Girls, would you see this as a flirty message if a guy you’ve met up with a few times sent this to you?

[Anonymous]

“Hey, It was really nice to see you again on Saturday. Hope you have a great time on holiday, we should do something when you’re back. x”

Yes I would - I’d assume he likes me as more than friends

No I would not

[cyeraahh]

No, I don’t find it flirty. If anything you sound interested in her. I’d take it as “wow, he really seems interested in me”. And if we enjoy ourselves I would say yes.

[Asker]

So if he seems interested, it’s flirty?

[cyeraahh]

No, lol. I didn’t say that. I’m saying, if someone finds you interesting, it could mean they wanna get to know you better, or spend more time around you.

[Asker]

So do you think it sounds more interested as a friend?

[cyeraahh]

Yeah, I do. But it depends on the situation too but from what information u gather, then yes its more like a friend thing.

[Asker]

How can it be made more clear by the guy he wants more?

[cyeraahh]

I mean you can always throw hints. Like “i had a lot of fun with you, i hope to see you again so i can get to know you more”. Or sum like that.

[Asker]

Isn’t that pretty similar to the original message haha?

[Sarahnah]

Sounds kinda flirty to me in my opinion especially the "we should do something when you're back". I don't think that's something a regular friend might say, for a goodbye message it sounds too structured/planned and less casual. If I got that message I'd definitely be suspecting it but I wouldn't be so sure.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

By wouldn't be so sure?

[Sarahnah]

As in I'll have some doubts, I won't immediately jump to the conclusion that he's into me because I'd still need some more clues later on. Just to be sure.

[Asker]

How would you reply to this message? Assuming you only see him as a friend.

[Sarahnah]

We'll, assuming I only saw him as a friend and I wasn't interested in him I'd just reply something friendly like "Thanks, it was nice to see you again too! I enjoyed my visit. 😊 See you later and have a happy holiday!"

[Asker]

And how would you reply if you did like him?

[Asker]

As more than a friend.

[Sarahnah]

"Thank you! I really enjoyed spending time with you. When do you think we should see each other again next time?"

[Sarahnah]

Generally just a bit eager to plan the next visit

[Asker]

I don’t see much of a difference lol. What if she replies “You too :) thanks! I hope you're having a nice week so far. Sounds good x”

[Sarahnah]

I'm not sure but if I have to take a guess it sounds casual and friendly to me.

[Asker]

I can’t tell the difference between the 3 lol.

[Sarahnah]

Really? We'll the first one is basically just saying "bye see you later" the second one is saying "I really want to meet you again" and the third one sounds a lot like the first one

[Asker]

They all sound like how they sound on face value.

[Squaresquirrel]

Most of my guy friends would send a message like that this.

[Asker]

Maybe they all like you as more than friends.