Would you approach a girl who has a resting b*tch face?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Usually, when a female is frowning at a guy, she means it. Guys should respect this strong visual cue to be left alone.

Unfortunately for men, however, females that smile may simply want to exercise their right to smile at whomever they like without being stalked or chased down the street for their phone number.

What would I do if I were a dude and I had to find a steady home for my penis?

If I saw a woman I found attractive and she was not shooting death rays at me with her eyeballs, I would casually approach her and say hello to her, based upon where I came across her at and whether or not she was with other people. I would only approach her in a pubic venue, if she was not busy, occupied, or distracted, and, only if she was alone.

If she started frowning at me as I approached her, I would keep it moving and walk by her and forget her. However, if she catches my eye contact and continues to smile at me, I would walk up to her and say hello to her and immediately check out her left hand to see if she was wearing a wedding band. If she was wearing a wedding band, I would dip. If not, I would chat her up by saying this:

"I saw you standing here and I felt like I had to say hello to such a lovely lady. How are you doing?" If she smiles and responds sweetly with, "I'm fine. How are you?" I would proceed. If she looks at me like I'm crazy, I would say. "Well. You have a nice day" and I would dip.

If she responds in an encouraging manner I would say: "I'm in a hurry but, I just wanted you to know that I think you're attractive and I would like to get to know you better. Can I give you my phone number?" If she nods her head or says yes, pull out your "business" card and give it to her.

[THE BUSINESS CARD: It's just a calling card you've had printed up that has your alias name and an Internet cell phone number (one that you can anonymously receive voice and text messages with) on it. Also, feature a business service on the card that you can actually perform (like PC repair), so that you can say that you were "just" offering that service to this girl if she tries to use the card against you somewhere down the line]

As you hand the card to her, gently squeeze her hand and say, "I hope to hear from you soon. Enjoy the rest of your day." Then smile sweetly at her and immediately leave the area. If she wants you, "she" will do the rest of the work. If she doesn't, she has not been bothered and you have lost nothing by sharing your information with her.

That's how I would respectfully, effectively, and safely approach a strange woman for sex.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Bitch please!

nitsuj86 · Accepted Answer

I've done it before. It can actually be a good thing to open up the conversation. Could just be having a bad day.

Something like,

"I'm wondering what that drink did to you, cause your over here staring it down like you want to kill it."

"I saw you scowling at me from across the bar, so clearly you want to talk. Who do I need to punch?"

Sounds cheesy and stupid, cause it is, but it usually will cause them to crack a smile and break those walls a bit. Maybe not always get the number, but they will at least talk. That being said, it has been met with a fuck off before so not 100%.

SmokyOne · Accepted Answer

Sure. I have the male version of that so I can usually spot the difference between.
Seriously though, what's the guy version called? Resting bitch face doesn't have the same effect when talking about a guy.. Resting dick face? Sounds *clears throat* ineffective and inappropriate lol

Would you approach a girl who has a resting b*tch face?

For reference this is about as happy as my face is gonna look unless I'm at Disneyland or something 😅

globetrotter22 · Answer

There is a sad reality that many people can eventually behave the way people see them as. This can be advantageous in some scenarios and a huge drawback in others. I’ve been unfairly judged and admittedly made too quick of judgments of others. Prejudice isn’t just specific to everything you hear in the news.

Anyway I guess if the girl is aware of this she can make adjustments to say she’s approachable. Just thinking and wishing a specific guy will read her mind and approach her isn’t good enough. That isn’t a “signal”.

Seriously just make brief eye contact with the guy you like and quickly smile at him. If he notices he will feel less nervous about approaching you. If he doesn’t approach you he’s either not interested or maybe taken. But you need to put at least SOME effort into it. Nothing “desperate” about smiling at someone you find attractive.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

I don't approach people unless they give me a signal that they want me to approach. Especially not in big cities. Girls there are stuck up and would curse you just for attempting to talk to them. I'm more likely to approach and talk to someone in small towns because I grew up in a small place and feel more comfortable in such places.

ohshee · Answer

If your talking about that girl in your post yes I would.
Like I've said a hundred million times it's not about what the girl looks like it's about who the girl is I look into that girl's eyes and I see way way much more than that I see who she truly is she has a very beautiful heart she is bold she likes things her way but with you boil all the negative away there's a very beautiful person in there and I would do that in a heartbeat

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

It depends. If she's alone, sure, mb I'll give it a shot IF no other approachable women are around. Or if I'm completely shit faced. If she's surrounded by friends, hells no. Women love cock blocking for one another. It gives them a chance to feel superior to men AND denies another woman a shot at having a man. It's win/win for them.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes I have because I have empathy and wanted to reach out to help them. It's a complex or personality trait I have had to save the hurt. i've learned to moderate it because can get me into more than I can handle.

Sonorous · Answer

I'd just walk up to her... I have no intention on mating or procreating at the moment so I'd probably just be asking them for directions or something... 💀

NathanDavis · Answer

with cheesecake upfront... 🍰

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

Sure.  As a fellow person with a resting bitch face, most of the time my face is naturally like that when I'm zoning out, so I wouldn't take her facial expression to heart.

