Would you be jealous that your crush was previously with someone better than you?

[Anonymous]

But is not longer with that person. ….

[kinggeorge007]

That's a good question actually. I myself have given some thoughts into this too when I was kind of seeing someone. But honestly I didn't think much about it. I was like it's over and she's with me because I'm better than him.

That's what I thought, but it turned out she's still having feelings for him and left me for going back to him. And eventually they've got married.

I'm not saying everyone is the same and you shouldn't think positive of yourself. In fact you should think positive of yourself and should continue valuing yourself.

That's what I'm doing. I'm single after that drama and I'm better off with myself getting into my best self. I'm more focused on myself than others.

You know what? I've got girls attracting to me because I'm more target oriented now then ever. In your case good guys like girls who work on themselves too. So keep working on yourself and be in the present and don't overthink. Cheers!

[crossdressingrihno]

Doesn't bother me

If I've learned anything from dating it's that while looks are definitely great to women it's not really there most important quality

I've noticed that being able to understand them and being confident are vastly more important in other words don't go around acting all embarrassed and learn how to communicate with them better and your chances will increase drastically

[crossdressingrihno]

I have the confidence down pat for the most part I'm not confident in my looks but I'm confident in just about everything else

[Prettygurl12]

That other person wouldn't be better than me. If she was, they would never have broken up. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Also "better" is subjective. What does that mean? That they possess qualities that I feel I lack? I'm not the most stunningly beautiful by any means, but I'm not too shabby 😂 I do ok lmao

[Asker]

So you would feel a certain way if your crush of Man dated Selena Gomez prior to you?

[Asker]

Wouldn’t *^

[Andro36]

You have serious self esteem problems. Get some help then date

[jennifer_bloom]

There is no better then me if God is involved.

[Babygirl_S]

Jealousy is something I don't feel. Everone has something special about them. I want to be friends with others. I , however, despise those who become pretty through plastic surgeries. I respect other women who are natural with imperfections.
I try my best to be nice to all women but many tend to hate me for no reason. Many women on this app and irl have been rude to me while all I want is more friends.
I have been called a "hybrid" by someone I know in person. I have been called a "dumb loser" also by someone I know. Someone called me an "Indian worm" on here.
Some gagers (women) have blocked me for no reason. I never even talked to them and one of them is an Indian.

[Imsmurter1]

Well it’s a crush so she doesn’t owe me anything. I couldn’t be jealous maybe the term is envious.

[Asker]

You’re probably right. Envious and insecure.

[genericname85]

no. because i know people don't "downgrade". they upgrade or stay on the same level. if they broke up with a person and are now with me, i'm better or at least as good as their ex. cause otherwise they'd still be with their ex, not with me.

[Beerluvr]

Seriously. You can’t think of things like this. Better why? They are not with them and with you. So. Better. Maybe but better for who. See what I am saying

[Anonymous]

no.. I also don't see how I can tell if they are better for my crush than me? Then it should be a best friend I know or something, and then I would try to forget about that crush anyway.

[BeMuse]

Good luck with that one... What is he better at putting commas in sentences or something?

[Iron_Man]

How would they be better than me I’m a former athlete and undefeated Fish fighter in the streets as well. Plus I have my looks And have had many entrepreneur businesses

[Iron_Man]

Fist Fighter

[OlderAndWiser]

"Better" in what way?

[Asker]

Physically

[OlderAndWiser]

"Better" is subjective and "physically" is vague. To different women, "better physically" could mean a more attractive face, a more muscular physique, taller, stronger, looks like a movie star, has long hair, etc.

[crossdressingrihno]

I think she means someone who is more sexually attractive than you to the person you are dating or married to or whatever your relationship is

[Asker]

@crossdressingrihno
For example if your girl’s ex was BRAD PITT.

[crossdressingrihno]

Yes exactly

[Asker]

@olderandwiser @crossdressingrihno

Or for example if your girls ex was John Travolta and that he had a big BANANA…
Would it make you feel a certain type of way?

[OlderAndWiser]

I would simply remind myself that there is a reason why she is no longer with him and a reason why she is with me.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

One, comparing is unhealthy. And two I am number one now

[DarkWinterNights]

Not really, I don’t really care who they were with previously.

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

If you are not a virgin, something used is useless.

[Asker]

Are you a virgin? Lmaooo
Sounds like you are!! XD

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

No himen no party.

[Asker]

Do you have a himen? Probably not because they mutilated you when you were baby

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

😹😹😹😹

No himen no party.

[Asker]

You’re acting like your gonna go around stealing girls virginity left and right.
GOOD LUCK WITH THAT LMAO

[exitseven]

Who says he is better than me?

[crossdressingrihno]

The crush probably

[crossdressingrihno]

In this hypothetical situation

[exitseven]

@crossdressingrihno If that was the case I would tell her to go back to him. I would be outa there.

[crossdressingrihno]

When she says better she doesn't mean personality wise she means like appearance-wise

[crossdressingrihno]

Like let's say she dated someone who is really hot but fell out of love for him because he turned out to be quite the prick

[exitseven]

@crossdressingrihno I don't know. I think it is covered in Dating 101. You do not compare your date with former people you dated.

[crossdressingrihno]

Ok I myself don't mind but I can see where people would feel that way

[spartan55]

Better than me? What does that mean?

[Chiarac2003]

Not better than me…😇lil

[dustybiker]

Why? They would be with me now.

[slatyb]

Better? There's no "better", only different.

[Vendela]

Define "better than".

[Asker]

If your man’s ex was Scarlett Johansson

[Vendela]

😂😂😂 I don't think she's better than me at all. What because she's a movie star? I can think of about a million other movie stars more attractive than her... I'm confident in myself. And the kind of people I associate with find that more attractive than anything

[Asker]

Ok well let’s say your man or crush had been dealing with/ messing with her:

[Asker]

Prior to being with you

[Vendela]

I really wouldn't care. I also don't find her that attractive, but that aside I really wouldn't care. I have more confidence in myself than that.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Why would I worry or mind something insignificant?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

No because nobody is better than me

[Guido]

She has tried the rest and now she has the best.

[TrillXHippy]

No cause that’s the past and I’m her future

[Fuentes]

Dont care im smashing and im out

[Jltakk]

Naw, I've accepted that my crushes are all taken.

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

Yes but i can't give my heart 100%

[NathanDavis]

nope, not one bit...

[MrJMM]

Better in what way?

[EaterPeter]

Yes.

[Open2It]

Better in what way?