We were coworkers from march 2022 till September 2022.
during that time she noticed that i get nervous and has asked me multiple times why i get nervous. I never told her. She then asked me if i have a girlfriend and stuff, i said no. The next day after that we went to a club where she started touching me on my stomach but i got nervous and didn’t do anything.
i messaged her a year later and told her this.
She sent me a follow request and replied “hey (my name) im doing great thanks. How about you? Thanks for the confession i respect that. We can be good friends i have no problem in that. Are you still working with (company)?”
i replied with “im also good, ty. No i left (company) in march 2033, wbu”.
she saw the message but then blocked me. I later found out through someone else that she told that person the situation and that person told me. The person told me that she has a boyfriend now.
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It’s unfortunate that you waited so long to say anything to her because she may have been single long ago when all this was going on. It’s more than likely that she told her boyfriend and he asked her not to speak with you, hence the blocking. Anyway, you have your answer to that situation now and so you don’t have to wonder what-if.. best to let it go and move on.
I see.
If you received a text like this from a guy after a year would you find it weird? My friend told me i was awkward
If I received that text after a year, yes I would find it a bit awkward and honestly I would wonder why now. A lot of times when men reach out to women whether she’s an ex, old fling, crush, etc a situation with another woman has failed elsewhere. He may also not be having much luck with women and circled back to me as a last resort. Not saying this is your mindset at all, just explaining how I would view the situation if I were in her shoes.
Hm i can understand that.
The thing is in my situation, i still had a crush on her after a year. Its not that i tried with other women and didn't have luck, because i dont go out at all and have never ever dated. I still had feelings for her after that time.
She’s not interested. I personally think blocking you is overkill but that’s her choice.
I’m confused why she would touch me like that and then do this. Did i misread it or is it because i messaged her after a year?
Because she has a boyfriend now. She was probably single a year ago.
Okay. i feel ugly because of this
You’re not ugly. She just lost interest because she got a boyfriend in the year you didn’t talk to her.