When it comes to flirting: Do you prefer subtle flirting?

[beebella]

Or do you like when someone is more forward about it? Which do/would you respond better to?

I like when someone is more subtle about it

I like when someone is more forward about it

I'll respond to any kind of flirtations, really

I don't like flirting

Another opinion/Results

[SenileOldMan]

It kind of depends on the woman and my mood along with the social setting. If she's very forward, I like the ones who smile and laugh a lot and make it sort of funny and goofy. I don't like women who are very forward who are very poker-faced and serious about it.

The few times women came onto me very strongly in a very serious type of way, it made me feel all uncomfortable and a bit shy (and I'm normally not shy). Well, I didn't know how to talk to her and shift the mood to a lighter one where I can get to know her. I don't like to start getting to know a person with a very serious tone. It feels a bit cold to me. I prefer to keep it light and warm with smiles and laughs. I can do serious and seductive later when it matters in romantic moments, in the bedroom, but I prefer to keep it all light and fun outside those moments.

[TheorionMage]

I don't want ANY after-the-fact excuses that I mistook her non-verbal cues, to save HER Ego!
Its just the TWO of us, ... drop the 'I'm sweet and innocent' shit show, and truly BE who you wanna be.
There's a maxim: "If when on a date, she's wearing matching lingerie... 'that you're going to be having sex' WASN'T his idea!"

'Amateur' awkwardness can be endearing but duplicity sucks and wastes potential experiences!

[DarkCarousel]

I’m just not a flirty type of person, I don’t think. I blush when I like someone but it’s unintentional. So I’m that regard, I’m not great at responding to overt flirting either.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I prefer subtle flirting. That being said, there’s something to be said for just biting the bullet and asking the person out, especially if you’re pretty sure they like you.

[melanieeeB]

Forward, I like to go all in lmao

[melanieeeB]

I do like a uhm cocky guy to some extent or like just someone who is confident enough to show and say that he wants me, cause I will be like that

[Anonymous]

I prefer not to waste time and just express ourselves openly. This helps prevent shitty relationships. Women who are not true to themselves are sketchy and untrustworthy, so I only aim for the ones who are assertive with themselves. If we desire each other enough, we will want to show it. If one party is not receptive, then move on because that will make them less desirable. Also an easy way to get cheated on.

What women see as subtle flirting is invisible to men. What women see as obvious flirting is subtle or less invisible to men. Since countless men have been called creeps or mistaken being nice as flirting, they will never see flirting at all unless you outright tell them "let's have sex". Even then they will think you are joking because women never ask for sex.

[Phoenix-gb]

As far as I'm aware, I haven't been flirted with, so would definitely prefer more obvious flirting as it is entirely possible I've missed interactions in the past.

[NathanDavis]

I don't even know how to flirt myself... when girls flirt me though, I'll take anything

beggars can't be choosers, they say... lol

[DonkeyDan]

I'll respond to any flirting really subtile or forward, but its more to do with the person as to if I'll respond at all.

[TadCurious]

Bella I think I would prefer the flirting to be more unmistakable so I don't misinterpret anything.
😊🙋‍♂️

[AndrewMG]

I mean I come across as an amazingly confident guy but the reality is apparently different according to every person who has met me so hey I better be team subtley lol

[Pohjolan]

It should be enough straightforwardly to be recognizable as flirting.
If she behaves more coldly or less interested than the women I know not to be interested in me then I won't assume that she is.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like when a girl flirts with me then I usually flirt in return, I am a very shy type of guy

[AydenHazor]

I'm oblivious when it comes to flirting, so I need sometime to come out and say it outright

[AydenHazor]

And when I say I'm oblivious, I've been in dates that I didn't realize were dates until afterwards

[loveslongnails]

Subtle or forward, I like it when someone follows through! LOL

[Better_off_here]

as a guy i take it all the wrong way but i like any kind of flirtations it is fun and flirty i love it :)

[dolemite89]

i like when girls are more forward about it but they’re usually not 😂

[Anonymous]

I just ridicule women and for some reason they think I'm flirting. Women are silly.

[Shark_61695]

If they announce they are going to flirt first, then they can be as subtle as they like.

[Jamie05rhs]

I would much prefer to start out with a firm business proposal. Then we can jockey from there.

[InferiorElegy]

I can't for multiple reasons flirt and I won't flirt if I could. Females never flirt with me so...

[spartan55]

Subtle doesn't work with me.

[OlderThanILook]

What is this "flirting" thing you speak of?

[HighValue]

I like them to be more forward and obvious.