How to flirt with a shy guy?

[Anonymous]

[dynamicyandere]

I would think probably in a similar way a guy would flirt with a shy girl. If he’s not approaching you, you gotta take the initiative and approach him. First, make sure he feels safe and comfortable around you (in terms of welcoming you), then feel free to be a little forward (just not in a trashy way). Be assertive, be confident, and reel him in with your intensity. 😉


But, you gotta always see if he welcomes your advances. If you see green lights, move forward. More green lights? Move forward. Yellow or red lights? Hold off on things, maybe take a step back, give it some time, see if he feels more comfortable with you in time.

[dynamicyandere]

The energetic polarities tend to attract.

Confident Guy x Shy Girl
Confident Girl x Shy Guy

But then again, this is just one approach. There’s a lot of different ways you could go about it. But if I was a girl attracting a shy guy, that’s how I would go about it.

[ElementoP]

Shy guys hate being flirted with.

Not that it doesn't make them feel good about themselves, but they usually have no idea what to say or do and it makes them extremely uncomfortable. They'll avoid you just to avoid the awkwardness

The best way to deal with a shy guy is to be straight forward. Straight up ask him if he wants to hang out.

Skip past all the "social warm ups" like flirting because he sucks at all that stuff

[EspressoTeen234]

Im a shy freshman a few girls tried their hands at flirting. At school some classes have their tiny desks in group orientation. One girl said hi I said hi back but she failed to start a conversation. So she tried getting her feet under my desk touching mine and keep them their. The same happens with a few other girls in my other classes like geometry.

Really you just have to be polite make small talk and eventually he’ll ask you on a date if he’s ready.

[Asker]

that's a good idea, thank u

[Bongem]

Honestly? I think there is one way that would give te best result: be direct.

If you are interested, tell him: hey, I really want to get together with you and hope the feeling is mutual. What do you say?

[KolonKby]

I don't know if I would consider myself shy, but I can talk about my hobbies for hoursss as long as the other person seems even semi-interested 😂

[FilmGuy93]

Do everything you would do to flirt with a bolder guy, except you be more ready to take charge with the shy guy.

[Calenderagressive]

I guess be polite and call them cute and stuff I don't really know which is kinda surprising since I'm shy

[Guy13]

Force him to do fun things..

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Initiate everything and be more blunt than flirty

[BloodCursedDeviant]

You go directly to his peen.

[Asker]

lmao, dude, noooo