I overheard a conversation between two guys who were watching me at work (coffee shop). One of them who later came up to me told his friend „I don’t approach such perfect girls“. Why would he say that? I wasn’t dressed sexy and I wore a face mask and men usually don’t pay me any attention.
In the rare cases they do, they start acting indifferent and slightly rude once I warm up to them (but not flirting) and act as if they are above me (acting like they are too good for me, look at me annoyed or uninterested, tilt up their chin, looking past me or around the room, mentioning their girlfriends etc.).
Why do men always act like this around me but are amicable and charming with everyone else? Is it my vibe, am I ugly or am I a Butterface (everything looks good but her face)?
