I’m new to my hospital job and for a few weeks I noticed a guy always watching and staring at me from afar. He would linger near the main lobby where I work. One day, I was walking from a different floor and I noticed him walking down the hallway. He stopped to say hi and say “You must be new around here”, he never seen me around, and wanted to make small talk.
I didn’t have time to get into much so I kept the conversation short within a few seconds. Time goes on and I noticed he would find reasons to be near or greet. I stay to myself and don’t go out of my way to say hi because I don’t want to put any thoughts of anything in a guy’s head.
Last night he walked in and I him, put my head down, and he was glancing as he walked by. I went to for my lunch with my purse and as I’m leaving he turns the corner and we see one another. I greet him and he slows down his pace. He asks me what time am I leaving, I tell him, and he doesn’t say much. I ask him in return and he mentions any time he’s just taking the overtime shift. I simply say “Okay, that’s good” and I sorta stay behind him as he walks ahead.
He’s a decent looking guy but I wouldn’t say I’m “interested” yet. I’m getting familiar with everything and I want to know the motive behind his behavior?
Is my Male Co-Worker being friendly or is he Interested?
Stop treating us like women. If you didn’t respond positively to him in a convincing way, you will say I’m wrong. Stop treating us like women. I am almost certain that I know what’s going on here. You are there so you are better to judge ⁉️
Okay. He is Risking. You overthink and apply woman logic. Until you make him secure, he will ghost and you’ll never get guys…. We’re not talking unless you ask him out.
Yea seems like it. I worked a few days ago and i seen him staring at me from afar as we’re walking down the hallway on opposite sides. We greeted on another. 2 minutes later we both turned the same corner and there was definitely a situation of locking eyes but I didn’t want think too deep
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