tho i've never kissed or cuddled , I'm sure i'd be more inclined towards cuddles
somebody teach me how to cuddle ahahahašš
I canāt vote, because what I prefer is entirely dependent on who Iām with and my particular mood. Iāll cuddle w/ my mom or dad, but I wonāt kiss them, not passionately. Same goes for friends, Iāll cuddle with them platonically but I'm not gonna kiss them! And with guys, sometimes there is nothing nicer than a good cuddle, and sometimes I desperately want to kiss them! So like most things under the umbrella of human behavior, it is entirely dependent on many factors⦠not the least of which is mood.
Why you fuckin giving lecture?
Just yes or no. Annoying user
@Sam_The_Savage LOL š. Says the guy LITERALLY going through my entire account and negatively commenting JUST TO BE ANNOYING š¤£
You claim that I am lecturing, and being annoying, yet MY MHO is 58%, and YOURS is 19%. I think I will stick to MY method for answering peoples questions which results in me being the Most Helpful Opinion more than HALF the time I give an answer, whereas YOU get the Most Helpful Opinion only in less than ONE answer out of every FIVE you give!
Also, IāM A WOMAN⦠If you ask me what I THINK, I am going to actually TELL YOU, whether that is an easy answer, or requires more of a nuanced answer!
I appreciate longer answers. If it was just yes or no, no reason to comment, just vote the poll. Trolls, what can you do?
@zeitgeist057 Thank you very much, I know its trolls but if you say nothing they think the won, and I do know that talking to then only āfeeds the trollsā but I think there is a right way to shut them the fuck up w/o feeding into their trolling. But I 100 percent agree w/ you. And thanks again.
Kissing is nice for a few minutes but gets boring quick tbh unless it leads to something else.. but cuddling on the other hand is low effort, cozy and you can do for hours I love it
I find it depends on the person. I have had girlfriends who I just kissed a little here and there, but I also remember one girlfriend I had; all we seemed to do was kiss for literally hours on end. It was so much kissing I kid you not our lips got damaged. Dry and cracking like being in the sun, lol. I think the longest we ever made out for was maybe 3-4 hours at one time, and probably as much as 6-7 hours in a whole day.
Wow didnāt know people did that for that long but as long as you enjoyed it. Anything more than two minutes for me Iām bored personally but cuddling for hours yes please ( if close to the person and have a connection)
It was definitely a bit of an anomaly, I don't think anyone else has come anywhere close. I want to say the "runner up" on kissing was 30 minutes or less, and I haven't had a good makeout session in years.
Cuddling is great, I like to get some kissing in as well if I'm feeling super close and intimate, or it will also usually lead to sex. But my boundary comes when I'm ready to sleep, I don't want to be touched in my sleep. It's just too stimulating and I won't be able to sleep, so I have to be left alone. So I will often cuddle up until I'm just about to fall asleep, then I roll away and get a little distance.
Yeah thatās fair lol
I definitely like both I like to cuddle at the same time get him holding or kissing in slow motion I love the field the endorphins the rush the energy when the person I'm with I think it is one of the most beautiful feelings ever
Cuddle. Nothing is better than waking up together on a weekend and you both decide to just not get up and cuddle some more. It's simple, but it makes for a great morning.
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I totally love cuddling. I love kissing too but cuddling is the best. Doesnāt have to be just with a boy it can be anyone, I like the close contact.
I love both. Cuddling typically canāt go without it leading to other things. However, if either is too tired to go that route, cuddling is still nice and intimate. Both have their own thrills to it.
Cuddle with hand travel inside your bra? š
That's just it though, cuddling shouldn't always have to lead to something else, and if it's always used as a pretext to move on to other things, then to me, you don't get the true emotional intimacy and feeling of being LOVED. Sometimes I think knowing someone just wants to hold you in their arms, or even fall asleep that way, but without the other expectations, is a wonderful thing.
I always have believed that cuddling with someone you have a connection with is one of the most wonderful things. If it's too soon, you won't "feel" anything. If you've just spent some quality time with them (months, I think) and it's obvious you both genuinely care about the other's well being, then nothing could be sweeter than falling asleep in each other's arms.
I honestly prefer both at the same time🙃 But if I have to choose it has got to be cuddling. I just love being held by someone.
At 16 you will have plenty of chances to figure out what you like it's all great take your time and realize your value and make sure they are worthy.
Cuddling for sure! I just love the physical contact and being in my boyfriendās strong arms is such an amazing and comfortable feeling ā¤ļø😂
aww :)
do you give advice?
I can try my best to help! š What do you need advice on?
Kissing, if its passionate and a bit unexpected. Cuddling is a nice chill time.
How have you never kissed or cuddled you look so cute?🥰
I can't believe this vote! LOL 80% of guys prefer "cuddling" to kissing? Holy crap. They obviously don't know how to kiss, or their girlfriends don't!!! WTF?
That's cool and I can respect that. And we're all different. And I can't say I never want to kiss or more, lol. I think I may come from a place of bias, because as weird as it may sound coming from a guy, my dates all wanted sex by the third date, and I would love to fall slowly in love first. I've never had that, but sex has always been on the table.
I prefer cuddling.
My favorite position for cuddling is Lotus.
Cuddling! Its mote touchy compared to kissing but kissing is very classic for romance. Kissing can't get boring but Cuddling gets super cute if she sleeps on my arm...
I love cuddling but usually it also involves some kissing.
I rather do both at the same time, couldnāt choose one over the other
Cuddling because it's more intimate and I feel like I am truly connecting with the guy I am cuddling with.
I like both, although I haven't done much of either. I have no preference between them.
Neither. It all makes me sick to my stomach honestly
I 100% prefer cuddling, although I enjoy kissing a good deal too
I don't really do kissing at all, it may as well be a phobia at this point
I love both but if I have to choose one then it's kissing.
Cuddling is the very best and intimate thing besides intercourse
Passionate lip Kissing which is unexpected.
prefer to cuddle when sleeping without clothes
Both is good but cuddling feels great! So cosy and comfortable.
Cuddling because I can make soft noises and move my hands around her body 😘
Why must I choose only one when both of them at the same time is possible?
I prefer cuddling over anything.
I'm pleasantly surprised with the results
Kissing 💋
I haven't done any of it. So I don't know
Cuddling, just donāt fall asleep on my arm.
Usually both, either one can lead to the other.
Both at the same time.
I voted B, but usually both at the same time
Why not both? I like both!!!
I like them both. Cuddling leads great sex.😂
Neither
I prefer to role over and go to sleep
I want cuddling with kissing.
They are NOT mutually exclusive
Definitely kissing. Cuddling is super overrated.
Kissing cause it leads to sex quicker
I prefer both, you don't have that option to vote.
Cuddling, because it leads to kissing 😈
Cuddling and having my breasts caressed
CUDDLE!
Cuddling more body heat in the winter
Cuddles of course.
Whatever leads to pussy.
I sure do!!
why not both
Cuddle time
Both
Both āŗ
Cuddling especially nude cuddles.
I like both plus sex
I love cuddling
Kissing.
Cuddling
Both
Both
Cuddling
Both.
Both together
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