Guys, do you consider exchanging music as a flirty move?

[Anonymous]

[Slingblade1126]

Depends how it's done. Years ago when I started working with a really pretty girl I was always singing different songs. After while her and I would talk about music (and other things) then one day she came to work with a c. d she had made for me. Definitely a flirt move. A week later we were dating.

[whosnumber1]

in a stealthy kind of way. I would carefully tailor my selections. find really good picks, music that is deep and gets her thinking. I think exchanging music is a great way to explore things the other person likes.

[PoopyPoop]

No. I do that with guys and girls. The one thing I don't do with guys is to rest my hand on their thighs and tell them that they're the best-looking person I've seen for several hours. But I will share my entire music collection with a guy if he's interested and seems to have weird tastes as I do.

[PoopyPoop]

Same for girl and even fat girl or married one. I am not interested in her that way. I am interested in music. I would be interested in being friends if we have very similar tastes, but I am not interested in her that way. This seems obvious to me but so many girls mistake this kind of stuff for flirting.

[horatiohornblower]

Maybe if he gives you his playlist. Which seems like it would be the modern equivalent of making a mix tape for a girl.

[_no_one_]

I consider it "matching the vibe" which is even better

[Anonymous]

Yes, I suppose so.