, more ladylike. It's showing interest while not being pushy.

tatianamay · Answer

I'm very bad at flirting. But Light flirting is innocent and cute!

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

No flirting cause i don't flirt miss brains muffins but if i was in a serious relationship than i can say that i'll become a light flirter 😁

JoJoiLL · Answer

Heavy flirting makes me very uncomfortable, I really don't know what to do with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Heavy flirting but not overbearing. Light flirting can easily be taken as kindness and that can make things super complicated. Questions like Are they just nice or do they like me? Arise.

LeaveMeSortaAlone · Answer

I think light flirting is always the most enjoyable. It makes you tingle but not creepy. I like it when it's obvious haha.

Wiredone · Answer

I do harmless light flirting. I always make sure they know that I'm married though.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I love a bit of light to medium flirting, it's exciting.

Tennessee_fan · Answer

I'm gonna say it depends on who with and on how well we know each other so start light get to know the person better besides the better you know someone the better you can make it for the both of you if it's something you both want

KAT247 · Answer

Flirting when it feels natural and not forced or scripted

backblueblack22 · Answer

What can be cute and charming to one girl can be creepy and inappropriate to another.

It all depends how much they like you which is usually something they don’t do a very good job at communicating (unless they really like you than it’s very obvious).

jenna15 · Answer

any flirting from boys i like and no flirting from boys i don't like

ManOnFire · Answer

I am a heavy flirter, but not at all in the way your picture says lol.

Hulk30 · Answer

flirtin dont mean sexual attraction and dont neccesarily lead to sexual escalation

Shiningtempest · Answer

@brainsbeforebeauty I prefer no flirting because I consider flirting to be cowardly & distasteful.

Pj1981 · Answer

I'm mostly great for light flirting with the occasional heavy flirting when I really want to get my point across I'm interested

lilkittyamy_ · Answer

I love flirting and compliments of any level. And even beyond that im free use too I love when people go way beyond just flirting ;D

Shark_61695 · Answer

I'm oblivious to flirting in my direction and haven't had much opportunity to try.

convo_king89 · Answer

I’d want to be light flirting first then work my way into heavy. If it’s heavy a first I’d be like this to good to be true and there is some catch.

Anonymous · Answer

Heavy flirting, like squash you with my big butt heavy

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Heavy flirting. Light flirting may come off as being simply a nice friendly person. Also, I'm clueless xD

Justneedtokno · Answer

Heavy flirting because I am oblivious to people liking me. And then it creeps me out especially if I don’t like them back

karaspara · Answer

Light flirting otherwise I find it cringey lol

XSea-Sonic · Answer

Light. There’s a thin line between heavy flirting and felony sexual harassment. Don’t be that guy (or woman).

Lauren-green · Answer

I want soaked panties from sexual tension heavy flirting. Is that an option?

serious · Answer

Vote C for life. I never flirt.

MedAsianGirl · Answer

Too much flirting feels ingenuine/unreal. Especially when coming out of nowhere.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It makes no difference I like both

douride2 · Answer

I'm not much for flirting at all.

Lillie_xo · Answer

really depends on my mood （‐＾▽＾‐）

Fuentes · Answer

I dont like flirting i like upfront ish

es20490446e · Answer

Light flirting, till I get you on my bed.

Loser94 · Answer

I can't flirt at all 🤣

pepper1828 · Answer

Depends. If i like that person a lot as a friend, All types of flirting. If I like that person as more than a friend, I do awkward type of flirting.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If you "light flirt" with me, I will completely ignore it. Don't play games.

bulletbob555 · Answer

Could of said all of the above. There is no one approach since everyone is different

Anonymous · Answer

no flirting at this time. I treat everything like a business arrangement at this point in my life.

beebella · Answer

No flirting. 👌😂

EaterPeter · Answer

Light or heavy flirting 🤔

m33lad · Answer

I live in South Asia girls are too stupid here for that stuff. So? I don’t bother.

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