Is it true that when a girl shoots her shot with a guy , she will 99% succeed🤔?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

If she's offering casual sex, and she's known to the guy (not a complete stranger), she'll probably close the deal over 90% of the time. If she's looking for a RELATIONSHIP, her close rate is going to be far lower - in the 50% range on average I would guess. And it's important that you ALWAYS make that distinction.

Men make a HUGE distinction between casual sex and relationships, and the requirements for casual sex are far, FAR lower than the requirements for a relationship, so guys will be willing to have casual sex with FAR, FAR more women than they'd consider having a relationship with.

Most women talk (and seem to think and act) as if sexual interest was the same as relationship interest - which is absolutely NOT the case - and that huge error leads to a lot of misunderstandings and bad assumptions that mostly end up hurting the woman - yet most women never seem to figure out why this happens, even when you tell them directly what they're doing wrong.

When you are dealing with men, you must ALWAYS specify whether you are talking about casual sex or a relationship, because the answers to each of those questions is going to be very different.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

I doubt whether it's THAT high, but in most circumstances, the chances are pretty good. A lot depends on the specifics, though: a 20-something woman in New York City comes from a culture where it's seen as pretty normal; a 40-something woman in Riyadh would probably get a different reception. It also depends on the guy; one who's surprised may well accept out of feeling flattered, while one who's almost expecting it may think less of rejecting.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

no.. or maybe I am just the odd one out :D. Average face, bit above average body. Outsider socially.
My succesrate is like ~70 % for hooking up and ~30 % for a date.. less for second dates.. never got a third date when I took the initiative from the start and for the dates.

Sammie1996 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I'm actually hot & work out a lot. Plus I have my own money & can take care of myself. I get shot down all the f*cking time.

Like it doesn't even matter if I pick at hot guy or one whose like, not in my 'league'. it's literally, all the time. I quit dating.

moviedude714 · Answer

I would say the benefit of women doing this is not so much risking rejection a lot less than men but women are far less likely than men are to get labeled creepy or weird in social situations, it makes perfect sense as to why men are the only gender that get thrown the creepy label or weird label in social situations because since men are on average physically bigger or stronger than women, that means from a woman's perspective, a guy can easily be perceived or interpreted as a threat, danger, even if the guy never meant any harm.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

No it is not true at all!😂🤣🤣
I have seen beautiful girls getting rejected right in front of me!

Girls are savage when rejecting.
But boys are way more savage, if they do not even give a slightest of f*cks. But a girl who is a player should experience this, not a good one.

There are already less number of good girls, and they should not be unfortunate enough, to experience this.

KoolKidKv93 · Answer

i dunno but id say ur chances of acceptance are significially higher than a guys chances,
id never say no to any girl id be happy with anyone i dont have high standards at all,
id be anyones boyfriend

but girls have high standards, they dont want him to say one thing wrong, and he also must be good looking, its like most girls aim for 7/10 guy (looks and personality) or above

MrTuxedo · Answer

Depends on what guy she comes across.
Someone single looking for a hookup - yeah
Someone single looking for future girlfriend - yeah
Someone who's already in relationship - hopefully not

But what most guys will definitely find most attractive right on, is her confidence to approach him first. Trust me, that alone will be much more ''hot'' than her looks.

JSmuve · Answer

No. If she's average or below, that won't help her, especially if she's punching above her weight class. The guy could be taken and not looking to cheat. Or, if she approaches in a very crude, embarrassing way, it likely won't help her chances. Also, people tend to be distrustful of strangers. So if you approach random guys, they've got no reason to trust you and will likely reject you based on that alone.

Guanfei · Answer

Not 99%, but 80% yes. You have no idea how many men are deprived of love and would love to have a woman ask them out.
Not to mention that nowadays many are too scared to be seen as harassers if they try anything with a woman, that they won't do anything and stay alone.

dustybiker · Answer

Curious why a pink account asks this. Of course not. Most men you would ask would say they are in a relationship, because they are in fact in a relationship.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

Shooting her shot for what? Most guys won't turn down sex, but plenty of men turn down relationships left and right. In fact, the more options a man has in terms of females, the less likely he is to settle down with one. So no, I'd say that statement is remarkably untrue.

oh_k789 · Answer

Not at all. It depends on the SMV, Sexual Market Value, of the guy.
If he's in the top 10% of men in the mating, or "love", market, he's likely to react to advances the same way an attractive female is likely to ;).

n4meAL · Answer

depending on his physical and character, indeed I'm not a man who only wants beautiful women but I also don't want fat women and ugly.

tbh sometimes some ugly and fat women seem annoying when they i see them

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I don't think so. I've seen girls who had no chance to succeed, and indeed they got rejected.  In my wife's case, I had even rejected her the first time.

Obsoleteheart · Answer

It's ridiculous how people who are sexually active are considered low quality hyprictical coming from men who do the same thing its 2022 everyone is high quality and worth something. Nobody should be treated any diffrent. Equality. EVERYONE DESERVES A RELATIONSHIP
Quit treating people like crap and don't lead people on. The End Period.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

I would say, because If a girl is going to shoot her shot, she's not shooting her shot with someone in her league; it's typically a 6/10 shooting her shot with a guy 10/10.

