Am I being ghosted or does he just not like me anymore?

[Anonymous]

This guy I like well we would text during the day and he’d text me back really fast but I don't know at night after a certain time every time I’m left on delivered and will be on delivered unless I reach back out? Am I being ghosted or is he playing games? Why is he all of a sudden doing that when he wasn’t before

[calvinP]

depends. If it is just what you wrote he may be winding down. Personally I set my phone to not alert me after a certain time so I can get ready for the night and only let family or "official girlfriend" message. But if me messages fast in the day mostly he likes you too most likely

[Asker]

I think he’s playing with me lol

[calvinP]

If that's the case move on

[Sixgunsound]

University just started for a lot of people, is he a student? Have there been any changes in family job or social circles? It is entirely possible he found someone else. Maybe he’s just that clueless and observant. Without any more information it’s really hard to make a judgment call.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[JPresidente]

Could be work or school or he goes to bed early.

[Asker]

It’s the 3rd time tho and he never will reply to me unless I reach out

[JPresidente]

Other reason could be he’s bored with you. I know that sounds terrible. I’m sorry but it’s a possibility.

[Asker]

Yea I think so too but I don't know whether to text him or to not

[JPresidente]

I would recommend that you not contact him and wait. Make him wonder what you are doing and where you are. If he likes you, eventually he will reach out to you. It makes you more desirable if he thinks you aren’t as available to him.

[Asker]

But it’s been days 😭😭

[JPresidente]

It’s possible he’s found someone else. Did he ever express any feelings for you?

[JPresidente]

Did you sleep with him?

[Asker]

No and no lol but we got sexual through text and sent some nudes then said he has a girlfriend then told me to keep it friendly so he don’t get in trouble

[Asker]

So I been staying only friends

[JPresidente]

Sounds like he got hit with guilty feelings after talking with you so he’s cut back talking to you. Could also be the girlfriend found out about you. This sucks. Has he indicated he wants to make it work with her? I guess this probably puts you in a mistress type role. Sounds like you have feelings for him?

[Asker]

I do a lot but I don't know if he likes me or hates me I’m very confused and don’t wanna spam him with questions

[Asker]

Could he be ghosting me
Cause I don't know

[JPresidente]

It sounds like maybe he was starting to like you and he ghosted you because of the guilt since he has a girlfriend so he’s shutting it down. Sorry this has happened to you.