BrickBiggems · Answer

Carefully

genericname85 · Answer

How do I know she has testing bitch face? I mean if she looks pissed, i won't approach her. I might still approach her if i know that's just how she looks. But the point is that i wouldn't know.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Based just on that I'm fine as long as her body language is open and she appears friendly in other ways.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I have resting bitch face (would it be a different term if I’m a man? Lol) so I try not to judge people just based off of that

MCheetah · Answer

Yes, assuming it wasn't actually accurate to how she behaves or her personality. I had a partner, Maggie, who had RBF (at least according to her).

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

You say biitch face, but to me? I say her eyes say something very different.  In answer to your question. Yes, yes I would!

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

I'd give her a chance if she comes up to me, if a girl looks like she is in a bad mood, Im not walking up with her

lrina · Answer

i'd be too shy to approach anyone lol, but rbf wouldn't matter much to me.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Probably not, she doesn't seem like she wants anyone to bother her.

skytatoe · Answer

Well that's the trick, if I didn't know that was her resting bitch face, I'd imagine something is bothering her and it might not be the best time to talk to her.

normalice · Answer

To the extent that I would approach anyone ever, sure.

SpitSpan · Answer

RBF, yes. How could a white bright eyed binary gender person these days not be angry? Chin dimple - that is usually a sign of transgenderness. Don't 'slide it in' just to cheat. Ever again.

Valso · Answer

I don't know what a "resting bi7ch" is but this girl is hot. And also she looks familiar. Resembles Lauren Cohan (a hottie from "Supernatural" and "Death Race").

kellytheman · Answer

I try to avoid those girls until the change there demonor. I know if I walk up to and try to talk to her the bitch mode will be engaged.

CasaNorba · Answer

nah, if she looks like that at rest then I dont even want to imagine what she looks or behaves like when she's not at rest

loveslongnails · Answer

I wouldn't because if I observe that she has RBF most all the time, then I'd have to look at it if we dated, all the time!

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No? Usually they will smile if they like you. If they just stare w a blank face i just ignore them. I assume bad mood, dont like me, or something like that best to avoid.

cookiecrusher · Answer

I never approached and never will. And no guy should either.  Work on yourself and your goals.  They will come for what they like. Even the shy ones in certain settings.

Jltakk · Answer

I have resting bitch face, I'm in mask mode 100% of the time, and it only comes out when I'm drained socially.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, maybe she is angry about something not related to me and we could talk about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes it makes her attractive but I need more confidence to approach her. Done that super politely and got an angry response haha

Dargil · Answer

I would watch her body language and how she behaves around others.

cth96190 · Answer

No, I would not approach such a female. When there is a red flag, keep on moving.

DownIndaDumpz · Answer

I wouldn't approach any girl. Not any more. I've learned my lesson

dreamstar72 · Answer

To me it look like she has more of a sincere/serious face not a b! tchy face.

Jay3344 · Answer

Probably not, unless I was drunk and just messing with her to piss her off more or sympathize with her for whatever was pissing her off.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. You don't approach women who haven't at least giving you signs she's interested in you first.

Shiningtempest · Answer

I would never approach a woman who has a resting b*tch face because I find that person to be difficult to get along with or have a fun conversation with.

InvoluntaryCelibate9 · Answer

I wouldn't approach any girl anymore, I've learnt my lesson lol

JSmuve · Answer

Depends on how hot she is, where we're at, and if it makes sense to do so.

standardguy · Answer

I would hesitate at first and watch her slmetimes perhaps I can hear a good topic zo open a conversation.

dolemite89 · Answer

no, resting bitch face is almost always an excuse they use to cover the fact that they are just a bitch whether their face is resting or not 😂

Ren112 · Answer

Yes, I would give it a try maybe she or he is very friendly but their face give us wrong impression.

HaveNoName · Answer

Never. That face in itself is a sign to stay away, even from saying "hello".

altaboy · Answer

Of course I would! I'd love to see if I could make her smile.

Staximus · Answer

Sure, maybe I can turn her "resting bitch face" into a moaning "Oh face"

KlinkyCoder · Answer

I might ask her what is going on, but nothing else really.

smahala1991 · Answer

A couple of friends of mine have rbf and are pretty cool actually so yes

WhyMe247 · Answer

No, unfortunately. I’d wager she’s not a happy person.

Guslove · Answer

Hell yea she probably doesn’t take shift from anyone that pretty hot too!!! Also she’s probably a lot of fun ….

Shy_Steve · Answer

Definitely not, Even if I was fairly Confident I still wouldn't.

McKellar · Answer

Someone that pretentious like her? I wouldn't even bother wasting my time.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I like being funny, so if I can't make her at least crack a smile, we aren't compatible.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

That's such a stupid saying. What's worse is you censoring the word bitch.

TallAnon · Answer

Not unless there's something to prompt the conversation

Zolly99999 · Answer

Yes... Many times.. sometimes it's a conversation starter..

VanniusSella · Answer

Nope. I don't know if it's RBF, or if she has been having a bad day and me approaching her would make it worse. So no, I'll just slide on by.

honeynut-scenarios · Answer

I smile first, and if they don’t smile back, no.

Anonymous · Answer

No, because if she has a resting bitch face then it usually means she is a bitch.

ManOnFire · Answer

They are exactly the ones I avoid.

oh_k789 · Answer

This is about yourself, question asker, isn't it?

Icybread · Answer

If there's a reason yeah

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