Approaching the girl in the coffee shop?

[turbonergrodude92]

Okay, so I go to my local cafe almost every morning for my morning cappuccino and there is a really cute girl that works in there... she serves me quite a lot and always strikes up a conversation. Is she interested or is it just good customer service? eg she does it to everyone? How do I take things a bit further? rather then just coming across as creepy? I don't know :( thanks in advance.

[BoobMan]

Probably just good customer service but you never know. If you're there you should be able to observe her serving other customers so you'll know if you get special attention.

In terms of asking her out, after you've had a particularly good conversation. Just look at her and say, "hey, that was really fun, we should continue this. You want to grab a coffee later?" If she's into it she says yes. If she's not or if she hesitates at all, you just smile and hold up your coffee cup and play it off as a joke.

[MaxwellSmart]

You know dude, girls are just impossible to figure out. I had this girl strike up conversations with me everyday, smiling really wide, giggling like crazy and looking right into my eyes with THAT look and bat her eyelashes at me and you know how did that stop? I asked for her number and everything stopped, like that. So if you are willing to change coffee shops if she says no, I'd probably wait but if you want to be bold, go for it.

[turbonergrodude92]

Yeah I might wait and do a couple more "tests". They make good coffee there so I don't wanna mess up a good thing yet ha ha

been trying to find her on fb because I live in a smallish town. but no luck. Plus that's a little creepy anyway lol

[Deniz]

You know, we girls give the most complicated hints ever and for you to think she might like you, actually proves that there is a very good chance she IS interested. I'd say just go for it. Ask her when she's done with work, so you two could hang out somewhere different than the coffee shops, because you come to see her there but you're tired of only seeing her beauty from afar... Or something like that lol.

[turbonergrodude92]

haha.. come to think of it of it she always fills it riiiight to the top and gives me a cookie with it lol and the other people that work there don't when they serve me :S

[Deniz]

Seeee, she gives you the cookie! You should totally go for it :p

[nollie33]

I just bet that she actually IS interested. Girls are just more discreet with their flirting. I would definitely ask her out. I would ask her if she's seeing anyone and if she says no then get her number! Good luck!