Is this just a typical concern or something else?

[Metelda]

Hey guys so there is a guy. Both of us are single and none like each other. We have decided to sext untill we get someone for ourselves. So basically its only 2 or 3 times we did and the other times I denied. But he texts me often as how I am doing or how was my day. Is he trying to generate excitement to chat with me or is he interested in me?

[Lionman95]

I think he is interested in you especially if he regularly texts you and tries to get in contact with you. You could find by chatting with him, if he´s just in for the sexting because if he´s comfortable chatting with you without sending nudes chances are high that he´s looking for more than sex.

[Metelda]

oh yes nudes are not allowed just texts..
more than sex as in?

[Lionman95]

Yes I think so depending on what he talks about in his messages because if he´s just talking about sexual stuff, I´d say no but if he´s asking questions about your day and what´s bothering you, I´d say yes.

[Metelda]

okay got it

[Metelda]

he just texted me he wants to date me.. i asked do u like me and he said i m not sure that's why i want to date you to see how things hit off.. can u suggest what should i do?

[Lionman95]

Before you do anything you just figure for yourself how you feel about him because if you don´t feel comfortable around or if you don´t think it would work out it´s better to leave at that point because chances are that playing around would get messy and won´t allow a smooth break up later on.
If you´re comfortable with dating, try to start a conversation and get to know stuff you wanna know and probably also need to like what kind of character he is, what are his hobbies and what kind of expectations he has dating you for example is he prefering an exclusive or open relationship. Has he experience with women or is totally new to dating? That way you keep him taking iniative and keep him talking and you can react.
If he suggests meetings try to keep it in public for the first meetings for your own safety, plus that way you can also make up your mind about him on another level than just online. You could also think about asking friends for help that they keep an eye on you and ask them if they think he´s a suitable guy for a relationship.

[Metelda]

great thank you loads

[Lionman95]

You're welcome, hope it works out well.

[boggboss]

Just sounds like he is doing it to keep u intrested when he brings up sex stuff

[Metelda]

ok possible.. but as I said I am no more interested in him so keep denying it every time.. that case what could it be?

[boggboss]

U say your int intrested in it but u have done it with him before already

[Metelda]

yes correct I did before but its also true I am bored now

[boggboss]

Which is fine but thats why he will continue to try and get that if that's nit what u want make that clear

[Metelda]

something like male ego?

[boggboss]

Wait what do u mean how is this a ego thing lol

[Metelda]

u said "he will continue to try and get it that if I dont want it.." isn't that an ego?

[boggboss]

No it hoping u will give in bevause he is horny

[Metelda]

toxic ryt? shall i keep distance?

[boggboss]

wouldn't say its toxic would just say he wants what u guys agreed to do from the start

[boggboss]

Keep your distance like I said if thats not what your intrested in doing

[cootjuhh]

well if the sext was good i would be excited every time i talk to you. and maybe he does feel more then that to

[ChrisMike1919]

If you saw each other, it's a probability.

[serious]

Maybe he genuinely cares about you.

[Metelda]

perhaps 🥲

[serious]

Yes.

[Wise4myage]

He sounds like an every day horny dude to me.

[Metelda]

😂😂shall I keep distance?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, if that feels right.

[Metelda]

yes okay

[IJhonnyI]

Maybe he is both