Ways a girl can show interest in a barrister at a coffee shop she regularly visits?

[Anonymous]

[jestergent]

You need to find out if he has a girlfriend. Also make sure no age gap. Then with your amazing... observation skills, determine if he shows interest. If not, well its that. Need a slow day, when it's not busy. Lastly, you must be blunt if you are certain he must like you. You tell another barista you like him. After that no pursue, just wait it out a few weeks and give up or be surprised.

I think thats how you do it. I wouldn't know of course.

[Asker]

Yeah how do I find out about the girlfriend bit

[jestergent]

The goal is to send the message through word of mouth of others that you like him. Once that signal is sent then you do no more. Some guys need a literal confirmation. 'I like him' she said about you.. That's the goal.

[Asker]

OK so I went there today and he wasn't there😭 do you think I should ask the other batista where he is lol

[boggboss]

U will have to make the first move he is at work so most likely he won't

[Asker]

I went there today and he wasn't there. Should I ask the other batista where be is?

[boggboss]

It would show u have intrest in him

[Asker]

So is that good

[Asker]

I did it and the other employee was cool about it and even told me his name😂

[boggboss]

Sweet

[boggboss]

Nicely done wernt that hard

[Shy_Steve]

I reckon Slip him your number, That's the best way I think.

[Asker]

I was thinking that too, but how shall I do it, needs to be smooth😂😂

[Asker]

Plus I don't know if he's taken

[Shy_Steve]

Just be polite obviously and Just do it as your leaving and just say "I wanted to just give you this" and just give him your number then just say "Bye" or "Seeya later" and just leave.

[Asker]

I went today and he wasn't there , do you think I should ask the other barrister where he is?

[Shy_Steve]

Yeh, If you want.

I hope you see him again.

[Asker]

did it and the other barrister was cool about it and even told me his name 😂

[Shy_Steve]

What about the guy you like, What did he do?

[Asker]

He wasn't there. I meant I asked the other guy where he is

[Shy_Steve]

Sorry, So did you ask when he will be working again or you just got his name?

[Asker]

Yeah he works everyday but just does different shifts. I didn't ask for his name but not complaining 😂

[Shy_Steve]

So do you keep going when he is not there?

[Asker]

No. Its just recently the days I've been he wasn't there.

[Wise4myage]

Slip him/her your number.

[Asker]

How🥴

[Wise4myage]

Piece of paper.

[Asker]

Ok I'll just slingshot it at him, kudos.

[Wise4myage]

Good luck.

[Asker]

I went today and he wasn't there. Should I ask the other barrister where he is next time

[Wise4myage]

Sure, that makes sense.

[Asker]

It won't make me look weird right😂

[Wise4myage]

Just be sly about it.

[Asker]

I did it and the other employee was cool about it and even told me his name 😂

[Wise4myage]

Nice, good luck. 😊