TwinTonyz · Answer

Odds are high, but not that high. If not for the risk men take for believing in forthcoming women, I think you could make headway towards 70%-80%, but not before then.

one1wild00 · Answer

If you hadn't put such a high number in I'd have said yes, I'm guessing its more 80%-90% of the time.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Not if she thinks shooting her shot means smiling at a guy and flicking her hair...

BeMuse · Answer

Nope. Picking up people takes practice. If you want to be good at it, you have to practice a lot just like anything else in life.

megabamse · Answer

No that is not true. Over the years there have been a few that have shoot their shot at me. And i have rejected almost all of them for various reasons. I have said yes just a few times.

lrina · Answer

no, plenty of them get rejected. guys get rejected more often as a general rule, but it's not like girls don't get rejected.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

No.
Girls are less accustomed with rejection and they are sometimes angry if they get rejected, even though they know they aim too high or the guy won't change his 9/10 who eat out his hand with a 5/10 that causes mixed feelings.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

99 seems a bit high. But.. it depends what you're measuring. Is "success" getting the guy to marry you? Or is it just getting his phone number? It's kind of a broad range of possibilities.

Bananacake83 · Answer

Not always but if she behaves normally and looks pretty there's a good chance.

Heartache0405 · Answer

Nope. Not with me anyway. So that’s less than 99%  Anyone else who agrees makes that 99% go down more 📉

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm not sure it's 99%, but there's a very good chance of hooking up if a woman makes a pass at a guy.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Anything is possible however you can shoot a shot & hit a brick wall as well.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

The success rate is way more than the guys. Like if this was the Olympic most gold medals would be won by girls and silver and bronze by guys 😂

KelleyNice · Answer

Of course not. Relationships are never 99%. Maybe 80% or possibly 90%.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Not with me it doesn't. If I'm already with a girl, or I don't fancy her she has no chance.

Alyssa_11 · Answer

It’s never worked in my favour before and consequently I don’t recommend it lol. If he really likes u he will find a way to shoot his shot.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Definitely not. Depends on the girl and the guy she’s interacting with.

hahahmm · Answer

That's only true if she's dealing with guys who think life is all/mostly about vagina.

Phoenix-gb · Answer

99% is a bit high, but certainly has a higher chance than most men get asking out women.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Welp I haven't rejected any I knew. But I am exception I suppose. So nah.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Nah. Math is very off... it's probably more like around 40% tbh, which I still think is too high

slatyb · Answer

When I was dating online, I turned down more women than I accepted.

loveslongnails · Answer

I think 99 out of 100 shots is too high. I'd believe 85-90% of the time she'd be successful, as long as she's the least bit attractive.

VikingWarLord · Answer

Go try it and document it.  Then give us a percentage of how many took you up on your offer to go on a date

robbenn69 · Answer

I voted no because I don't think it is as high as that. Probably more around 60 to 70%.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Success isn't always a yes. Success can be improved confidence

DarkWinterNights · Answer

No, but she has astronomically higher chances than a guy asking the same question.

spiralshape · Answer

I voted yes but I lied. If only she was beautiful and of similar age or younger then yeah it will work. Hot female privilege is everything.

chulo1992 · Answer

Most definitely NOT!!! If EVERY girl that that shot her shot at me was a 8 and above... I was say HELL YEAH!!  But unfortunately, 99% of girls that did shoot their shots at me were 🐕🦮🐕‍🦺

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

No, I don't think so, just because it's higher than guys doesn't mean it's 99%

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

She has a better chance yes, I don't know what the percentage is.

Anonymous · Answer

A girl would be in the same situation as a guy. She asks him out but he says he has a girlfriend or is married. She likes him but he doesn't like her. It's the same crap for guys and girls, get rejected anyways.

Twalli · Answer

If I am single I will accept a date with any girl that asks me out. A second date is another story.

KlinkyCoder · Answer

I like the girl in the automatic thumbnail picture.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Yes, if the guy is single and the woman is not overweight

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

When a bitch is looking for dick, 99% she will succeed. Just maybe not with the first guy she wanted.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, she has a better chance that a guy who shoots his shot with a girl, but a guy who isn't interested is still not going to say yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Totally depends on the girl. If you're hot like me, then yeah. But if you look like Christy Metz, fat chance.

OddBeMe · Answer

Ehh, maybe…because it happens so little that your percentage is “apparently” high.

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

why do i get the feeling that girls like these will forever be in the extreme minority

TallAnon · Answer

Not at all, if he isn't interested in her appearance, it's 99% likely to fail

EnglishEuropean · Answer

That figure seems a little high. I think it depends on the guy, and how desperate he is.

Themostabsurd · Answer

Nah. Maybe 70%. I've definitely rejected girls for being too forward. Esp if it was out of the blue.

Pohjolan · Answer

Just the number of dating/married men that are not cheaters makes this statistically impossible.

Desconhecida · Answer

Only if she has great aim 😆

DevinAM · Answer

I don't know but it would be nice if a girl were to ask me because I am incapable of approaching someone.

Better_off_here · Answer

depends on what her approach is and what she is doing?

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